有被花镇骗过的吗？如何判断他是不是靠谱的另一半？

 “youbeihuazhenpianguodema？yiqiangerenyanliyouyiqiangehamulaite”，tongyang，“yiqiangerenyanliyouyiqiangemr.right”。ranxuduo caogaodezhaoduixiangyishizhengyizhiqizhazhedahuoer。zheizhongluanqibazaodeyishi，qingzezulanlexingfudeshenghuo，zhongzeshiwomentourucanzhongdechengben。

◎论可靠的必要性

 qianbujiu，wojiedaoyifengdouyou。laixinzheshigenvhai，tarujinyijingjiejueliyideshiwuguanli。zaihunqian，laogongbianshiyigehenqingxubuwendingderen，xinqingyukuaideqingkuangxiaduirentebiehao，xinqingyumendeqingkuangxiabianhuiluannaopiqi，naizhiyousagouliangdequxiang(baxiaotaididenaoqiaoandaoshuichizili);keshi，taxinqingyukuaideqingkuangxiajiutebiehao，duiqinrennvyoudouhentiexin。

 tayedanxinguo，zuizhongganjue“yaoshiyijianshihaojiukeyile，youyigequexianshishenme”，guoduandihezheiyinanrenjielehun。zhihou，tamenyongyouxiaohaizhihou，laogongdexingziyiranbianhuanwuchang，jijiazhong、xiaohaidouchanshengjidadekunhuo，zhihoufazhanqushidaojiatingbaolideshuiping。tagantan“zhiqianganjuetahenkekao，guoyingqiye，dangdiren，jingjifazhanyesuanbushanghencha，rujinzhenganjuezishenkanzouleyan”。

 kekao，biaomingkaopu，feichangzhidejianxinhexinlaidehanyi。guoyingqiye、dangdiren、jingjifazhanbiaozhunbudi，bingbukeyichongzukaolvkekaodebiaozhun。waizaidebiaozhunsuiranshiguanjiande，keshipingdingyigerenshibushikaopu，haidepingdingzongtidezonghexingchengji。

◎选另一半，相貌关键吗

 yiqianzaimouyishengengbanye，wozaifeijichangzuodeshihuijiale，guangbodiantailifangzheyigeguangbojiemu，yigenvrenxiangjiemuzhuchirenkonggao“wolaogongneixiangmaotaibuxing，wokandaotadoumeixingyua”。neishihouwochadianermeiyoulechushengerlai。

 keshixixinxiangyixiang，dangranbianhuilejierongmaodebiyaoxing，zhenduirenmenlaijiang，shijuexiaoguozhongguishiyizhonghenzhongyaodeganshou。lingyifangnenggoubingbushichuantongdingyishangdeshuaige，huoshirenkededameinv，keshitahehunideshenmeiguan，nijiandaotadeqingkuangxia，neixinhuiganjueshushiyukuai。

 wobuyuanyizhuangzuorongmaobuzhongyao，neixincaisuanshiyiqie，heyigebukanbuguande“shanren”zaiyiqiwanhun，haibibushanghehaojiyouwanyouxigengdaijingni。zuishidangdefangshishi，nijiangzishenzhenglideganjingzhengjie，suihouzhaoyigejiniwenxinkanbuguandelingyibanquqishengzi。

◎结婚以后，他也不容易变好

 youbeihuazhenpianguodema？suirannvquanzhuyizaoyizaizhongguogangkaishimengyaqi，keshixuduorenyiranyouyizhong“nanrenwaiyunenggoukuanrong，nvrenwaiyujiuxuyaoziyiqiaodi”dequqizaopoyishi。zaizheileiyishidejutizhidaoxia，xuduo nvhaijiandaonanhaizichenmiaimei，zaijiaoyouruanjianshangluangouyin，naozilishanguodejiejuefanganbianshi“ren”，huoshijuedejiehunyihoujiuhaole。shishishang，jishinishenglexiaohai，tayiranshizhaowanbuwu。

 zhenduishibushiyaokuanrongwaiyu，wobenrenmeiyouguoduojianyi，tashibenrenxuanzewenti。keshinixuyaolejiezheiyitiaoxuandaibiaozhe“tahaihuijixuyouxiayici”“tahaihuijixushangnideai”。

 zaizheier，henyoukenenghuiyouxierenbengchulaibianbowo，“nanrendebenxingbianshiruheruhe”，yongbenxingzuoweituociyuanbenbianshiyigeshifenhuangdande，renmenyoutuludebenxing，youqianglvedebenxing，yousunhaibierendetianxing，shibushidaibiaozhedajiajiukeyizuozheileishier?ai，renleidejinhualeneimejiu，douhaimeixuehaoruheyizhiredaiconglinlidebuliangxiguan，nanmianyetaikebeileba。

◎光心疼你是不好的

 niyidingtingwenguoxialiedexiaogushi：yigenvshenghebuxihuandenanrenwanhun，yuangufeichangjiandan，youyutaduitahao……yigenvshengbuhepituinantichufenshou，jiuyouyutayiqiezhengchangdeqingkuangxiaduitahao……yigenvshengzhengqianyangyigezhilejiezhaizhewanyouxidenanren，jiuyouyutayoushihouduitahao……zongdelaishuo，“yijianshihao”haoxiangyigeyuyankouzainvhaidenaoqiaoshang，haoxiangyongyouzheiyijianshierjiuwanshiruyile。

 youyixierendexintengnihanyoumingxiandeyanchuchengfen，tamenduitarenhao，bingbingbushiyinweinuanxinheqingyi，zhishiweilegenghaodizhengshizishenyige“henbujiandanderen”，barichangshenghuodangzuoqingchunouxiangjudejuyuaneryi。

 “xintengni”suiranshiyijianguanjiandeshier，keshinixuyaotiaoxuandeshiyigeshihedeairen，erbushititieruweizhaoliaonidemama。zheiyiquanshijiehuichuxianhenduorenxintengni，yinci biezhejibazheigeguifanfangjin“diyiwei”，gengbubiyouyu“xintengni”，erhulvetabiededezhimingxingquexian。yigeduinizaihaoderen，niyewufarongrentatiantianzaijiawanyouxi，liaomomozhibo，bunuligongzuo;yigeduinizaihaoderen，yehuizaichajueni“bugouaita”deqingkuangxiahuishenlikai。

◎理想对象，应当有什么个性化?

 xindishanliangzheiyixiushicizaoyibeiluanyongdaosangjintianliangdeshuiping，yiqieyigemeishenmeyoushiderendougantiaochulaieryanzichengweixindishanliang。shuobailedepinxingyouzhishiyouhaoduogeguanjiangouchengde：sanguanzheng，youdaodedixian，youhuanweisikao。

 sanguanzhengdebiyaoxingjiuwuxuduojiangguo，ruoshiyudaoyigediandaoshifeidenanren，jiejuemaodunshifenhaojixiwangyubuletade，dajianaizhiyoukenengwufayiqitantaonanti。

 duiyudaodedixian，worenweitashichangchangqingshidechuantongmeide，rujinxuduorenzhongaidunangzhe“woxiangbuzhefangshidequdechenggong”，qianwanbuyaoganjuezheileiaojiaotingmengde，tajiranduitarenmeiyoudaodedixian，yehuizaowanduinisipolianpi。

 zuizhongshuoshuohuanweisikao，nianlingxiaodeshihou，zhenduinanrendeguidingmoguozhangdeshuai，youcaiqizheileide;keshizaijutirichangshenghuofajue，wenrouyouhuanweisikaodeyouxiurencaishinengjitarenchanshengxingfudenvren。youhuanweisikaodaibiaozhenimaiyuan“wohaonanshou”，taburongyiduojiaohenijuede“niweishenmebushufu?niweihebushufu?”，huanweisikaodaibiaozhezainiluoleideqingkuangxia，taburongyichizeni“kunaxieku“;suiranmeirenneng100%lejieciwaiyigerendetihui，keshihuanweisikaobadajiaduijiezaiyiqi，zuishaotahuiqinfentihuini，kuanweini。

◎请，面对心里的冲动

 renjiranhuozhu，zirandeyingduiqiandenanti。fangwu，cheliang，yanghaizideqian，zheizhongtongtongquanshishiqing。tiaoxuanyigeairen，budanyaokaolvdaotazhihouruhe，gengweiyaokaolvdaoshixiadetashibushinikeyijienade?

 nixuyaogaohaotayibeizibutaigaibiandechongfenzhunbei。ninaizhiyaoyongxindekaolvdao，zaiweilaidemouyitian，nishibushihuiduirujindetiaoxuanhouhuimoji?shixianinengjuedeqianyaoshichongzudaomiandianwanyitangjiuhaole，sanshisuizhihoujinihenyoukenenghuiganjueyoufangyouchetaiguanjianle。

 bubixiuyinanyiqichitaolunniduihuaxuewuzhidechongjing，mianduixinlidechongdong，yongxinkaolvdaozishenyaoxiangguonaxiederichangshenghuo，bubihunrizi，zaizuichudeqingkuangxiajiuxiangzhenagefangweipinbo。

◎给你身心疲惫的，都并不是好产品

xianglaijiandaozheier，bidinghuiyouxierenjuede“quanshijienaerxunzhaoneimeshiquanshimeidehundan”。