有被花镇骗过的吗？为什么你爱一个人就要变成小孩之“假大人篇”

 youbeihuazhenpianguodema？tongchangwomenzaiguanlianzhongzhanxianneiyangyizhongxiangfuxiangchengzhuangkuang：yigeyizhizhangdemandexiaohai，heyigeyizhicaolaodebabamamashideairen。tongchangzaiqizhongyigerenshijiazhongdelaoshao，yigeshijiazhongdedage，yinci tamenliangnenggouzaiganqingqianqishizuixingfudeqingkuang，xiangaidaolingrencemuershi。

 yigeshiweilingyifangdacaodabanyiqie，erlingyigezeweimingshicong。danshijianzhangle，tamenhenyoukenengbianhuibaciwaiyimianzhuyaobiaoxianchulai：shijishangtamenliangrenquanshiqipanbianchengxianghu。yizhizuoxiaohaide，xiangganchengnianren，youyutaxiangxiangyouchengnianrendeyouyuzishendegongzuonenglichanshengdecaokongganherongyugan，tazongshijuededaobuzixin;yizhizuochengnianrende，xiangyaozuoxiaopengyou，youyutaxiangxiangyoubeizhaoliao，beiguanaiyubeilejiedezhuduohuanle，tahenlei。

 dantamentongchangbiankazaizishendejixianermeifawanchengzheiyixinyuan。zongzuoxiaohaide，haipabuchenggong，yincidaozhizhize;erzongzuochengnianrende，haipawufakongzhi——youxierennengjiedezhuwoma?

 zailiushiniandaimoshengrendeshiqi，haoxiangjigouhenqiangjing，lianfufunantidounenggouzuozhu，neishihouzuoyigedongshidehaizihaoxiangbianshizuihaoshide。ruguonichengxinqinfengongzuo，jiukeyihuodequdechenggong。dandajiashixiazheiyishiqi，zhuzhongdeshidandu，kanyixiayidaoxinchunjiajie，shangyirendouzouzailushang，womenzhongguorencongmeizheibanlixiangbeijingdicunhuoguo。zheileicunhuoxingzhuangjiubixuwomenkeyidudangyimian，bukeyijiezhusuoyouren。

 gengguanjiandeshi，xuduo xiaohaidoupobudeyizaijiazhongzhongdanfuqichangzhujiaodemeirirenwu。youyuyidanyigejiazhongdeyijiaoqueshaole，jiazhongdemouyizuyuanjiupobudeyidanfunagerenwujiaose。lirujiaruzheiyijiazhongzhong，babaderenwujiaoseshiquezhen，huoshizuoyongbushixiangxide，neimamuqinjiuhenyoukenengzaoyumeiyoujiezhudefengxian，tapobudeyiquchudaliangdehuoliqudikanggudu，dikangzuoweiyigenvrendebixu，yincitadedongnengjiumeifa100%dijiyudaoxiaohaizheili。erxiaohaiweilegenghaodirangmuqinyibuzheibanmiansebuhaokan，kumentongchu，jiupobudeyijinzaozhangdale，danfufuweimamaderenwujiaose。

 yiyang，dangmuqindanfubushangjiatingzerendeqingkuangxia，ciketongchangbianhuiyouyigeguinvchongfengzaiqian，zhaoliaomuqinyebianchengfuqinde“diyifuren”。naizhitahenyoukenenglianbabayeyibingqiaobuqile，tajiubianchengjiazhongweiyidezhuxingu，yincitajiupobudeyifangqidiaoxiaopengyoudeyibufen。

 zheiyangderenzhangdahou，bianhuiyingduishifenjidadezishenmaodunzhong：tamendezihaohezizunxindelaiyuanyuqujueyutamenzixiaolianchudetongzigong——feifandeshehuixinggongzuonengli。dantamendezhimingshangyezaizheili：tamenjiuhaoxiangbangyiyang，youzhejiqiyingshidejiqiao，danqueyongyou shifenxinendechuidandepodexiaojiaoqing。yinci duitameneryan，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？zuoyigexiaohaijiuhaoxiangbayigexiaohaisongjinlangkouyiyangkongbu。

 tamenqipanxiangshizhongzhangdemandexiaohaiyiyang，nenggousuiyidibiaoshuyilai，danyouduiyucishibuxieyigu，shenzhishenetongji。dangtidaoyilainantideqingkuangxia，tamenshizheibandehaiziqiheyudun，hetamenxianshuerfeifandiyubierenjiaowangdegongzuonengliduibi，zhenshishitianrangzhibie。zheiyejiukeyizhangwo，duitameneryan，tanluchuduibierendebixuhexiangbierenxunqiubangzhushiduomedekepadeyijianshi。

 youyuzaitamenyiwangdegongzuojingyanzhong，xunqiubangzhuzhenshishiyizhongtianfangyetan，naizhitianmanqurudeshier。nimeifajixiwangyuyigezuixunxundebabanenggourangnirenshengdaoluyijutizhidao，yebukeyixiwangyigeliancunhuodoushigewentidemuqinnenggouweizijiganqingdeweijie，gengbuyaoshuozaibabadeerguangxianenggoutanwennuan，jiqijiaolvqingxudemuqindeyanqiankeyishuoshuozishendebuyiyangdejianyi……

 jiaruniduiyigegongzuojingyanzaoyifanfuleqianbaicihou，xuduo gerenxingweijiuyibulijingniderendedanaole，tajiubianchengnidezaiqianyishizhongdeyibufenle，rutongniqidanchehejiacheyiyangdangran，ninaizhidouduizheizhongzishimeiyoufajuele。

 zhuangzuochengnianrendexiaohaimeifajianxinzheishijietashinenggoujiezhude，yinci dangtabenkuideqingkuangxia，tahuifajueshoujiliyouneimeduoshoujilianxiren，quemeiyouyigerennenggoushenjiao。zheicaisuanshitazuikongbudeshike，tabupabaitoudaolao，tapadeshiyewan，padebingbushishuimianzhiliang，zhishirumianqianbianduizhenshideziji。

 yinci xuduo kanqilaishifenwanshanchengshuderen，zaiganqingzhongjiuhaoxiang3suihaiziyiyang，yudundibaibuzhejudadequti，danqueneimafeijingdixunzhaozheyidiandianerzhenzhengdewennuan。tongchangtamenhuinanyibeibierenjiandaotamendezhenzhengdebixu，tamennengzuodebianshifanshexingdifanfuyiwangdezihao——chixufuwuyurenmin。

 youyizhongjiejuefangfa，neibianshidangtamenbaquanbunengzuodedouzuoguoqule：baxiaohaiyangbianda，yetuijuerxianle，renshengdaoludezhongrennenggouxiediaole。tamenjiukeyilisuodangrandiguidingxiaohaideshouyile，tamenjiubianchengzhipeiquandeshishizhe，keyibudanfuyiqiezerenle。yincixindeyipiyanzangchengnianrendexiaohaijiuyoubeixuexipeixunqilai……

大家该怎样长大了?

 zuijiannandemoguo，dajiadourenweiwomenzhangdale，shijishanglaidaoganqingliquefajue，womenshikunzaimouyinianlingcengdexiaohai。erruguowomenyebuzhidaoshiqing，tarengengnanlejieshiqing。

 yizhizuoxiaohaidechengnianren，jiaonanrangzishenyejiaonanrangtarenjiandaozishenwanshandeyimian;eryizhidangzuodagedexiaohaizi，jiaonanrangzishenyingduiyejiaonanrangtarenyingduizishenruanruobixubeizhaoliaodeyimian。

xingmingdefazhanqujueyu“jiuzhengxing”deqinggantiyan，bicicaikeyizhenshigangkaishijinxingrengetezhideronghe。

 juyigeshili：dang“xiaopengyou”laogonghe“muqin”laopochumensansanbuhuijia，fajuesuochibeisuozaijiali，zheishi“zhichangnvren”laopoyoulianggetiaoxuan：yigetiaoxuanshirengjiuli，tahuipokoudama，youyutawufarongrenzheibanyumeidegerenxingwei：woshimeifaxinrenganni，liangesuochidouwangjidai，wodounengjixiwangyunishenme?

 jiarutanenggouhaohaodiganshouzheijuhua，tanaizhinenggouhuisudaoyounianshiqi，muqinbianshiyongshifenchizhiyibideyikouqineiyanggentashuode，cihoutazaiyebuhuiyouguoshenmedacuolou，zaitadejiatingguanxili，tabukeyibianchengmuqindefulei，youyububeilaogongzhiaidenvren，yuanbenjiuhenmingan，tabukeyijiangdimuqindenanguo，jiubukeyizairangmuqindanfudaliang。yinci tawufaraoshuzishenshigexiaopengyou，tayaoxiangkuaisuzhangdale，taxiangzhentankenanyiyangtaoyanzishenderouruodequti。

 keshiyanxiadelaogongganghaobianshigedabaobao，shizhongdougaoxinghuopodihetawanle，tashizuixiyinzhutadeyibufen，youyutadeyiwang，shizheibanyouyi，yizhiyuyebuxiangyigeren，erxiangyigefeichangzhuanqianshenqiyiyangle。taqipanxiangbiedexiaohaiziyiyang，nenggouyouzheyigewujuwushu，nenggouwanledeershi，dangzheiyinanrendaitaquwan，rangtaxiaoleyitianyihou，tawanquanaishangleta。

 keshilaidaorichangshenghuodangzhong，tajiufajuezheiyinanrenjibenshangmeiyourichangshenghuozikongnengli。zheiduitaeryan，bianshiyigezhimingxingdeyanlidaji，tabuqingchu，zheiyinanrenzuiguanzhude，bianshiwanle，bingfeizuozheixiefaweideshier，tashiyigeyouxiuderen，danzaifaweideshiercengmian，tayichoumozhan。

 rujintajibenshangshimuqindefanban，zhenduizishenpobudeyiduozuoxuduo jiawuhuohelaoliuzheiyijia，erzheiyi“dabaobao”nenggouanxinshuizhangjue，quandoubuguazaixinzhong，taxinlichongmanledujihenaonu。yinci tayouqixiangyaoyiwangmuqinneiyizhaolairangzheiyinanrenhaikeyiduozhaoliaotayixia，danzheidui“nanhaiershi”denanren，queshishitaikepale。

 youyuzheiyinanhaiershidenanrenwangwangyizhinenggou“tianzhenlanman”，shiyouyutazixiaojiubeizhizedebiantilinshang，jinyouzaizhanxianzishendetianqueshiyimiandeqingkuangxia，babamamacaisuanshirentongde，tazuidanxindebianshimaodun，taduizhizedebijiaominganshiyouyuzaidiusuochizheijianshiqingchanshengdeqingkuangxia，tazaoyibazijimachengzhulianle，rujinlaoposuiyiyijuchizejiuzugoushitabengkuile，genghekuanglaoposhishiliaobuji。

那麼第二个挑选是什么呢?

 diergetiaoxuanbianshilaopoyishidaozishenzaifanfuyiwang，tayijingshengchanzhizaolingyigetongchudezishen。neimatanenggoutiaoxuanrangzishendexintaicongshangzhangjianjiandiqinghuanchulai，tanenggoujilizheiyishouzuwucuodelaogong，tayibuxiangxianglaogongshizishenershisuoxiwangdenagelixianghuadebaba，baduibabadenaonufangdaolaogongdeshenshang，zhishishushidijiandaolaogongxinliyeshiqipanfuzerende，jinjintabixuxuduo jieti，caikeyifazhanweiyigeyouchongzudangdandenanren。

 takeyishuo：“woduiniwangjizheijianshiqingqueshihenxinhan，wonaizhiyexiangmani，neiyangyegonghuiyaowoyishishuangkuaiyixie，danyinweiwolejie，nixinlizaoyiduizishenyouhenduochizele，niyebuyuanyineiyangdeshierchansheng，niyeqipannenggouzaiwoyanqianzuoyixieluliandeshier，zuoyigechengdandenanren，danwomenkeyiyibubulai，huoxuwomenkeyiyiqitantaozenyangzuo，caikeyinenggougenghaodifangzhizheijianshiqing。”

 neiyangdehua，jiujiaoweihehulaogongbenzhixiaohaidenianjiqingkuang。dajiameiyouyizhaozishendexiangxianghexiwangguidinglingyifang，zhishiyizhaolingyifangxinlidezhenzhengdeqingkuang“yinshizhiyi”。

 danshishijizhongdajiaqueshihennanbaozhengzheiyidianle。youyudajiadoutaixiguanzishendexingweimoshi，yetaiqidailingyifangjizijichengdanle。dajiayehennanjuechadaowomenzijidequehanhekebei，danbuyuanyiyingduizishenfazhandejiaoda denanti。

 shijishangdajiaderenshengdaoluzishizhizhongdoushiyoudierfanyingde，womenkeyibuyizhaotiaojiancijiqurichangshenghuo，yizhaotiaojianciji，dajiabianhuiyizhichenjinzaiyiwang，rangrujinhejianglaidoubianweiyiwangdefanban，dajiayemeifazhenzhengdiyurenzaiyiqi，dajiajinjinyizhaoxiangxianghebierenshuobuqingdaobumingdizaiyiqi。dajiazuihouyeshiquzhenshidezijihezhenshishijie。