婆媳论坛：如何处理婆媳关系

 poxiguanxi ziguyilaijiuhenfuza,rujinnvrendediweibuduanshishenggao,poxizhijiandemaodunyezaisuizhiershengji。poxichangyandao：“jiajiayoubennanniandejing”，qizhongyibenjiujiao“poxijing”。zaijiatingzhong，liangdairenzhijiandemaodunhechongtu，zuimingxianhezuichangjiandeshichuxianzaipoxiguanxishang.zaiyixiepoxiluntanhepoxixiaoshuozhong，womenjingchangkandaopoxibuhe，zheishishibushaorentiqijiuyaotoutanxidewenti。neimeruhechulipoxixiaoshuoguanxini？

一、学会聆听

 zaiyixiepoxixiaoshuozhongwomenhuifaxianxiangchurongqiadepopoyuxifujingchanghuibicilingting。。poxizhijianchujiuleziranhuichanshengmaodun，dangmaodunchanshengshiwangwangyouyifangbuhuilingting，tajizhejieshiyubianjie。qishi，zhixudengshangjifenzhonglingtingduifangbahuashuowan，pinghedihuishangyiju“shihuozhidaoledeng”jiunenghuajiemaodun。lingtingbujinzunzhongleduifanghainengtingqingshiqingdelailongqumai。

二、懂得换位思考

 zaiyixiepoxiluntanzhongwomenkeyizhidao，dangpoxifashengmaodunshibiciyaodongdehuanweisikaoru"haizitiaoshipopohuishuoxiaohaishenmedouyaochigeyougedeyingyang。mamajiubuyaojianhaizikujiushuobuaichijiubuchibei。“maodunjiuhuichansheng，niyaozhanzaipopodejiaoduxianghaizichideshiwuyuezashentideyingyangjiuyuenengdedaojunheng。huanweisikaobujinjiatinghexiehainengtixianchunidetongqingdali。

三、懂得付出

 xianzaidenianqingrenyouyizhongyilaishenshoufanlaizhangkoudexiguan。ren weipopoliyingxianglaomazibansihouzhezijihuozhenggejia，zhiyaoyouyidianzuodebuduijiubailianserenjiakanbudongdefuchu。yaozhidaorenjiasihoulaogongerzishiliyingdepingshenmerangrenjiasihouni，niyoubushirenjiadelaomazi。suoyiyaodongdefuchu，dongdefuchubujinyinglailejiatingdehemuhainengrangrenjiatihuidaonishiweihuiguorizidenvren。

四、不要过多的计较

 yaozhidaoliangdairenzhongjiuyouxiedaigou，shenghuoshangduoduoshaoshaoyouxiechaju。popobijiaojieyuerenweiyouxiedongxigaimaiyouxiedongxibugaimai，xifujiubuyaoguoduodejijiaobidingmeifenqiandoulaizibuyi。buguoduodejijiaobujinnenglajinbicijiandejulihainenghuajiemaodun。

五、学会赞美对方

 rendouxihuandedaorenke，poxixiaoshuozhijiangengbunengshao。dangpopoxinkuzuodefancaishikuashangyiju”zuodezhenhaochikanwodouchipanglebushao。“dangnidelaogongweijiazuojiawushidangzhepopodemiankuashangyiju“ganxiepopojiaodaoyoufangdeng。”zanmeibujinjirenrenkehainengxiaochugehe。

六、不要用异常的眼神看待对方

 poxihebulaizongyouyuanyin。tamenshichangkanbukuibici，taxianqipopolaoshentibuhaodeng。popoxianqixifuhuazhizhaozhandeng。qishi，renxinshixianghudenikanbukuirenjia，renjiashinengganjuedechulaide。duoyongdianzhenxinxiangdaibujinfenzhishaowairenyehennancongzhongtiaoshi。