和情人闹翻了怎么挽回

　　heqingrennaofanlezenmewanhui，dangjiehunzhengshuzuihoubianchenglihunzhengshushi，neiyifenfuzadeqingganwufayanyu。tadexingweiyimingquedeshuo，yexiwanghenibianchengdanchundeluren，buhuizaiyuannidedajiao。zaizheishihou，womenxuyaojingxialai，shendusikaozheifenganqingmaixiangliekaidegenbenyuanyin。

　　youxieshihou，jibaihunyinshenghuodebingbushidisanzhedeganyu，fanershirichangshenghuozhongdeyixiexiaoxijie。liru，nideyijubuzaihu、yigebuyiweirandemuguang、yigelengmodebiaoqing，shenzhifenranliqudongzuo，zheizhongwuyijiandexingweihenyoukenengdouchengletaxinzhongjidianxinhandeyuanquan。

　　yingguozuojiabailuncengshuoguo：“ganqingshinanxingshenghuodeyibufen，danqueshishinvxingshenghuodequanbu。”zheijieluletaierxingbiezaixinlizhongdebutongpianzhongyu。henduonvxingpengyou，jiusuanzaihunyinshenghuozhongzaoshoutongku，yewangwangxuanzekeshou，dandangtamentilihunshi，neitongchangshixinlishangxindeleiji。congwoqianrenxingdonglaishuo，taduinidezenghenshenchen，zheiwuyizengjialewanliudenanduxishu。danshinixuqueli，wanliuguochengshijinanshouyouchongmanjiqingde，youyunibixubaituojiyoudezishen，suzaoyigequanxindeziji。danshi，zheiyiguochengwangwangbansuizhechengzhangyutuibian，yijikenengshixiandemubiao。duiyuzuizhongnengfouwanliu，meiyourenkeyiyiliao。danshiworenwei，zhixuxincunjianqiangdeyizhibingjiejinquanli，jibianjielunbingbuwanmei，yezhishaoweizijinuliguo，buyaoliuxiayihan。duiyunimendeguanxishijimaodunhelihundeyuanyin，neizhiyoutamenzishenzuilejie。ruomaodunmenglieqieshejidaoshuangfangjiating，neiwanliudenanduxishuhaowuyiwengenggaoyixie。danqingjizhu，buguanzaoyushenmenanti，douzhideyishi。

　　△wanjiuhunyindewugebuzhou

　　ruguoyijingxiadinglejuexinwanliu，neijiexialai，womenlaikanyixiawanliudeguanjianbuzhou。

　　△第一步：冷战

　　zaitaduiniyoufumianyinxiangshi，zaicijiuchanbuqingfanerhuirangtagengjiayanfanni。henduorenzaifenkaihuolihunzhihoudediyifanyingshiqukenqiulingyifanghuijia，danshizheizhongxingweitongchangzhihuirangduifanggengjiandinglikainidexinxin。youyumeirenyuanyiyuyigeziwojiazhigandiderenzaiyiqi，erguodudekenqiuganghaohuijiangdinideshiyongjiazhi。yinci，zheiduanqijian，womenxuyaobaochilixing，zhujiandanhuataduinidefumianyinxiang，rangqixiangqiniduitahao。zhongjiu，liangrennenggongtongzouguoyiduanlu，jiuyidingyoujiuaikeyi。jiaruzhendemei，neiyexudajiacongmeizhenzhenzhengzhengshenaiguo，fangkaishouyexushiyigebucuodexuanze。

　　△第二步：复盘总结

　　huiwangzheifenganqing，zhaodaozaochengpoliedeyuangu。jinyouqingchudilejiecunzaidewenti，caikeyizhenduixingdixunqiujiejuefangan。shiyouyugoutongbudaowei?shibutailejieyixingpengyouluojisiwei?huoshiyinweiqingxuguanlibudang?yihuozheshiqianquetitierenjiqiao?

　　△第三步：自我提升

　　zaizheiqijian，nixuyaozhenduizishencunzaidewentijinxingyouhuayugaishan，wuqiuyineizaiyuwaizaimeizhuduofangmiandouzuochujijizhudongdegenggai。womenkeyitongguopengyouquanzhanshinidexinmianmao，huoshiyikaogongtonghaoyoudezhichi，zaojiuhetajiechudejihui，shenzhishiyixieourandexiangyu，yiqiugenggaitaduinideguandian。zhishiqiqiutahuijia，danzijimeishenmegenggai，zheizhongwanliuzhudingbuhuizhangqi。tazhenzhenzhengzhengqidaidejiushininengshenrurenshidaozijidecuowu，bingweizhizuochuchaoguoyuqidebianhua。

　　△第四步：致歉

　　heqingrennaofanlezenmewanhui，zaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiarunizuocuoshi，neiyangzhenxinchengyizhiqianshibukequeshaode。womenxuyaotiqianzuohaozhunbei，zhiqianbingbushiquanneng，dantanenggoujiechulingyifangxinlijie。zheiyizhiqianwubishenkeerchengzhi，bukeyizhitingliuzai“zhendeduibuqi，duibuqi，nikuaihuilaiba”zheizhongliefengyanyushang。kenqiuzhihuirangduifangyufadichu，jishizanshiwanliu，yewufazhangjiu。nixuyaorangqixiangxinnizhenzhengyishidaolezijidewentisuoshu，bingqienenggouweicizhanshichunidechengyi。zheiyidianyouweizhongyao。

　　△第五步：搭建舒服室内空间

　　zaizuowanzaoqiliuchenghou，yingxianyipengyoushenfenzhujiangongchu，bingzhujiantuijinguanlian。ruzaichujieduanjiujiqiequerenguanxi，kenenghuiduitadailaibubiyaodegongzuoyali，jinerzulanjiaoliuyuhudong。danshi，yipengyoushenfenfasheng，huirangtahaiyoujihuizhongxinsikaoni，pingdingnishifoumanzutaqidai，jinerzainixinliyingzaoxinfengmao。ruodajiayougongtongdexiaohai，hebugenjuhaiziqutigaolianluohehudong。

　　zaishishiguochengzhong，henyoukenenghuiyudaogezhongzhuangkuang，danshizheiyitiyizhiliyuweinintigongyigedagaideshouce。ruyaogenggexinghuaxiezhu，tiyixunzhaoyiduiyizixun，quanmianlejiedajiadeshijiqingkuang，yihuoqugengzhunque、xizhiruweidejutizhidao。jiejinsuoneng，jibianzuizhongweinengdadaolixiangjielun，hainengweixiayiduanguanxijiyubaoguijingyan。suiranguochenghenyoukenengtongchu，danzhangjiudekan，duantongyuanbizhangtenghao。