女人最聪明的分手方式

　　nvrenzuicongmingdefenshoufangshi，zaihunyinshenghuodemanzhanglvtuzhong，nanmianhuichuxianfengchuiyudahejianxin。ruguonifaxianshenshenaizhenidenvrenzhujiansilexin，hunyinshenghuohaoxianghuashanglejuhao，nishibushigandaowulihejuewang?biehaipa，jinri，zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，womenjiangdainiyiqitanxunzenmewanhuineiyigehaoxiangyijingduizijidesilexinta，genjugaibianxianzhuang，rangqizhongxinaishangni!

　　一、看清现况：死了心背后是伤心的累计

　　zuixian，womenyaomingbai，laoposilexinbingbushiyicuerjiude，fanershizhangqifennuhebumanyideleiji。yexujiushinicongqiandehulve，yexujiushinizhicuobugaidebuliangxiguan，yexushilianggerenzhijianqueshaogoutongyulijie……zhengshizheixiemiaoxiaodenanti，quebuzhibujuediqinshilenimenzhijiandeganqing。

　　yinci，xiangwanhuisilexindelaopo，diyibujiushikanqingxiankuang，tanyanzijizaihunyinzhongdewenti，bingyuanyilaimianduiziwogaibian。buyaoqingyiquduobihuoshizhegai，youyuzhenchengshiwanliudediyibu。

　　二、自我反省：自己身上的“感情凶手”

　　xiamian，womenyinggaijinxingyicishenkeziwofansheng。wenziji，nideshenshangyoushenme“ganqingxiongshou”yijingcuihuinimenzhijiandeganqing?

　　zheishibushiniguoyudananrenzhuyi，conglaibuguanzhuduifangdeganshou?

　　shifounizonggongzuomangliu，hushiletadecunzai?

　　shifounibudongdelanman，rangtagandaoshenghuowuqu?

　　zheishibushiniqingxubuwending，changchangduitafapiqi?

　　……

　　liejugezhongwenti，erqietanrandiyingduitamen。jilao，jinyouyishidaozijidenanti，caikeyizhenduixingdilaigaibian。

　　三、改变自己：从外在美到内在全新升级

　　gaibianziji，shiwanliusilexindelaopodeguanjiansuozai。womenkeyicongzishenxingxiang、neizaixiuyang、shenghuoxiguandenggegefangmiankaizhanquanmiantigao。

　　1. zishenxingxiang：huanranyixin，rangqiyanqianyiliang

　　nvrenzuicongmingdefenshoufangshi，foyaojinzhuanghaomapeihaoan，yigeganjingzhengjie、dafangdetibiaomianhuijirenliuxiashenkedeyinxiang。yinci，bufangconggenggaizishenxingxiangzhujian。huangefaxing，maijitaoxinyifu，zhongshiyixiazijidedapei，shinizaitamianqianhuanranyixin。dangtakandaonizheibanzhuyigerenxingxiang，ziranhuiduinixingchengxindexingquaihao。

　　2. neizaixiuyang：tishengziji，rangqikanjiannidehanyi

　　waizaigenggaizhishidiyibu，gengweiguanjiandeshineizaixiuyangdetigao。duoyuedu、duoxuexue，tigaozijiderenzhishuipingherenwensuyang。yucitongshi，yeyaodongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu，biandegengjiachengshu、chenwen。ruguonigentajiaotanshi，keyigaotankuolun，zhanxianchuzijidejianjieheconghui，nvshenghuizhongxinbeinideqizhishenshenxiyin。

　　3. shenghuoxiguan：jiankangxiangshang，lingtakanjiannidegenggai

　　gaibianzijideshenghuofangfayeshihenzhongyaode。gechuzheixiebuliangdexiguan，lirujingchangaoye、shijiu、xiyandeng。kaishizhongshikexueyinshi，jianchiduanlian，rangzijideshentibiandegengjiajiankang。yucitongshi，yexuyaoxuehuixiangshoushenghuo，peiyangyixiegerenaihao，lirulvyou、paishe、pengzhideng。ruguonizhanshichujijizhudong、lianghaodeshenghuoxiguanshi，nvshenghuikanjiannidegenggai，erqieyuanyigenniyiqixiangshoushenghuozhongdemeihao。