花镇：自己作分手怎么挽回

　　fuqiguanxizhongdewentishibukebimiande。danglianrenzhijiandeguanxipolieshi，zijizuofenshouzenmewanhui？huifuguanxijiuchengleyigejidaijiejuedewenti。neime，ruhezhengjiuyiduanguanxidemimini？

　　1.坦诚沟通

　　zailianaiguanxizhong，goutongfeichangzhongyao。lianrenzhijiandegoutongyinggaishitanlvhezhibaide。ruguolianrenzhijiandegoutongyouwenti，womenyinggaishizhezhongxinjianligoutong，rangta/talejienidezhenshixiangfaheganshou，qingtingta/tadexiangfaheganshou。

　　2.找到最初的感觉

　　huiyizaiyiqidediyitian，zhaodaozuichudeganjue。huiyinishiruhexiangyude，ruhexiangchude，ruhejianlishenhoudeganqing。ruguoninengrangta/tazhongwenneixieyouqulangmandejingli，woxiangxinta/tahuizaiciduiniyouhaogan。

　　3.重塑自我形象

　　zaiyiduanguanxizhong，nidexingxianghuiyingxianglingyibanduinidekanfa。dangnidexingxiangchuxianwentishi，nihuishiquta/tadexingqu。yinci，nikeyizuoyixiegaibian，rangzijigengyouxiyinli。liru，nikeyigaibiannideyifu、faxinghuoaihao。yidannigaibianleziji，nidebanlvkenenghuiduinizaiciganxingqu。

　　4.不懈努力

　　zaiyiduanguanxizhong，buxiedenulishibibukeshaode。ruguonixianghuifunideguanxi，niyinggaijijigaishanziji，zuoyixieduifanghuigandaojingyadeshiqing，biruweita/tazuoyiduntebiedewancan，zuoyifendiyliwudengdeng。zheiyangdenulihuirangta/tajuedenihenzhongshizheiduanguanxi。

　　zijizuofenshouzenmewanhuiyibanlaishuo，zaihuifuganqingdeguochengzhong，womenxuyaotanchenggoutong，zhaodaozuichudeganjue，zhongsuzijidexingxiang，buxienuli。zhiyouzheiyang，aicainenghuifuhuoli。