婆媳关系里有三个关键时期，怎么处理婆媳之间的关系

 zenmechulipoxizhijiandeguanxi？poxiguanxishishijieshangzuinanchulideguanxi，yourenshenzhishuopoxitianshengjiushidiren，suoyi，zhiyaoyudaoyiqi，jiunanmianhuiyouyichangdazhan。

 danshi，wulunshipopohaishierxi，congyikaishijiubukenengduibicihuaiyoudiyi。yikaishi，lianggerenyidingxianghaohaoxiangchu。bijing，ruguolianggerenguanxibuhao，zuileidejiushitamenzuiguanxinderen。

 danzaixiangchudeguochengzhong，zongyouyifanghuiwuyizhongchujiduifangdeleidian，ranhouyinfapopoheerxizhijiandezhanzheng。zaipopoheerxizhijianjianlilianghaodeguanxibingburongyi。womenyinggaizhuyihenduodifang。

 bijing，jishishuangfangyikaishidouxiangheduifangbaochilianghaodeguanxi，erxidechuxianrengranhuirangpopojuedeerzibeiqiangle。suiranpopohuiweierzizhongyuyoulezijidexiaojiatingergandaogaoxing，dantayehuigandaoshiluo。

 zuoweiyigexifu，taturanjiajileyigenanren，shangmianhaiyoujigeyuanbenzhishimoshengrendezhangbei。zheizhongganjuehenganga。ruguozhangbeimenbiaoxianchuyixiepaichi，huozheguanlidegengduo，tamenhuizaierxixinzhongchanshenghenduoxiangfa。jishitamenbushuo，tamenyehuijizhuzheiyidian。

 yinci，yaochulihaopoxiguanxibingburongyi。ruguoyigejiatingxiangyaoxiaoshunhehexie，bixuchulihaopoxiguanxizhongdesangeguanjianshiqi。

第一阶段：恋爱期间，母亲是否会过度干涉儿媳关系

yaoxiangpopoxiaoshun，jiatinghemu，shouxianyaochulihaopoxiguanxizhongdediyigeguanjianshiqi。diyigeguanjianshiqishilianaiqi。

 womendouzhidao，zaimuqinyanzhong，tadeerziyongyuanshizuihaode。jishizaimeigerendeyanli，tadeerziyebushineimeyouxiu，danzaitadeyanli，tadeerzijueduiyouxiu，meiyourenpeideshang。

 yinci，taduierxideyaoqiuyehengao，ruguotiaojianxiangdang，takenengkanbudao。yinweiqiwangtaigao，dangtadeerzizhaodaoyigeputongdenvhai，batadaidaotamianqian，shuotayaojiehunshi，tadediyifanyingyidingshibutongyi，buzunzhongta。

 yinweizaitaxinli，tadeerziyinggaigenghao。shoujiaoyuchengdugenggao，zhangxianggenghao，jiatinggenghao，zheixiedoushitaduiweilaierxideyaoqiu，ererzidailaidenvrenjueduibunengmanzutadeyaoqiu。

 yinci，takaishiqiangliefandui。tabujinzaierzimianqianshuolenvhaidehuaihua，haizainvhaimianqianshuoleyixiehuaihua，zheikendinghuimaixiayigenci，wufazaiweilaidepoxiguanxizhongbachulai。

 nvhaiyikaishikenengshenmedouzuobule，zhinengmomorenshou，dandangtazhendejinlefangzi，hepopoyoulegengduodejiaoji，tajiubuhuijixurenshoule。bijing，zaizheigeshehuili，weikangpopobuzaishiyizhongdazui。

 meigerendoushidulidegeti，meiyourenbixurangrenherenshuo。suiranwomenrengranzunxunzunlaoaiyoudexisu，danwomenbuhuiwuxiuzhidirenshoupopodekunnan。

 zheiyang，popodexiaoshunhejiatingdehexiejiuchengleshewang。yinci，zailianaiqijian，muqinbuyingguodugansheerziheerxizhijiandeguanxi。nizhidao，zaizheigeshijieshang，conglaimeiyoufumunengyingdetamendehaizi。

 ruguotamendeerzijianchiyaojiehun，fumujiuwufazuzhitamen。nizhinengchengrenduifangdeerxishenfen。yinci，zuoweiyimingmuqin，buyaoconglianaishiqikaishishanghaihaizidexin。zhiyouzheiyang，womencainengweiweilaipoxiguanxikaigehaotou。

第二阶段：第三代出生后，婆媳之间最容易出现问题

 “yuezizhichoubudaitian”，“ruguonixianzaibuzhaoguwodehaizi，woyihouyebuhuijiniyanglaojin”zuijin，zheiyangdeyanlunkaishizaiwangluoshangguangweiliuchuan，yinqilejidadereyi。

 xuduorenrenweishijieshangmeiyoufumu。wulunruhe，xifubunengyuanhengonggongpopo，yebunenghushigonggongpopo。jishipopobuweitafuwu，yebubangtazhaokanhaizi。dangtadepopolaole，tarengranbixuquanxinquanyidiweitafuwu。

 raner，youxierenrenweipopobushierxideqinshengmuqin。ruguotaxiangweierzifuwu，taweishenmeyaoweierxifuwu。ruguopopozuodehao，zaierxishenghaizideshihoujinlierwei，popolaolebunengdongdeshihou，xifuhuiyuanyihaohaosihouta。

 danshi，ruguopopozisi，tagenbenbuguanxinerxihesunzi，shenzhibazijiderizijiaozaiyiqisantian，xiaochaoyijia，dachaowutian，neimepopolaolejiubunengdongle，buyaozhiwangerxiyidebaoyuan。

 jinjincongwangmindepinglunzhong，womenjiukeyilijie，ruguowomenxiangyaoyigexiaoshundeerxiheyigehexiedejiating，womenbixuzaidisandaichushenghouzuohaopopodegongzuo。popoquanxinquanyidiweierxifuwu，younenglibangzhuxiaojiating。

 ruguotatuixiule，tayehuibangzhuzhaokanhaizi。bijing，shehuiyalihenda。ruguomeiyourenbangzhuzhaokanhaizi，guangkaoyigerendegongzishibukenengyanghuoyigedajiatingde。

 ruguopopozheiyangzuole，neizuoxifuyehuixincunganji，tahuikandaopopodefuchu，zaiyihouderizili，tayehuijiabeiduipopodehao。

第三阶段：老人生病，需要子女出钱

 ruguonixiangyaoyigexiaoshundeerxiheyigehexiedejiating，nixuyaonuligongzuodebujinjinshipopo，haiyouxifu。ganqingshishuangxiangde。ruguoyifangbuduanfuchu，erlingyifangzhizhidaoyaoqiu，neimezheizhongguanxizhudingshibupinghengde。

yinci，zuoxifubunengzhiyaoqiuzuopopoweitamenzheigexiaojiatingfuchu，tamenzheigexiaojiating，yeyaozuohaoweirengaizuodeshi。

 tebieshidanglaonianrenshengbing，xuyaotamendehaizizhifu，jishinidezhangfunachugengduodeqianlaizhiliaolaonianren，nibunengshuogengduo，yebunengbiaoxianchubukuailedebiaoqing，nishenzhibinidezhangfugenghuoyue，nibixushouxiantichubaqianjilaonianrenzhiliao。dangniyinggaizuochugongxianshi，niyeyinggaizuochugongxian，yibiandedaolaorenhenizhangfudeganji。

 zenmechulipoxizhijiandeguanxi？fouze，ruguonibiaoxianchubukuailehuojujueweilaorenmaidan，nidejiarenkenengzhendehuiyinglaiyichangdazhan。ruguoqingkuanggengyanzhong，nikenenghuishiquhunyin。

 yinweizheigeshijieshangmeiyouhaizihuiyinweiqianerfangqifumu，tamenbuhuikanzhefumutongkudisiqu。yinci，buguannigaoxingyufou，nizuihaogaoxingdibaqianjibieren。nidexinhuibeiduifangxinshang。

fumukangfuhou，jianglaixuyaofumudebangzhushi，fumuyehuixinganqingyuandibangzhuni。erqiepopoyehuiduierxichongmanganji。

yinci，poxizhijiandeguanxi，yaoxiangbaochihao，jiuxuyaoshuangfangdenuli，bunengdankaoyifangdenulilaidadaopopoxiaoshundemude。

 poxiguanxizhendehennanchuli。ruguochulidebuhao，lianggerenzhijiandeguanxihenkenenghuifazhandaolaonianhesiwangzhijianmeiyoulianxidedibu。danshi，ruguowomennengchulihaopoxiguanxi，tebieshisangeguanjianshiqideguanxi，womenjiunengshixianpopodexiaoshunhejiatingdehexie。

 bijing，meiyourencongyikaishijiuduibicichongmandiyi。zheikenengyoudianganga，danbijing，tamenyijingchengweiyigejiating。shuangfangdouxiangjianlilianghaodeguanxi，danxuduorenbuzhidaoruhexiangchuyibimianmaodun。

 youxierencongyikaishijiuxuanzerenshou，renweiruguotamenrangbicigengduo，tamenkeyibimianmaodun，danzheiyangzuobingbunengdadaoxiaoshunpopo、xiaoshunxifuhejiatinghemudemude。

 ruguozhiyouyifangbuduanrangbuherenshou，lingyifangdeaomanzhihuiyuelaiyueqiangda，yizhirenshoudeyifangjiangzaiweilaidemouyitianwanquanbaofa，zuizhongfazhandaowufagaibiandedibu。

 yinci，ruguopoxiguanxideguanxixiangyaohexie，shuangfangyinggaigongtongnuli，bameijianshidoushuoqingchu，buyaozaibuyinggaiganshedeshihouganshe。

 zenmechulipoxizhijiandeguanxi？zaiyinggaibangzhudeshihoujinliangbangzhu，shaoshuohuaihua，duozuoduifangnengkandaodeshiqing。zhiyouzheiyang，poxicainengcongxindirenshiduifang，ganjiduifang，zhiyouzheiyang，womencainengzuodaopopoxiaoshun，jiatinghemu。