婆媳之间老公们必须要铭记的12戒

 ruhechuli poxi guanxi?wojuede，poxizhijianjiaowang，zhangfusuanshizheyandian。xiangyaolingwaiyouzhemamahaiyangbannonghoudeaihelaopohuotongchangreqingdeai，poxizhijianlaogongmenbixuyaomingjixialie12jie!shenmeyangdepoxixiangchuzhidaobijiaohao?

diyijie： bubiyou“tiandimobushidebabamama”zheiyiyishi

 xuduolaogongmenhaoxiangchangyouzheileiyishi，erqiexiaijiangzheihuaguazaizuishang，yibiaotamenduibabamamadechongjinghe“shunxiao”。tebieshizaizaixifushoulemamadebiequhou，zheihuachuxiandepinlvshide，mingzhimamayouwu，quezhiganduixifushuo：tiandimobushidebabamama，tazaicuowudoushiwomama，jiuduorenyirenba!ruhechulipoxiguanxi?yincixifumenmanqiangyuanhenwucongxuanxie，zhinenganannanguochuilei，zhidaoduihunyinxinhan，youdejianghuihuitaochuhunyin。

dierjie： congwanhunneiyitianqi，qingjijiweizijiduannaihou

 zhiqianjiandaoguoyigezimeixiedegaozi，shuotazhangfuyouyubeiguidingfentanjiawuhuo，bianhewoshuo：zheiyiquanshijiehuanshiwomamaduiwomenshi!chukaijuedegaoxiaoyiwai，zhiyouchizhiyibizheileimeitianchang “shishangzhiyoumamahao”denansheng!woduizheileinanshengweiyidehuiyingshi：biejielehun，huijialequgenrangniguoxiabanshengba!

disanjie： biehaipabeibierenkouqilai“danibudao”dezheyangmaojiushiquzuorendeyuanze，bingweifumuzhimingshiyi

 “xiao”zuifeichangrongyibeibianchengbabamamayizhiernvdedamaozi，yaoshiernvbuzuncongzishen，babamamajiukutianmoleidema：zheigebuxiaozhizia，wobaiyangninia……!yinci，yibianweihubaoyangzishen“xiaozixiansun”de“zhimingdu”，nanshengmentongchanghuisheqizishenzuorendeyuanze，shishifeifeimohubuqing，haodaibufen。tebieshizaishizailaopohelaomafashengzhengzhidezhuangkuangxia，buwenqinghongzaobaibianjuedeshixifudeyiwu，bingbangzhebabamamachizexifu。

disijie： qingjijibangzhexifurongjinzishendejiazhong，erbingbushibangzheqinrendichuta

 nvxinghunhou，jindaoyigechedishengshudeziranhuanjing，zhinengzhangfushitazuiqinmijiechuderen，popobierendemouxiegerenxingwei，jinguanzhuguanxingshangjianghuishimeiyouguyide，quehuibeitajuedeshisunhaitadexingwei，zheishihoujiubixuzuozhangfudegaohaogoutongjiaoliudegongluqiaoliang，qingbubiyixindechizeta“bijiaomingan、duoxin、gongqiliangxiao……”，neiyangzongshirangxifugenzishenqinrenzhongjiandejianjuyuezouyueyuan，zuihoujiangtadichuzaizheiyidajiazuyiwai。

diwujie： jiarumamaheqizizainiyanqianmaiyuanlingyifang，qingbubizuochuanmaikefeng

 suyushuo“huizuodeliangbianman，burongyizuodeliangbianchuan”，liangbianmandenanshengshijiweiconghuide，tabujinnengqiadangderangliangnvduixianghudeweimanqiechuyuwuxingzhong，bingqiehuitiliangnvquyuexianghu，rangliangnvhuzenghaogandu，tuidongpopoxifudehexie。liangbianchuandenanshengshishifenyumeide，xuduopopoxifuyuanbenmeiyouduoshaodefenqi，jinjinmouxiexiaomoca，danlijingzhengzhongjiandeneigerendezhuandahou，xiaomocayehuinongchu“dahuomiao”，rangpopoxifudefenqiyuelaiyuejiqiruili、fanza。

diliujie： jianggaohaorendejiyujixifu，jiangzuohuairendejiyujiaojizishen

 conghuidezhangfuquehuijianggaohaorendejiyujixifu，lirumaihuoxiaoshunfumu，huoshinengtaobabamamaqinglaideshi，dourangxifusipolian，zishenshanyimian。shenmeyangdepoxixiangchuzhidaobijiaohao?jibianshizishenzuode，yehuigaozhibabamamashixifudeqingyi，juedaduoshuzuogonggongpopodehuiganjuexifuermingshili，meiyoudadaolitaoyanxifuer，danjinideaiqueburongyijiangdisihao。

diqijie： qingbubidangzhongzishenbabamamaduixifuhulaihequhuozhilingtaweilenizuoyiqieshi

 zheizhongzuofa，buguangrangzishenxifujuedelei，doushizaianshizhebabamama，huoshinibabamamahuilejiewei：niduixifubenzhijiuhaobuzaiyi，xifuzaizishenxinzhongzhongbenzhimeishenmefenliang，yincinicaineimebuzhongshita!nixiangzhe，liannidouneimebuzhongshinilaopo，nihaizhiwangnibabamamazhongshizheiyixifuerma?

dibajie： qingbiedangzhongzishenbabamamahuoqinrengenxifuzhengchao

 mouxieweikongtianxiabuluandebabamama，huoshimouxiehuduandebabamama，nidangzhongtamendemiangenzishenxifuzhengchaoshi，tamenhuibengchulaibangniyingduixifu，tamenneiyangyichanhe，bianjiangniheqizide“neibumaodun”zhuanhuanchenglegengjiafanzade“poxiguanxi”。

dijiujie： qingbubigujimamahuixianmubuzhi，bianhaipazaimamayanqianzhuyaobiaoxianwaiduixifudezhongshiyuguanhuai

 xuduojiapojianbukehaiziduixifuerhao，zheileimuqindeaishijiweipianjide，tajinjinzaichenzheaideweituorenlaikaolvduihaizideduzhanyu!keyuxiaodehaiziyibiananweimamadexin，xuyizaimamayanqianpaiji、hushixifu，haipagenxifutaiqinmijiechu……nanshengdangzhongmamaneiyangzuo，wojuedeshizaishiaixiongsha，culudecaitaxifudezizunxinheqinggan!

dishijie： qingbubiheqinpenghaoyouzhongjianbingchipingjunzhuyi，rangtamenpeiyangtoujiquqiaodebuliangxiguan

 jiaruzhenshiyaoxiezhutamen，niyaoxiangaoqingchu“shouzhiyiyubibushangshouzhiyiyu”dedadaoli，erqiexiezhutamenbawobixudezhuanyejineng，erbingbushiyixunzhixiaojiatingquanyidanchunxingkaolvtamendewuzhiyuwang，erqieyingduixifudeweimanbaotiaoruleidechizexifu!

dishiyijie： qinghaohaodixiaoshunzishenbabamama，biejiangzishenduibabamamadexiaoshunzerenzhuanjiadaoxifushoushang

 neileidongzechizexifudanibudao，zishenquecongweiweibabamamazuoguoyicanfan，xihouyihuiyifukuzi，duanguoyihuixijiaoshuidenansheng，qingshoulongdajianeiyizhengtaoxuweidechouezuilian，xianfanshengyixiaxiazishenshibushitibabamamazuoguonaxie，zaishuoguidinglaopoba!

dishierjie： qingduinibabamamajiyuefuyuemuyiwanshuiduanping，bubirangxifu“jialezhangfuwangjileniang”

 zuoweixifuer，meiyourenhejiekoulaizulanzhangfuxiaoshungonggongpopo，yiyangde，zuoweizhangfu，meiyourenhejiekoulaizulanxifuxiaoshunyuefuyuemu。ninengyong“laowulaoyijirenzhilao”laiguidingxifuxiaoshunnibabamama，woxiangwenyixianizishennengfoubaozhengqishi，yitongyangdexintaikandaiyuefuyuemu?yeyou，kefouniyaodebabamamayeliangxinyidianer，yi“youwuyouyijirenzhiyou”dexintailaikandainilaopo?