挑拨离间的知识分享以及处理方法

 tiaobolijianshiyigehanyuchengyu，nizhidaotiaobolijiandeyisima？tadeyisishiyuanzhimeiyougenjudehua，xianzaiduozhizaibierenbeihousanbuwumie、zhongshangdeshuofa。neimewomenzaishenghuozhongbeitiaobolijianzenmeban？

一、挑拨离间的意思

tiaobo：yinqi、tiaodong、bannong。jian：jiange。lijian：fenkai、fenli。

biyucongzhongbannongshifei，pohuairenyurenzhijiandeqingyi，shenzhiyinqizhengduanzhiyi，shibierenzhijianchanshengjiange、butuanjie。

qing·libaojia《guanchangxianxingji》di39hui：zheigexinghumingfu，zuiaitiaobolijian。

yangmo《qingchunzhige》dierbudi37zhang：fandongpaishixihuanwomenqineihong，xihuantiaobolijianwomende。

jinyong《shediaoyingxiongchuan》diliuhui：jinhouliangjiawuxuqinruyijia，bukeshourentiaobolijian。

 maodun《shuangyehongsieryuehua》yixieshilixiaorenbeibiwuchi，guanhuixingfengzuolang，tiaobolijian。《sanguozhiwuzhizhugejinchuan》：lijianrengurou。

二、在生活中被挑拨离间怎么办

1、笑一笑了之

 dangnifajue，nidemouweipengyouduinihebiedepengyoudengrenyoutiaobolijiandejudongshi，niyebubiguoyubiaoxiandehenjilie，zhiyaoduifangbushineimedelipu，bushineiyangdeguofenjiukeyi。buguanduifangshuoshenme，nidoushixiaoyixiaojiuxingle，buyaohetaduoshuoyijuhua，gengbuyongwen。

2、dangxiaohuahebiedepengyoutanjicishi

 pengyouzhijianbiciyouxiehuahuichuanbodehenkuaide，tebieshinihebiedepengyou，shuoqilingyigepengyoudeshiqing，neimenidehuayidinghuihenkuaidebeichuansongdaoneigepengyoudeerduoli。dangnimenshenbianchuxianletiaobolijiandepengyoudeshihou，nijiuzainimenneigepengyouquanli，zhuangzuobuzaiyideyangzi，xiangshijiangxiaohuayibanbazheijiansheijiangchulai，rangnimenbicisuoyoudepengyoudouzhidao，neigetiaobolijianderenshuodehua。

3、hebeitiaobodeneirenyiqishuoshuohua

 zaiwomendeshenghuoyijigongzuozhong，zheiyangderensuichukejian，jiuhaoxiangweikongtianxiabuluanside。zheiyangderenyeyouyibufenjiduxintai，birunihesheiguanxihenmiqie，xiangchudeyefeichanghao，tamenjiuhuixinshengxianmujiduhen，yushixiangbanfachaikainimen，yushijiuhuizianishenbiantiaobo，youqunineigepengyoushenbiantiaobo。

 yudaozheizhongshihou，niyaozhaoshijian，henbujingyidehenipengyoutiqicishi，yilairangnipengyouzhidaobierenzaitiaobonimenzhijiandeguanxi，erlaiyekeyibimiannidepengyouyincierxiangxinbierendetiaobo。dangnihenipengyoudehuaduizaiyiqideshihou，bierendetiaobomudeziranhuidabaiyutianxia，neimenihenipengyouyebuzhiyubeibierentiaoboerchuxianguanxiehuadeshiqing。

4、dangmianzhijietiaomingduifangdemude

 zheifangshibishangyibujiandan，qie“baoli”lexuduo，buyongzhaojineimeduoderenyuanzailimian，jiuyigetiaobolijianderen，hezijijiukeyi。