女人如何与婆婆相处友好：如何应对一个有心计的婆婆

 niganjuenidejiapoxihuannima?huoshiniyexihuannidejiapo?poxizhijianjiaolvbuanshenzhishiyoufenqimaodun!xialieshininbixuzhangwodeyouguanjiejuenantijiapodeshier，jiqiyunindepoxizhijianchulichangjianwentidefangshi 。nvrenruheyupopoxiangchuyouhao?ruheyingduiyigeyouxinjidepopo?

一、女人如何与婆婆相处友好：如何应对一个有心计的婆婆

 “wozaoyiwanhun25nianle，hewodejiapoyouxuduofenqi，”jianghuishuoruheyingduinantijiapo，zheibingbuyi。liangnianqian，wogaoqingchuweishadejiapofanganwo，weihetayizhizheibankeke。

 zhilejiedaozhizheiyinantideyuanguzairenmendeguanlianzhongzaochenglejidadezhuanbian。wozongsuanxuehaolezenyangyujiapogoutongjiaoliujiaowang，erburongyizaiwoyanqianfapiqiyoukuyounao。“

 yijuninyujiapodeguanlian，chulininjiaponantideheyouxiaodefangfaqiyijiushishuozhaodaozaochengnantideyuangu。shiyigejianyidewuhuihuanshiganqingwuhui，huanshibiedeshierchanshengle?zhaodaojianghuiyouliyunichuliyujiapodefenqiguanlian。

 xiabian，gongxiangleweihetadejiaposhifenfanganta - taweijiejuehunyinzhongdejiaponantichushilezhenguidetiyi。nvrenruheyupopoxiangchuyouhao?ruheyingduiyigeyouxinjidepopo?

1.询问你的家婆她为何喜欢你

 dangniduinidejiapojiangguoneiyangdehuagaizenmeban?“wozuotianwanshangzaiyongcanshijuedejiaolvbuan。wozuoguonaxiedezuihuodajiaonideshima?woxianzaiwuxuhuiyingwo。qinghuaxieshijiankaolvkaolv。womenyiqitanyitandaliang。jiaruyounaxiewonengxiezhurenmenjinkuaijiaowang，qinggenwoshuo。“

 kaolvdaolijidanfeiduikangxingdefangshi - bingjidenidejiapoburongyigaohaosisuohuoshenzhongdafudetiqianzhunbei。zheijiushishuoweihejitashijiansisuoshijianhaoshier。nidejiapojianghuiyaoshuomeiyoucuo，bingjiangnituizou。zhenshirucidehua，qingfanfunindemenkaiqi。jiarutaxiangyao，nihenyuanyiweilaiyutagoutongjiaoliu。rangtahaiyoujihuisisuozenyangyunigoutongjiaoliu。

 shundaishuoyixiaxia，tashinvshiquxiangyuzenyangchulipoxizhijianmaodun - renmenyuanyilejieweiherenmenbubeixiaihuobeiai。yucitongshi，nanshengtongchangbuyonglejieweihetamendejiapocunyoupoxizhijiannanti。nanshengsongsongjianyutamendeyinqinfashengzhengzhi，erbingbushidanyouzenmehuifashengzhengzhi。shaohouhuixiangjie。

2.想要听取意见家婆的提议

 rangzishenchuzaibeizhizehuohuijuedebuweishikongbude!dangnixunwennidejiapo，dangniganlenaxiedezuihuoshitaxinshenbuan，jiufeichangrongyizaoshousunhai。tajianghuihuijingongni......huoshitajianghuiyongdaochuhuyiliaodewupinrangniyiwaijingxi。nidejiapodenantijianghuihuiyuelaiyuehenzao......huoshitamenjianghuihuiyuelaiyuegengqiang。

 dangnijuecexunwennidejiapo，dangniganlenaxiedezuihuoshitaxinshenbuandehua，nijiutiqianzhunbeichaohaotingtingdao。jibiannijuedenilejieweiheniyutabutaihao(biru，nidejiapoxihuanni，youyujinilaiyuanyuzhiqianhunyindexiaohai，huoshitajuedeniyouxianxuanzekaolvdaonidegongzuozhongerbingbushinidejiazhong) - qingtingquyijiantayounaxieyingshuode。nijianghuihuiduitadefanyingjuedechayi; ninaizhijianghuihuixuedemouxieyouguannizishenjiqinizenyangbeitarenjiandaodexinwupin。

3.考虑到给你的老公和他母亲谈话内容

nvrenruheyupopoxiangchuyouhao?ruheyingduiyigeyouxinjidepopo?zheiyijiejuejiaponantidefangfajianghuibuyini，tashuo：

 “zaiwowanhundeneiyishunjian，wodelaogonghetaniangyikuaierzuozhelaigaozhitabubineimazhizewo。jieguo，wodejiapoduiwomenhenduonianle。danshi，jinqi，yinweinianjiheshenxinjiankangnanti，wolaogongbuyuanzaiduyumuqinjiangchi。

 yinciwodejiapozaidufanganwo，zheiyaowokubukanyan。duiwomeneryan，jiejuejiapodeshifangshi jiushishuohushita，quandoubuyongshuo。wokewangnagenianqingrenkeyizaicifashengbingzhaoliaozuoshengyi，dantatinglei。yinweiwodanyoutadeshenxinjiankang，youyutameibanfajiandaowoliangmuqindekangzheng。“wobingwobuhouhuiyulaogongwanhun。

 “wojinjingaobudongwogonggongpopozhongjianguanliandedongtaixing。jiarubujiuwanhunerqierujinjiejueyigeyouzenghendejiapo，wonengzaigangkaishijiuzhidingshenxinjiankangdejiexian。yinweiwojiliwodelaogongzaibuyiyangdedachengshixunzhaozheifengongzuozhong，naizhibubiwodejiapoxunzhaogongzuozhong。wonenggengtiejinwodefumu。”

 jiarunishiyigexindeerxifuzaiqinfenyuyigenantijiapoxiangchu，neimajianghuishuo：“zuiguanjiandeshishandaiziji。baozhengnijiageyigenenggourangnianquanxing，weihuni，guanzhuni，bingkeyiweileniyunidexiaohaizhanchuqudenansheng。“

4.掌握您将会终究找不着家婆难题的缘故

 chulizuijiannandejiaponantidefangshi ，weihenvshihaoxiangbinanshiyoudaliangde“jiazhongpoxizhijiannanti”?“nvshihuaxiaodeshijianbinanshidaliang，pouxihedanyourenjijiaowang，”“ yunidejiapohuoerxifujiaowangdemimi ”yishudechuangzuozhedikuomanmenchuang·bulanenshuo。“zhishenshiwaidepingjiahuowangquedeganxiexinnenggouxunsuwenzhuan。

 zai“ buganxindiyouguan”zhong，bulanengongxiangleyigefengqudejiapo，xifuerhelaogong/haiziderengeleixing - cong“wanshidawai”dao“caiyitangna”dao“qianxinwankuzhengtuo”shidiwen。taxiangninzhanxianlezenyangjianbieninzishenjiazhongzhongdezhonglei，bingbiaoshuzenyanggenjuhaoyongdechangyonggongjuchuliguanliannanti，weijiapoheguinvchushigaijintamenguanliandezhuanyonggongju。

 bulanenhaishuo，dangnvshiduijiapobutaihaoshi，jiaolvbuandexintaihuitisheng，nantihuixunsushenggao。chanshengdikang - danbingbushiyizhiyouguanzhenshichanshengdeshier。zongdelaishuo，nanshengbingbushichangchangsikaoguanliannanti。dangmaodundequechanshengshi，tamenquxiangyusongsongjianerbingbushijiejuemaodun。zheijiushishuoweihenanrenaixiangnvxingneibanjiejuejiapodenanti。

5.尊重你的家婆，但不必让她凌虐你

 “dangnizuowodexinnianglaogongdejiazhongshi，wodounianqing，chunzhen，”jianghuishuo。“henduonianlai，woqinfenyaowodejiapoxiangwoxiangtong。renmendeguanlianyouguoduanshijianhuifeichanghao，danzhihoutahuranyuelaiyuezhizehuozuochugengyouyiyidepingjia。tadekunaoheduiwomendebuzhongshizaoyimochulewolaogongdexiongmeihetamendexiaohai。wocongmeixiangguowohegonggongpopodeguanlianhuixiangneiyangwanbi。“

 nvrenruheyupopoxiangchuyouhao?ruheyingduiyigeyouxinjidepopo?dangnichangshijinidejiapowoyiweixiangtong，nijiangsangshiduizishendezhongshi - tahuisangshiduinidezhongshi。xiangrangtaxiai(naizhixiai!)nihendaziran。niaizhenidelaogong，nilejietaaitadehaizi，niyaobianchengzheiyijiazhongdebufen。keshi，changshirangzishenyuelaiyuekaixinhetaoxibingfeichulinijiaponantidefangshi 。