请不要以没有的事推辞

如果人生路上遇到不可避免的吃苦，请英雄式的接受，不要因没有的事推辞。如果遇到可避免的吃苦，请避而退之。因为人生不应该是持久吃苦的拉锯战，而应是走走停停的有的放矢。

一、没有的事的意思

zaipengyouquan，nikendingshuaguozheiyangyixiezhuangtai：

“youjiabanjiadaolingchen，lingchenliangdianzaikanshu，guoqujitianmangdaozhishuijigexiaoshi……”

wushiwukebuzaichuandizhe“wohennuli，wohenbuyi”danyijiu“leibingkuailezhe”dexinqing。

yebuzhishenmeshihoukaishi，jiaban、nulizheiyangdefenneishi，beiyuelaiyueduo“qinfenzhe”shaichu。

1、lianjiadegandong，qiaqiashiyinweizuodetaishao

meiyoudeshideyisishiji，henduo“qinfenzhe”caikaishijinruzhuangtai，jiubeizijifafentuqiangdeyangzigandongdeyitahutu。

zheirangrenlianxiangdao《tianlongbabu》lidemurongfu，meitianyifu“fuxingyanguo”ouxinlixuedenulizhuangtai。

 an“beiqiaofengnanmurong”deshuofa，murongfudewugongyingyuqiaofengxiangdang，ketanengbeiwuxinxiwudeduanyuyidunliumaishenjiandadeluohualiushui。

zixixianglai，xiwu、fuguo，murongfuweizhinuliguoma？

xuewubujing，quesichujieshoutaren“nanmurong”dechenghu。fuguomeizuoshizhinuli，danqingxuyichanggaozhang。

zheizhongganjuehenxiang，haimeishangzhanchang，jiubeizijinaqiangde“zhuangju”jigandongle。

nulizheijianshi，bingbuzhideziwogandong。

2、suoweidenuli，bushiziwozhaoku

 womencongxiaobeiguanshu“tianjiangjiangdarenyusirenye，bixiankuqixinzhi……”，yushihenduorenzijuefanyiwei“tianjiangdarenjiwo，bixianrangwochiku，dengkugouleziranhuichenggong。”

 zuobuwandegongzuo，aoyedaotianliangde，feiqinwangshidemangliu，tingqilaishihenku……kecengxiangguozheixiekuduoshaoshiyinweigongzuoxiaolvdi，shijiananpaibuheli，zijizhaodekuni？

leijunyoujuhuashuodehao“yongyuanbuyaoshituyongzhanshushangdeqinfen，laiyanshizhanlveshangdelanduo。”

zhizhidaomangan，bujiangjiufangfahexiaolvdechiku，doushisiweishangdetoulan。zheizhongnuli，buguoshiwuyiyidexiaohao。

chuangyidashilixinpinyecengshuo“nulishimeiyouyongde，ruguoshizaibuduidedifang”。

zhenzhengdenulishirenqingaidishengshuode1%delingganzaina，zaiqufuchu99%dehanshui。

fouze，niyiweishizouzaimengxiangdekangzhuangdadaoshangqianjin，shizebuguoshizaiziwotaozuideshenyuanlixiazhui。

3、fanshichenniyuziwoqingxuderen，doubutaichenggong

meigerenyouziwolianmindeqingxu，zheishirendetianxing。

jiulianyidalizhumingxiaoshuojiakaerweinuodouyizhitixingziji：“qianwanbuyaozijigandongziji。”

nengkezhizhuziwoxinshanggandongdeqingxu，yishiyijianlebuqideshi。

 nazhanguoshiqidezhaokuolaishuo，tacongxiaoshudubingshu，junshixinkounianlai，wurennengbi。zheizhongyouyuegan，rangtagufangzishang，zirenweitianxiawudi。

 zhidaobenfuzhanchangshi，tawanquanbugulianpodezuozhanfangan，zuihoudaozhisishiduowanzhaojunjinbeijianmie，zijiyebeiqinjunjiansheshenwang。

chenjinyuziji，wulunshizijuegaorenyideng，haishiziwogandong，douhuirangzijigubuzifeng。

4、bieneimejiaoqing，shenghuozhikanjieguo

womencongxiaotingdao“jieguobuzhongyao，guochengcaishizuizhongyaode。”yushizhendeyiwei，nulideguochengcaishidiyi。

danxianshibingburuci，《qingjiwojieguo》yishuzhongjiangdao“meiyoujieguodenulidoushiwuyonggong。”

 shenghuoshiyixiangtouzi，qizaotanhei，aoyejiaban，weidebushizaikuzhongziwogandong，ershiweilegenghaodeshenghuo，genggaoxiaodegongzuo。

laoziyan“zishizhebuzhang”，yueshichenmibiaobangyueshibudezhangxian。yinweizhenzhenglihaideren，doushiyongjieguoshuohua。

 ruguorenshenglushangyudaobukebimiandechiku，qingyingxiongshidejieshou，buyaochenzuiqizhong。ruguoyudaokebimiandechiku，qingbiertuizhi。

yinweirenshengbuyinggaishichijiuchikudelajuzhan，eryingshizouzoutingtingdeyoudefangshi。

二、小说没有的事

xiaoshuomeiyoudeshishipankekechuangzuodewangluoxiaoshuo，fabiaoyujinjiangwenxuewang。

作品简介

 zhuanyanjian，daolechudongdejijie，jintianshixiaoxue，meiyouyangguang。hanlengdebeifeng，chuidewo，renbuzhudalegehanzhan，wotianjialeyijianyifu。zaizheigesiyidejijie，woyouyixiegushi，yudajiafenxiang。suiyuewushengdixiaoshi，taiduodegushi，suizhejiyidesuipianyibingshiqu。woqieliuxiayixiewenzi，jiluxiaguoqudeyinianfashengdediandiandidi。jiludejieguo，shiweilesuoyouyuwoyouyuanxiangjuderen，wozhidao，womendoucengjingyiqiyongyouguo，yongyouwomenzaiyiqideshiguang。bingduidangxiaquanguoruhuorutudexintaiweishengyundong，zuochugengdadeqipan。yushi，bianyoulezheipianjiyiwenxue。jiranshijiyi，mianbulehuiyouwuji，zheishimeibanfadeshi。wonenggouzuode，zhiyourangjiyijinkenengdihuiguizhenshi。wodegushi，congquniankaishi。