如何正确处理婆媳矛盾，3招让婆婆把你当成亲闺女来疼

 ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？tashuohepopozhujiule，nanmianhuiyougezhongmaodun，tawenzenmejiejue？xiangxinyeshihesuoyouzaipoxiguanxizhonghaiyougaishankongjiandenvxing。

第一，哄她开心，为我用

这句话是什么意思？

jiranwomenxuanzelehezhangfujiehun，neijiuxiangdangyuxuanzeletabeihoudejiating，baokuogonggongpopo。

 neimeruguowomenbunenggaoqingshangdichulihaoyupopodeguanxi，shouxiannihuiguodehenjiannan，tongshinihezhangfudeguanxiyehuigengjiajianghua。

zheijiangyanzhongjiangdinihunyindexingfuchengdu。

suoyi，jiranxuanzele，neijiuyaoxiangbanfawuxianditigaohunyinxingfuzhishu。

conglixingdejiaodulaikan，nihepopomeiyourenhexueyuanguanxi，banimenlianxizaiyiqideshinimendezhangfu。

suoyi，nimenzhijianyoumaodun，zhuyaoshiweilezhengduozhangfudezhuyili。

popoyiweiniqiangletaerzi，niyiweinilaogongshigemabaonan。

 zheizhongmaodunbingfeibukediaohe。zhiyaowomenrangpopokaixin，bujinhunyindexingfuzhishuhuitigao，popoyehuibangnizuohenduoshiqing，nihuihuodegengqingsong。

那具体怎么办？

一，尊重婆婆

bijingtashizhangfudemuqin，yeshiwomendezhangbei，yinggaizunzhongta。

二，了解婆婆

taxinxinkukubaerziyanglejishinian，jiwomendadianhua，taxiangqilaixinlibupingheng，womenyaolejietadexinqing。

三，哄她开心

 poposhigelaoren，yigelaorenxiangdangyuyigehaizi，shuodezhijieyidian，nidezuiyoudiantian，maidedongxiduole，taziranjiugaoxingle。

wulunnizoudaonali，youqishizaishurenmianqian，nibixushuo，wodepopoduiwohenhao，duiwojiuxiangtadenveryiyang。

poposhishijieshangzuihaodepopo，taburangwozaijiazuojiawu，haibangwozhaoguhaizi。

nimendouzheiyangkuata，tahaihaoyisijinilenglian，genniguobuqu？

chufeitazhendequeqian，haixi，jinliangshaojixianjin，chufeitazhendequeqian。

 burannijiujitamaiyifu，zheiyangtajiukeyichuanchuqubeibierenkanjian，zheiyangtajiuyoujihuixiangqitapopoxuanyao，wozheigexifuduiwoduohao。

第二，调整认知

youxiemamakenenghuishuo，wopopoyouyanbujin，jishiwoduitahao，tayexihuanzaibierenmianqianshuowodehuaihua。

zheijiuxuyaodiaozhengwomenhepopozhijianderenzhi，jibaokuotigaopopoderenzhi，yebaokuojiangdizijiderenzhi。

zaidaduoshuqingkuangxia，popodewenhuashuipingbingbugao，dantanenglijiezhenxiang。

bufangzhaoyigejialimeirendeshihou，hepopozhenchengdetanxin。

nigaosuta，woainierzi，jiajiwomenjia，suoyiwoyezhenxinbanidangchengzijidemuqin。

jiehunhou，woxiwangwomenjiaguodehenxingfu。

womennianqingren，xianzaichenzhehaiyoujihui，duonulizhuandianqian。

mamanixinkule，zaijiabangwomenzuojiawu，zhaoguhaizi，wojide，dengnilaole，woyidingyaoxiaoshunni。

 nihetabiaoxianchujuexin，biaoxianchuzhongcheng，biaoxianchunidetaidu，jiudengyugentatoucheng，zheizhongqingkuangtameiyouliyoujujueniqianlizhiwai。

 tongshi，meiyourenbuxiangguoxingfudeshenghuo。dangtatingdaonishuotaxiwangjiarenxingfushi，tahuikewangta，zheiyangtajiuhuijianshaoyunidemoca，jianshaoshuonidehuaihua。

niyekeyizaizuihoujiashang，wojingchanggenwomamashuo，popoduiwohenhao，binimamaduiwohao。

nibazheimegaodemaozidaijita，nifangxin，popozhendeburenxinzaizeguaini，shuonidehuaihua。

 zaizheigeguochengzhong，nitigaolepopoyiqianreshishengfeiderenzhi，zongyiweixifulaiqiangerzi，rangtamingbainishiyiqunren，bushitadediren。

 ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？tongshi，niyeyinggaijiangdiniderenzhinengli。buyaorenweinideyuemubujiangli。buyaorenweinideyuemumeiyouwenhua。nikanbuqita。niyinggaizhenderenweinihenideyuemuhezhangfushiyijiaren。

zheigeguocheng，jiushirangniderenzhijinkenengchuyutongyishuiping，zheiyangnidegoutongjiubuhuiyouneimedadechaju。

第三，让自己变得更强大

haiyouyixiepopobuxihuanzijideerxi，yinweitajuedeerxitairuole，peibushangerzi。

suoyi，hualihuawaikenenghuibaohanfengci，kanbuqixifudeyisi。

zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，chulezunzhongpopozhiwai，womenhaikeyizanshizhuanglongzuoya，buquguanxinta。

 danzaizheigeguochengzhong，womenbixuzhaodaoyizhongfangfalaizengqiangwomendenengli，jitigaowomenyurendajiaodaodenengli，tigaowomendegongzuonengli，tigaowomenzhuanqiandenengli。

dangnigefangmiandenenglishangshengshi，nidepopohuiduiniguamuxiangkan，tahuijuedezijideerzitaiyouyanguangle。

neishihou，tafanerpanishuailetaerzi，tahuizunzhongnide。

dangran，zainishengzhideguochengzhong，nibingbushiwanquanmomodinuli，ershiyibianshengzhi，yibianxiangpopohuibao。

nijintiangaosuta，mama，yinweiwodegongzuonenglihenqiang，lingdaojiwoshengzhi，woxianzaishishenmedaoyan，shenmejingli。

rangtazhidao，nidenenglizhengzaitigao，tadeerziyemeishenmedabulede。

mingtiannigaosuta，mama，woshengzhile，wodegongzizhangle500yuan，1000yuan，jialideqianshiwofude。

rangtamingbai，niyezaiweizheigejiatingchengdanzeren，bushitaerziyigerenzhichengde，zheiyangtacaihuizunzhongni，zunzhongni。

yinci，womenyupopoxiangchu，jixuyaozunzhong，yexuyaozhihui，gengxuyaotigaozijidenengli！

 ruhezhengquechulipoximaodun？jiashiwomenxingfudegangwan，zhiyoubajialideganqingchulihao，cainengchongmannengliangquwaimiandeshijiedapin！