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 shilizhongdenanxingzaigennvpengyoujiaowanglehaoduogeyueyihou，huazhenqingganzixungongsi,nvpengyoumingquetichutuihaidaotongxueguanxi，nvhaiershuo：“woyuanbenjiuliliangboruo，bixuyoumeiliderenlaituidong，danjiaowanglezheiduanshijianhou，henyihanfajuenibushineileiren。”

pengdaocileiqingkuang，buzhengquedehuifuyiban youzheizhong：

“youmeilidenanshengbuyidingkeyixinlaia。”

“jinguanwobuzuyoumeili，danwoduinishizhenxinshiyide。”

“qingjixieshijian，yinweiwohuiyuelaiyueyoumeili。”

henbeiju，wodezheiminggukeneishihoudehuiyingyezaizheiqizhongzhilie，yinci，nvhaiergentatuihaidaotongxueguanxi。

zaizixunquanguochengzhong，tahaichixugenwoshuo“zenyangcainengbianweiyigeyoumeilidenansheng。”

xianeryijian，taqidainengzaoribianchengnvhaierbixudezhonglei，suihouzhongfanqinglvshenpang。

woduitashuo，niqinfendefangweichedibudui。

 diyi，nvhaierjiangchudeyuanyinbuyidingshizhenzhengyuangu。zhenzhengdefenshouyuanyintongchangdoujiaoweizhishang，er“meiyoumeili”tamentingqilaitingshufude，yinershituocidegailvgenggao。

 dier，jibianshizhenzhengyuangu，shijieshangzonghuiyouyixiezhiliangbingbushiniyaoyoujiuhuiyoude。womenhebujuedemeilizhenghaobianshizaiqizhongzhiyi，nixuyaoyizuihuaidehenyoukenengweiqiantitiaojianlaisisuozenyangjiejue。

 zheixiebuzhengquedehuifutongchangshijiejuekunnandefangshi，danfenshoudeliyoujingchangquanshibukeyichulidenanti，yinci cikewomenyingdanghuanyigegousi。《moguiyuehuixue》lijiangdaoguo，nanxingsiweishijiejuekunnan，nvxingsiweishixushunantizhongdezishen，yinerzaigennvshigoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，womenkeyizhuyaobiaoxianchuzhishennantizhongdetadeguanxin，meibiyaoqueshiqujiejuekunnan。

rutongdangnvhaiershuo“woganmaole”，dajiayingdangwen“neimenirujinjuederuhe?”erbushigaozhita“duoyinshui”。

 ronghezheiyishili，neishihoushijishangnenggouneiyanghuiyingnvhaier：“wolejienidebixu，shijishangyinweiwoxiaiyoumeilideren，jiarupengdaoneileikeyituidongnideren，nikendingyingdangfangkaishouzhuiqiuwanmei，woyidinghuishiyongde。”

那样回应几个益处：

diyi，rentonglelingyifangdeyaoqiu，rangtaganjuenishigelejietadenansheng。

dier，jinyaoguantounikeyifangqizishendequanyi，rangtaganjuenishigehuodadenansheng。

 disan，“yinweiwoxiaiyoumeilideren”(yanwaizhiyi：woconglaimeiyoukekenidebugou)，rangtaganjuenishigekuanrongdenansheng。

 disi，“jiarupengdaokeyituidongnideren，niyinggaifangkaishouzhuiqiuwanmei”(yanwaizhiyi：zaimeipengdaoneirenyiqian，niyemeibiyaorujinjiuxuanzelikai)，zhengdeshixiazaicijiaowang，zheicaisuanshizuijutidequanyi。

 dangzaiyiderenzhunbeiliquzhishi，henduorendoushihuimashangshenxianjidadehaipadangzhong，huijueshitamencishiweiyidefanying。“nixuyaodezheixiemeiyoushiyongjiazhi”、“wojinidecaigengyouyiyi”、“rangwolaijinigenggaiba”——shuodaodiquanshijuebujienalingyifangliqu。

 keshineiyangbujinbuqizuoyong，fandaohuihuihuainiyutademuqianguanlian，yuanbentaduiniyaoyoucunhaogandu，niyizhizaibiedediquduitayeyoushiyongjiazhi，keguanlianyidanliekai，dajiajiuwanquanshiquxiezuodejiyu。

 sanguoyanyili，dangshenzaicaoyingxinzaihandeguanyunzhangbiaomingyaoxunzhaoshizongdesanguoliubeideqingkuangxia，sanguocaocaodezuofashi：haowuyiwenguanyunzhangderenpin，biaoshuduitamenxiongdiqingyidejingpei，rangguanyunzhangshuxindaizaicaocaoneibian，yidanyongyougegedexinxi，suishisuidirongxuliqu。

 jiushizheiyang，suiranguanyunzhangzuihouhuanshifanhuilesanguoliubeishenpang，danzhongjiupiwenchouzhanyanliang，weisanguocaocaodegongzuoyouguoyifennengliang。

 genggaoshiyongjiazhideshi，huazhenqingganzixungongsi,sanguocaocaoshenpangdejunshimingjiangdoushihuiyinergengweixiangyaozhuisuizheiyikuanhongdaliangdequanmingongzhu。

 jiarudangguanyunzhangbiaomingbukeyibeipanliubeizhishi，sanguocaocaoshuodeshi“nagemaimaxiedeyounaxiefazhanqiantu，.wojiushiniyingdangshihoudedage”huoshi“wonalibibushangliuhuangshu，genwoshuo，wogai~”

buyaoshuoguanyunzhang，kenengcaozhicaopidoudezhenglixinglixiangle，daidietaidiulianle。

 tongyang，dangyigenanrenzaiqiuaishiyaojiangchu“genwoshuoyeyounalibuxunilingrenmanyi，wogai!”neiyangdehua，yidinghuidadongnvshizaiqianyishizhongdezaodongbuan——“zheileirenzhihouzennengdanghaizibabani?”

 yiner，wulunganqingzhonghuanshijingjichang，buguangushihouhuanshijinri，xuduoshierdedadaoliquanshitongyangde。zaijiejuerenjijiaowangdenantishang，conghuidenanshengyizhilinghuoyunyongnvxingsiwei，xiangfan，nvxingsiweihaikeyijinigengweinansheng。