麻辣婆媳关系容易失调的主要原因

 “malapoxi、xifuerdemeihaoshidai、wodeyemanpopo……”poxidianshijuwuhuabamen，bijiaoyanzhongfanyingchu“ poxizhijian ”shiliangzhichuntianrandebunengdiaohede“jiejimaodun”。

 《malapoxidianshilianxuju》shicengnianpingzhixingdaoyan，lishaohongshezhidejiatingzhenqingju，youguiyalei、wujun、helin、cengbaoyidengchuyan。malapoxidianshilianxujuyu2006nian7yue12rixianshenyangshiyitao。xushule1geyibandesishitongtangjiatingdisandaipopoxifudeenenyuanyuan。

 《malapoxi2》doushicengnianpingzhixingdaoyandejiatinglunliju，cengbaoyi、guiyaleidengcanjiabiaoyan。《malapoxi2》benjujinjinweiraopingchangrendeyishizhuxing，jibenshangsuoyouren、meiyijiatingdoujianghuipengdaodebubianhenanti、kaixinhexingfukuaile，genju“xiangla”zheiyijuede、kougan、jiaoduheguanxi，congfuqixingshenghuo、poxiyishizhuxingheyijiaziguoshenghuodejimaosuanpi，genjudui“yinshinannv”zhongjiazhiguan、ganqingfangfaheshehuidaodedeshanbiandetanxun，zhangyangzhonghuawenhuachonggaoxingfudesixiangdaodejianshehepinxing，zansongzhenshanmei，zansongziliziqiangdepinbojingshenshizhihetuanjiehuzhujingshenshizhi。

 suyushuo：“poxiqin，quanjiarenhe”。zheijuhuayongyoushuangxiangdeneihan。diyishishuopoxidepeihemoqishifoulijiweihaizhequanbujiatingzhongbiederenjijiaowang，rufuqiganqing、qinzigoutong、xiongmeiguanxijiqizusunguanxi。dierjiushizhipoxizhijianshijiatingneiburenjijiaowangzhongzuibicizhijian、zuikunnandezheizhongguanxi。

一、麻辣婆媳关系非常容易失衡的关键缘故：

1、关系的多样性。

 jiatingjichuguanxiyouerzhong：zheizhongshifuqiganqing，zheizhongshiqinzigoutong，erzhezuchengjiatingdegouzaojiben。malapoxiguanxizaijiatingrenjijiaowangzhongyouqiduoyangxing。tajibingbushihunyinshenghuodeguanxi，yewuxueyuanguanxidelianluo，zhishierzhongguanxiweizhongjiegongsijieweidutedeguanxi。

 yiner，zheileirenjijiaowangyiwuqinzigoutongsuojubeidekekaoxing，erwufuqiguanxisuojubeidejinmixing，zheishiyouqinziyoudeguanxihefufudeguanxidetuokuanerchanshengde。jiarujiejuedehao，jiapohexifuerfenbie“aiwujiwu”，guanxijiuhuihemu。keshijiarujiejuebudangzhichuzehuishipopoxifuchuxianliefeng，wufaqutianbu。

2、权益矛盾。

 poxitongyangde1gejiatingzhongyishizhuxing。youxianghusuoshu，daziranyejiuyongyouxianghujingjifazhanquanyi，biciyedazirandouqidaijiatingkeyishiyexingwang。tashipoxiliyiyizhideyibian。

 danlingwaiyejingchangzaijiatingshiwudeguanliquan、fenpeiquandenggegelingyuchanshenglemaodun，chuxianlemaodun，naizhihuigouxindoujiao。jibianshijiapoyuxifuerxianghuqinjianchijia，yinweibicifenbieyingxianglibutong，kaolvdaonantishijiaobuyiyang、bixubuyiyang，yefeichangrongyichanshengmaodun。

3、互相接受欠佳。

 poxiyuanxianfenbieyishizhuxingzaibuyiyangdejiatingdangzhong，douyouzishendeyishizhuxingdibeijingtu、yishizhuxingdishengzhangxixing，errujinpoxizaiyijianyikuaieryishizhuxing，zheizongyou1gezhujiandezhangwo、huxiangrongrudequanguocheng。jiarurongrudeqianjia，xianghubukeyijieshoulingyifang，bianhuishiguanxiehua，maodunsansheng。

4、中介公司失调。

 zaimalapoxiguanxizhong，haiziqizheshifenguanjiandezhongjiegongsigongxiao。jiaruhaizizhongjiegongsigongxiaochongfenfahuidehao，zenenggoutishengpopoxifuganqinglianluo，jiaruhaizizhongjiegongsigongxiaochongfenfahuibutaihao，zefeichangrongyibianchengmaodundejujiao，chuxian “shuangmianshoudi”dejiongjing。

 fuqijianzhongjiuzaizhutihuodong、zhunbei、zhichujiqixiangchudengcengmianyongyoudaliangdexiangtongdian，ererzihemuqinjiangexinyidai，zaixintaizhuangtaishangcunyouzhechabie，neiyangjiufeichangrongyidaozhihaizizhongjiegongsigongxiaodeshidiao。jiarumamabulejie，jiuhuizaocheng“qulexifuerwangjileniang” zheileixintaizhuangtai，wuyiweihaiziduimuqindeganqingbeierxifuduozoule，erqiannuyuerxifu。