聪明的女人，懂得让男人主动提挽回 有被花镇骗过的吗？

 yumeidenvshi，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？tiaoxuandewanliufangfawufeidisanxiasi，bayiwuquandanfudaozishendeshenshang，zhiweilegenghaodiyaoqiutadekuanrong。

 danzaizheigeshihou，yiqienanshidoushihuizhuyaobiaoxianchudichuxintailai，zhongjiutichufenshoushitajijimingquetichude，yiweizhezhetazaoyiyiburenkezheiyiduanqinggan，jirannengmingquetichutichufenshou，gengyiweizhetaxiangcongxianjingdangzhongjiejuechuqu，erzheishihou，ruguonitiaoxuanzuzhitachoushenzheiyiduanganqingdebufashi，zongshishitaganjueniaishouaijiao，gengjibukenaidexiangfangqini。

yibandenvshi，huitiaoxuanlengzangxianghudeguanlianyiduanshijian，jiecijihuiguanchaxianghuganqingdemaixiang，zuihouzaizhaojiyuwanliu。

 ziran，bushishuozheileifangshiyoubuzhengque，dangxianghudehunyinpolie，tiaoxuanlinshilengzangguanlian，queshishiyouliangdefangfa，zhongjiuzaizheigeshijianfanwei，yejinyouzheileifangshi，nengrangxianghudecaogaoxintaihuanjiechulai。

 danjinyoudanchunxingdelengzangxianghuguanlian，zaizheiduanshijianneishenmeshidoubuzuo，tiaoxuanwuweierzhi，jinjinzaizheilidengni，yejinjinzhiwang“goushiyun”。

 jiaruyiqiandetaduinideganqinghenshen，zailizhiyiduanshijianyihou，tayeyishidaozishenmeifafangqini，ziranhuitiaoxuanjienanifuhexingdeyaoqiu。keruoshitazaiyiduanshijianyihou，douhaimeiyishidaoshijishangfangqinibingbingbushiyigeqiadangdetiaoxuan，youzenmekenenghuiyuanyinideqingqiuni?

 erconghuidenvshi，zuigaoqingchuyidian：wanliuyigenanrenxin，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？shizhishangbianshizaizhaodaoshuyunizishendejiezougan，jinyoudangzishenbawoganqingjiezougan，caikeyizaicixiyinzhuhuitadexin，shitajijimingquetichuwanliu。

 jiaruohaojinyiqiefangfa，doumeifashitahehaoruchu，conghuidenvshiyehuitiaoxuanlengzangguanlian，danlinshilengzangguanlianjinjinyigefangshi，zhenshidehexinqujueyu：ercixiyin。

 huiguotoulaiyefeichangrongyilejiele，tangruojinjintiaoxuanduandiaolianluoyiduanshijian，neitabianhuilaolaoshishidehuishou，wanliujiubingbushiyijianjiannandeshierya，zenmekenengyeyouzheibanzhiduoderendanxinyuruhewanhuini?

挽留的真实关键，取决于二次吸引，而二次吸引的实质便是：找到归属于自身的节奏感，找到大家原先感情的节奏感。

 guoqudeni，duitayongyou jidadeyouhuoli，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？yinci tacaihuizhuiqiuni，tiaoxuangennizaiyiqi，feijinxinjidexintengni。

 zirannigengyongyou yitaoguishuyuzishendeganqingjiezougan，zainidejiezouganli，tahuishikexianghupeiheni，tayexiangyaozhuisuinidejiezougan，yitongjingyinghunyin。

 herujindejieguoshi，nidejiezouganmeiyoule，danshitayiburentongle，zheijiuheniquanshenshangxiadegenggai，jinyourangyiqiedouhuanranyixin，caihuizhonghuotaderentong，xianghupeiheshangyixiexiaoqiaomen，jiunenghenqingqingsongsongdeshitahuishou，naizhibuyongnilijibiaoshu，tayehuijijitiaoxuangennimingquetichufuhexing。

zhaodaoguishuyudajiadeganqingjiezougan，gengyaozhaohuiniyiqianchuxianyichangchudongtadefengcaidian。

 huiguotoulai，dangdajialaidaoyiqiyihou，shifoujiufeichangshaojingmeidedabanleni?shifouyedabufenmeiyouweizijiyigetigaode?erzishenyeyicongyuanxiandegerenaihaoheshejiaoquanzhongchoushenchuqu，yuanbendeniantoushiyimenxinsidejingyinghunyin，kezuihouyeshiquzishensuoyouzhedefengcai。

 congjintiankaishi，zaiciyingzaochusedezishen，zhaodaofengcaizhankaideneigeni，zhaodaoyiqianshitachuxianyichangchimideni，zheicaisuanshizailengzangguanlianyihou，nizuiliyingzuodeshi。