中国传统婆媳关系如何维护：媳妇该如何讨好中国婆婆

 jiapozaihunyinchuanshuogushizhongyizhiyoubutaihaodexihagequ。dangnigangkaishikaolvdaojiangjiazhongyuhunyinjiehezaiyiqishi，shichangjingzhengheganshedejingdiangushishiwomenyoudianeryouyubuding。zhongguochuantongpoxiguanxiruheweihu?xifugairuhetaohaozhongguopopo?

一、中国传统婆媳关系如何维护：媳妇该如何讨好中国婆婆

 keshi，xianghenduomenghuanbandefeituxiangtong，huoxujiapojinjinwujiele。zhongguochuantongpoxiguanxiruheweihu?xifugairuhetaohaozhongguopopo?

 zhongsuozhouzhimuxingshizheizhongchonggaodeguandian，yinciyiqienvxingxinlide，youshi(renmendeyumen)xiangwaibiaoshumouxiedanyoujiangtadehaizidiujiyigenvrenshihendazirande。keshi，bubirangzheileidongtaixingyuelaiyuegengqiang，renmenshirenkehunyinchanshengdebianhua，bingduiniqidaizishenyujiapodeguanlianzenyangjinxingchiduiwaikaifangxintai。

 shenshouchengzandejiazhongdongtaixingyanjiuzheheshehuixuejiabianxielehenduoyouguanjiapoguanlianzhutifenggedeshujie，ta wei“ meiridianxunbao ” chushileneiyangdetiyi：“jiarujiapogengyoujianghuizhongshijiexian，taxiangxintajiangzaicibianchengjiazhongzhongshourenzunzhongheguanjiandebufen，erqieninengqinfenjiangtarongjinniderichangshenghuozhong。“

 zheihaoxiangshiyigebijiaojiandandefangan，danrutongyiqiejiehun(huoyuanlaodelaopo)huiduinishuodeneiban，weichinidehunyinyunidemilkaixinyoushihoujianghuijubeiquweixing。danzaishizheyunindemilchuangjianguanlianshi，shideqishidianshizhongshi。ruguoniyouzhelexianghulijiedelianghaojichu，qitadejiuhuibiandeyuelaiyuefeichangrongyi。

01.tiqianzhunbeihaoyuqinrensheqizishenshijian。

 haode，huoxuzheiyibingbushineimafeichangrongyi。shijishang，zheijianghuishiyunichuangjianyouliangguanliandejiaonandeyibufen。ninengxiangqi2019nianniyingdangyunideqinrenyikuaierduguoshengdande100gehenhaodeyuanyin(erqieliniandoushilailin)，danhunyinguidingnijiangquanbuzheizhongfangdaoyimian。2gejiazhongdoubukeyishizhonghuodedajia2ge。

 zhengtiguihuahehuamianzhiliangjiangyouliyuguanlifangfaduijiazhongshijiandeqidai。yunijiangyaobianchengdelaogongzuozhelai，fanganzaidutedechuantongjierihezhutihuodongzhongduguo1nian。nihuiqusheihuandushujia?shenmeshiriduinidelaogongyuqinrenyiqizhiguanzhongyao，fanzhiyiran?suihoujilianggemamatuisongyifengdianziyoujian，rangtamenlejiezheiyifangan。yigeyouxiaodemilhuishangxizheileigongpinggongzhengfenpaijiazhongshijiandeyouxinfangshi ，ninengfangzhiyinweiqingyinqidaierzaochengdeyiqiezuihoushike。

02.shiyongyijiaziyiqideshijiandaliang。

 ruguonibaituolegongxiangduteshujiadezuai，jingxinanpaijiazhongshijianyigedaziranerqingqingsongsongdexiayijieduan!bubidenghounidexindemamayaoyueni，bianchengdiyiweifenpeijiatingjucanderen，bingducunidelaogonggengjingchangdijitamenmatongdianhua。xunsunidemiljiuburongyiganjuenidaiquletadehaizi，zhishijiliniyuqinrenyikuaierjilidaliangdeshijian。

 keshi，jiarumeiyiciniyizhizaimilshenpangshi，jiazhonglianluodouhenjiannan，tahuichangshirenweitadehaizi，woxianzaidelaogong。tashihenduomilkongbugushidelaiyuanyu。yibianjiji，tiyini“tishinidelaogongzaimamayanqianxiangnibiaoshuqingganbingrenkenidequanweixing。”

 zuihou，xuduojiapo，xifuerxianghuyicunxiangyaonidelaogongcongzimianshiyanweituoren。genjuyidianeryuliao，tanenggoufeichangrongyidibaozhengtadegerenxingweirenkebingzhongshitaxingmingzhongde2geguanjiannvshi，yiner，shitayutadehudongjiaoliugongzuoyalihuanjie。

03.taconglaibusheqiunizuohaozijitaoyanzuodeshi

 renmenhenduoren duirenmendeyinqinjiaodadecuobaiqiyishitamenbuyizhaorenmenjiazhongdefangfabanshi。yuanyijindaorenmendelaogongjiazhongbinggangkaishizheichanggaige，bawozhumouxiejiyubingqiangdiaomouxiegaoxiaolvbugaodewupinhenyouhuo。keshinikeyiweileniyujiapodeguanlianzuodezuishiqingjiushishuosuiyueran。zuishaozaigangkaishi。

 nindemiljianghuihuiqinfenchuangjianjiazhongwenhuayishu，chuantongshihemo。erbingbushichangshihuihuaixiankuang，qinfenrongrutamendeyishizhuxing。nixuexipeixunshengzihetonghuazuoyongdeqinfenburongyibeihulve!

04.jixubaochiqianxundexintai

 yaodangxinjifenghediaopidezhize，feichangshiruguonichangshijinidejiapohaodeneishihou。shuozhenhua，jibianshijiaoqingdezhizehaikeyixunsushuailao，bingqie，jinguannidelaogongjianghuihuijienata，dantamuqinjianghuibenzhitaoyanta。dangniliangdeqinrenyiqishi，tabixunulifujiadeqinfennenggoubianchengtajiaodadelaladuizhang，erbingbushibianchengjianduanzideshouling。

 hetaxiongmeidediaopicichuoyikuaierxiao，danshimingquebiaoshiniyizhizaitashenpang。zhenduinilaijiang，bingbushimaiyuannilaogongdezaluanxiguanxingherangrenxiaochendepihao(jibianzheirenhedouhenquwei)，haiyaobawozhumeiyigejiyuduinishuodemilnilaogongshigehaoren。xianeryijiannibuyuanyouyunidekankanertanerzhaobudaofangxiang，dantadouhuijiqingditingjiantadehaizizaoshouqizhonghezhongai。

05.shezhiquelidejiexian。

 zhongguochuantongpoxiguanxiruheweihu?xifugairuhetaohaozhongguopopo?furenhemuqinzhongjiandejiaolvbuanguanlianyiban shiyinweiguanlianzhongqianquequelidejiexiandaozhide。jinguanyixiejiapohenqingxitadezhimingduzainaerhuobao，danbuzaihuobaodediqu，bierenjianghuibixumouxiezhidao。

 xuduorenchushileneiyangdetiyi：“dangnidezhangmuniangzaiganyu，bubiyanchiyutataolunta。shixianshezhixianding，neiyangbuliangxiguanjiuburongyigubuzifeng。”

 ruguonikeyi(lixianghuazhuangkuangxia，zainiwanhunyiqian)，niyunidelaogongyingdangtantaodajiaguanlianzhongdejiexian。jueceniqidainiyubabamamadeguanliankanshangqubirushuo，jiqiniqidaitamenzenyangcanjianidehunyin。

 dangjiexianbeiqintunshi，genjujinidelaogongqinqiejinideguanlianjiexianqingchu，weichiniyunanshengmuqindeguanlian。chukaishezhijiexian，yeyaoxiangfangfajinidejiapozainidehunyinzhong。jiaruniyizhizaishidudeneishihouxiangtazhengxunjianyibingjiangtabaohanzaiguanjianshike，tajiubudakenengzaiguanlianxianshangxianxiatanxian。