中国式的婆媳关系怎么处理，怎么处理好婆媳关系

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？poxiguanxiyizhishizhongguorenwufahuibideqingganhuati。zaixuduojiatinglunlidianshijuzhong，xiaopinyemiaohuilepopoheerxidewenti，bingjieshilezhenshidejiatingzhuangtai。

 shuodaopopoheerxizhijiandeguanxi，xuduopopoheerxidouhuijinpilijin。zailianghaodefuqiguanxizhong，poxiguanxizhanhendabili。youxiejiatingyupoxiguanxilianghao，shenzhishenghuozaiyiqi，huxiangzhaogu，yinciyulingyibandeguanxijiangdedaohendadehuanjie。yixiepoxiguanxibuhaohuidaozhifuqimaodun，daozhijiatingweiji。

 suhuashuo，chengshideguanyuanhennantingzhijiawu，suoyiyouhaohemingzhidichulijiating、popoheerxizhijiandesuoshishifeichangzhongyaode。jiashiyigeaidedifang，erbushiyigehelidedifang。

 suiranpopoheerxizhijianmeiyouxueyuanguanxi，danjirantamenjinruleyigejiating，tamenjiuyinggaihuxiangzhaoguhezunzhong。duiyuxifulaishuo，popoyeshizijidezhangbei，xiangdangyufumu，suoyiwomenyinggaibiaoxianchuduifumudetaiduquaiduifang，zheiyangjiatingcainenghexie，jiatinghemu，wanshiruyi。

poxizhijianyinggairuhexiangchu？

第一，最好不要住在一起，距离产生美

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？jiehunhou，xuduojiatingxuanzeyufumuzhuzaiyiqi，yinweitamenmeiyouzugoudefangzihuonianqingfufu，yibianyourenzuofanhezhaogutamen。zheidaozhileliangdairenzaitongyiwuyanxiabutongdesixiangheshenghuoxiguanzaochengdemocahemaodun。

 yinci，zaitiaojianyunxudeqiantixia，zuihaoshifenkaishenghuo，youzijidedulikongjian，guozijidexiaoshenghuo。julichanshengmei。nikeyijingchanghuiqukannidefumu。nimendouyuelaiyuexiangnianduifang，yinweinimenyijinghenjiumeijianmianle。zheiyeyouzhuyubimianpoximaodun。

第二，多换位思考

 shouxian，wodeyuemuyelaiziwodeerxi。xiangxiangtadeyuemuduizijizuoleshenme。tabuhuitaikeke。woerxifuyeyinggaihuangejiaodukaolv。ruguowojianglaichengweiwodeyuemu，woxiwangwodeerxiruheduidaiwo。zheizhonghuanweisikaozaihendachengdushangjianshaolepoxizhijiandewenti。duocongduifangdejiaodusikaowenti，shaoqingxuhua。yidingmeiyouwufajiejuedejie。

第三，不要试图改变对方

 xuduonvhaicongxiaojiubeifumuchonghuaile。tamenyouzijideshenghuoxiguan。yinci，hunhoubuyaoshitugaibianduifang，yebuyaobazijidexiangfaqiangjiajibieren。nibixuzuoshenme。zheibujinbuliyupoxiguanxi，yeshijiatingxingfudeyinhuan。ruguozheishizhengquede，nikeyiyibuyibudimanmanyindao，buyaotaicongmang。

第四，多沟通多沟通

 jintiandepopoheerxijingchangzaiduifangmianqianyousuobaoliu，huozhebuyuanyizaiduifangmianqianchangkaixinfei，chongfenzhanshiziji。henduoshihou，tamenbuzhidaoduifangzaixiangshenme，yebuzhidaoshuangfangyinggaizuoxieshenmelaigenghaodicujintamenzhijiandeguanxi。

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？zaizheigeshihou，womenxuyaogengduodejiaoliu。womenyijingshiyijiarenle。womendezhenshixiangfakeyimendezhenshixiangfa，yizengjinbicideganqing。