zenmewanhuijijiangfenshoudehunyinzairichangrichangshenghuo,fuqizhijiannanmianhuichanshengfenqi,youshihouqingxuguojixiakenengtilihun。danshi,dangpingjingxialaihou,henduorenkenenghouhuimoji,danyouyidanjiangchuliyijiuzhendekeyimaixiangzhongdianzhan。neiyang,zaijianglelihunhou,womenyinggaiwanhuilaogongni?xiamian,jiangjieshaosizhongshiyongdefangfabangzhuzijijiejuezheiyiwenti。
1、呈现真情。

zairichangrichangshenghuo,hebupinfandebiaoshuduilingyibandeqingyi,zheinengzhengmingniyiranshenaizheziji,nengrangduifangkanjiannidezhenzhiqinggan。neiyang,duifangjiuhuiyishidaoleniyiqianmingquetichudelihunzhishiyishidehenhua,nibingbuzhongxindexiwangliyi。ruguonizhanshichuzhenqingshi,yibankeyibianruanduifangdexin,chufeishinimenzhijiandeganqingyijingchuxianbijiaoyanzhongliefeng,huoshiliyizaoyidaozhishuangfangchanshenggehedaobukewanhuidechengdu。jibianruci,nitongyangkeyigenjuduozhongfangshilaichuandanibingbushizhendexiangliyi,niyiranshenaizheziji,shebudelikaita。
2、真诚道歉。
jiduifangtanchengdizhiqian,chengrenzijiguocuo,youqishineixiehenyoukenengshangdaoaiqingyinmideyanyu,birutilihun。zhiqiandeguochengdangzhong,yaoyaobaochizhenxinshiyi,nengrangduifangkanjiannidechengxin。ruguoduifangjuedenidedaoqianshizhenxinde,tawangwanghuixuanzekuanrong,yinweitamingbainibingbushizhongxindexiwangliyi。neiyangdechulifangfajiaoweijiandanqiebuguoyushangdaoshuangfangdeganqing。
3、深入交流。
genjushenrujiaoliu,dajiakeyigengchongfendibiaoshubicizhijiandejianyi,yucitongshichuandiduifangzaidajiaxinlidebiyaoxing。zheizhonggoutongjiaoliuyouzhuyuzengqiangnimendeganqing,suiranouerxiaomocahuirangnimenlinshishengshu。danshi,zaizhenzhidejiaoxinyihou,nimennenggouzhonglianmeihaodeaiqing。zhongjiu,keyiganshoudaobicizhijiandeqingyi,shiweixihunyinshenghuodezhongyaojishi。chufeishizaizhengchaohoushuangfangtilihun,buranzheizhonggoutongjiaoliuzhihuijiashennimenzhijiandeganqing。
4、从容应对。
zaihunyinshenghuozhong,ouerzhengchaoheqingxubengkuizaisuonanmian。danzhongyaodeshi,buyaoba“liyi”dangzuoyigeyansurenzhendeyitilaikandai。guodurenzhenwanchengzheileiweixie,henyoukenenghuiranglingyifangzaochengzijizhenzhengxianglihundegulv。rangshijianchongdanzheiyiqie,fangzhizaidutanji,zheiyangduifangkenengzhihuibanidehuashizuohenhua。neiyang,dajiajiuhenyoukenengzhonghuomeimanhunyinrichangshenghuo。
er、hunyinshenghuozaoshoujiongjing,zenyangzhongliantianciliangyuan?
fuqizhijianfashengzhengzhiwukebimian,danhenduofuqizaizaoyuchongtushitongchangjieshuhunyin,danshilihunzhihouhouhuimojixintaiquejiezhongerlai。yiner,dangganqingchuxianwentishi,womenyingdangfangzhibulizhisheqi,ershiyinggaijijixunzhaowanliuzhifa。neiyang,daodigairuhezhonglianyouliangdehunyinguanxini?lejiexialiewudazhongyaozhuanyejineng,jiangxianzhutigaohunyinxiufudechenggongdejilv。

学会原谅
zaibuduanzhengjiuhunyindeguochengzhong,shouxianrentongbingkuanshuzijihelingyibansuofandecuowu。zheiyeshijiejuehunyinwenti、zengjinfuqiganqingdeguanjianyibu。ruoyizhichenmiyuduilingyibanwangribuzhengquedezhize,neijiufenzhinengbuduanshenhua,jinerdaozhibicizhijianshengshu。
zhenchenggoutongjiaoliu,zhengshiwenti。
zaihunyinshenghuozhong,jiarucunzaidewentiqiebujinxingjiaoliu,fanerhuirangnantigengfuza。yiner,danghunyinshenghuomianlinkunnanshi,dajiaxuyaoxuehuizhudongyulingyibanxianghujiaoliu,zhenxinchengyibiaodazijidanyouheyaoqiu。zaigoutongdeguochengzhong,yingbimianshiyongchizehuoweixiedekouqi,ershiyinggaiyaobaochiwenwanhezhencheng,zheiyangcainenggenghaodiyulingyibangoujianqixinlingdeqiaoliang,yiqimianduibingchulihunyinzhongdewenti。
聆听的美学
zaihunyinshenghuodejiaoliuzhong,qingtingyouweizhongyao。danglingyibanbiaodazijidexiangfahuoganshoushi,womenyingdangxixinqingting,shenkelijiebierendexiangfayuxuqiu。genjulingting,womenkeyigenghaodibawobanlvdexinlihua,congerxiangzheruhemanzutamendexuqiu,bingyutamenxieshoubingjianchuliwenti。
营造新风貌
zenmewanhuijijiangfenshoudehunyinweilenengwanjiuhunyin,womenyinggaishenrufansheng,jiuzhengzishendebuzu,bingsuzaochuyigequanxindeziwo。neiyang,airencainenggengjiazhenxidajia,lianggerendeganqingcaikenengzhangjiu。

meiyourenkeyixiaiheyouhuaixiguanderenzaiyiqi,fenkaitongchangyinererlai。danzhiyaowomenxiangyaogenggaibingbuduanfazhan,jianxinairenhuizaicijienadajia。
yunyonghexiezhidaojiejuehunyinlidemaodun
ruohunyinshenghuozaoshouzhongdayanlidaji,ruzaoshoudisanzhe,zaochenghunyinwentiwufajiejue,bufangchangshifufuhezuodefangshilaiwanhuihunyin。yikaorongqiadenengliang,womenkeyituoshanchuzhihunyinlidegezhongmaodun,jinerfujianxingfumeihaodehunyinguanxi。zheizhongxingweiminjianbeishouqinglai,qiexiaoguomingxian。
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