怎么了解一个很难琢磨的人

 renyurenzhijianjiuxiangshigezheyicengbosha，kanbuqingchuduifang，shenzhiyoushijiuxiangshitongguoduifangdeyingzi，zaichuaimodemoyang。womenyaozuodao，bianshizenmequlejieyigeren，zhiyounilejieleduifangshigeshenmeyangderen，nicaihuikaolvruhequhetaxiangchu。

一、怎么去了解一个人

 1、shouxian，gangkaishijiechuyigeren，womenxuyaoyongxinquganshoutadejingshenmianmao，xuehuiruhequjiedaiyigeren。yibanlaishuo，leguanderenkailang、xinxiongkuanguangderenhuoda、shanyujiaoliuderenyoumo....

 2、goutongshirenjijiaowangdeqiaoliang，suoyi，niyaoxuehuiruhequyuduifanggoutong，congduifangdetantupanduanduifangshigeruhederen。biru，pingrilitadekoucairuhe；yurenjiaoliudeyuqishizenmeyangde；zuijiuzhihou，huibuhuishiyanshitaidengdeng

 3、qici，yaoxuehuicongyixiexijiededifangqufenxiduifangdeweiren，zhengsuoweizhiweijianzhu。duifangdeyiyanyixing，douhenkenengbaoluchutashigeshenmeyangderen，daodishijuyoushenmeyangdepinge，haishiyoushenmeyangdehuaixiguan。

 4、qinshenqujiechuduifangdeshenghuo。liru，dangduifangwuquanwushideshihou，tazaiganshenme；erdangtayibuyibujiejinchenggongzhihou，tayouzuoguoshenmeyangdeshier；yihuo，dangtacongpinqiongzouxiangfuguizhihou，youmeiyouzuoguoshenmehuaishihuohaoshi..

 5、zuihou，xuyaoyigepengyoubangniqulejieta。zheigepengyoushi？——shijian。suhuashuodehao，luyaozhimali，rijiujianrenxin。youshihou，jinpingduifangdeyijuyidongbingbunengwanquandaibiaoshenme，zhiyouzhangshijiandelejie，nicaihuiqingchuduifangdeweiren。

二、怎么了解一个人的性格

1、注意他的语速

 yigerendeyusukeyitouluhenduodedongxi，ruguoyusuhenkuai，yibankeyikendingshiyigejixingzi，jixingzizuoshifeichangyouxiaolv，danshiwangwangxinggehuibijiaodejizaoyixie。yusumanzeyoukenengshimanxingzi，zuoshiqingbijiaoyoutiaoli，danshiyoudeshihouyehuibijiaodeyouyu，ruguonihenguojuedehua，dapeiyigemandiaozi，jiushifeichangbucuodexuanzele！zheijiushizenmelejieyigerendexingge。

2、taxihuantaolunyixieshenme

 yigerenxihuantaolundedongxianshizhetadexinggejiyin，birutaxihuantinggangqin，shuomingtazheigeranghenyoulangmandeqixi，tongshiyoukenengbijiaodeyouyu，xihuananjing。birutaxihuanjiaoyou，renshihenduobutonglingyuderen，shuomingtahenreqing，zhongqingyi，xihuanyidabangrenjuzaiyiqideganjue。duoliaoyixiedongxi，keyibangzhunigengkuaidelejieta。

3、穿衣服的风格

 chuanyifuyekeyitouluchutaxinggefangmiandeyixiedongxi，zhuyaoshikanduiyansedeyigepianhao，baokuonuansexihelengsexideng，liruhongsedaibiaozhereqinghejizao。lansedaibiaozhechenwenheyouyu。chuandebijiaoxiuxian，shuomingxintainianlinghennianqing，chuandehenzhengshi，shuomingbijiaodechengshu。

4、你们见面的地点

 yibanjianmiandedidianyidingshi2gerenshangyidejieguo，nikeyishixianrangta/tatitikan，congta/tashuodedidiankeyikanchuta/ta dexingge，ta/tadeshenghuofangshi，liruktvhekafeitingjiushijieranbutongde2gedifang，gongyuanhexicantingyoushiyigejieranbutongdedifang。

5、周围朋友的评价

 pengyoudepingjiashizuizhijiezuizhongkende，zairenshiyigexinpengyoudeshihou，ruguoninengzaitongshirenshidaoxinpengyoudepengyoudehua，neimeniduizheigexinpengyouderenshihuijiakuaibushao，tebieshiniruguoyouyihezheigexinpengyoudeguanxigengjinyicengdehua，neimenifeichangyoubiyaorenshiyixieta/tadepengyou

6、讲话的腔调

 youxierenjianghuaguyihuitigaoshengyin，huozhefangmanyusu，zheiyangkenenghuiranggengduorenzhuyidao，jianghuadezheizhongqiangdiaoqishimougechengdushangyeshikeyifanyingchuyigerendexinggede，keyiduoliuyiyixia。

7、聊天的习惯

 ruguoyigerenjingchangxingdehuiqudaduanbierenshuohua，huozhebierenshuohua，zijijiumanbujingxindezuoqitashiqingdehua，tayouzheixiexiguan，jiushuomingtadegexingjiushihenziwoderen，yekeyiyouyigefenbian。