婆媳关系不好怎么办？教你婆媳相处之道

 hunhou poxiguanxi shihenduorentoutengdewenti。poxizhijianchulideqiadaohaochu，erzhekeyixiangmunvyibanxiangchurongqia，chulibudangyekenengjianmianshiruchoudiyinciduiyuyigejiatinglaishuopoxidashiruhejiejueshizhiguanzhongyaode。neimerongqiadepoxixiangchuzhidaoshishenmeyangdeni？

一、双方要好好说话

 yigejiayaorongqia，jinyincaibaobingbushizuizhongyaode，gengzhongyaodeshijialiderenshifoudounenghaohaodishuohua。yaogaohaopoxizhijiandeguanxi，shouxianshipoxiliangrenyaobicihaohaoshuohua，laorenbuyidingxiwangnijiduoshaoqianhuowuzhicaifujita，danshitaquehenxiwangyourennenghaohaogentashuoshuohua，tingtatantanxin。nianqingrenyebuyidingyaolaorendesha，danshibiciruguoyijianmianjiuchaode，nenghaohaoshuohuama，zenmenengrongqia？suhuashuo，chushoubudaxiaolianren，ruobicidouxiangjingrubin，zenmechaodeqilai？

二、多挑优点，少挑刺

 jinwuchizu，renwuwanren。shirenzongyouquedian，buyaozongtiaobicidequedianshuo，duizhangbei，tebieshilaoren，tichuyaoqiuhuojianyiyidingyaozhuyifangshifangfa。ruguokeyixianshuotaxihuantingde，yaotichupipinghuojianyi，yaoqiu，yexianzanmeiyixiapopodeyoudian，rangtakaixinde，tishayaoqiuhuojianyidourongyixie。zheidianfanguolaipopoduixifuyeshiyong。

三、多为对方着想

 duoweiduifangzhexiangshipoxixiangchuzhidao,fashengchongtuhuomaodunshi，duozhanzaiduifangdejiaoduxiangxiang，rupopoduiwobumanshifouwozhendezuojiawufangmianyoudianlan？xifubuxihuanwozheigepopo，shifouwozhendetaitiaocitailaotaole？duoguanxinxialaorenshenghuo，duotiliangguanaixiaxifuqinggan，doukeyigaishanbicideguanxi。

四、多做奉献， 少索取

 buyaoyiweidikenlao，yebuyaoyiweidikenyou。buyaofanshiyilaipopoquzuo，yebuyaofanshidouyilaixifuqugan。buyaopopoyouqianzijijiuzongsuoqu，yebuyaoyiweishadouxiangxifusuoyao。xifuyinggaipingliangxinshanyangpopo，danshitameiyouzheigeyiwu，yinweitabushipoposhengchubingyangdade，popoyinggaiaihuxifuhesunmen，danshitameiyouyiwuyangxifu，gengmeiyouyiwuyidingyaobangniyanghaizi。zheishipoxidashihexiezhidao.

五、巧用老公（儿子）这个纽带

 youshenmejianyihuoyaoqiuyaotichushi，dakebubiqinzichuma，laogongzuoweierziqutan，wangwangbinitangengyouyong，erqiekenenghuiyouniyixiangbudaodejingxihuomeimiao。zuoweipopoyaopipingxifuhuoyoushenmejianyihuoyaoqiuyaotichushi，yekeyiliyongerzizheigeniudai，nikeyixianpipingerzi，zaiwanzhuandizhichuxifudebuzuzhichu，zheiyangxifubijiaorongyijieshou。qianwanbuyaoxiandechuchudoupiantanerzi，zheiyanghuirangerzihexifuxianrugangakunjing。dangranhuizuorendelaogongwangwanghenhuizaixifuhelaomazhijiandayuanchang。