出过轨的女人还能真心对老公吗

　　chuguoguidenvrenhainengzhenxinduilaogongma，biezheji，biezheji，jinrizuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashiwo，jiushiweilejidajiazhizhizhao，shoubashoujiaonizainvshengshiwanghou，haikeyiqiaomiaodewanliutadexin，zhonghuohuanxin!nizhunbeihaolema?womenzheibianjiangtan!

　　qianyan：xinhan≠bengkui，ganqingnengjiu!

　　zuixiana，womendequeliyigeguannian：nvshengshiwangle，bingbudengyutabianduizijidexinhuiyilengle，gengbingbudaibiaonimendeganqingjiumeizhile。xinhan，jinjintazaimouyike、mouyijianshishang，duinidetaidubiaoshibumanhuoshinanguo。danaiqingma，jiuxiangshiyichangmalasongbisai，lushangnanmianyoushuaidao、huichuxianpijuan，zuizhongyaodeshiyaokanninengbunenglijizhanliqilai，jixubenpao。

　　一、看清现况：你是真的了解她的心寒吗?

　　shencengcisikao：xianbiejizhequwanliu，xianjingxialai，haohaofanshengyixianimenzhijiandeganqing。tashizenmehuishierduizijideshangxinde?jiushiniquebuguanzhu、butitie，haishizijidemouyibuliangxiguan?xunzhaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei。

　　tanchengjiaoliu：zhaoyigeheshideshijian，hetaquyicipingxinjingqidegoutongjiaoliu。jilao，shigoutong，bingbushizhenglun。tingyitingtadeganshou，zhangwoduifangdeganshou，rangtazhidaoniyeshizhendexianggenggai。

　　mianduixianshi：biechangshiduobihuozhegainanti，renqingtaxinhan，jienazheigeshishi。weiyouruci，nicainengyigengjiachengshu、genglixingdetaiduquyingduijiexialaiwanliuzhitu。

　　二、方法一：改变自己，重构诱惑力

　　tishengziji：biezhiguzhenanguo，liyongzheiduanshijianhaohaoditigaoziji。bulunshineizaizhuanyezhishihanyang，huoshiwaizaigerenxingxiang，douqinfenrangzijibiandegenghao。

　　zhanxianzhuanbian：biezhezheyanyan，jiangnidezhuanbianzhanxianjitakan。liru，nikaishijianshenle，jiuzaipengyouquanshaiyishainijianshenzhaopian;womenxuehuileyidaochuangxincai，jiuqingtalaipinchang。rangqijiandaonidejinbuziwogaibian，ranqitaduinidexingquaihao。

　　chuguoguidenvrenhainengzhenxinduilaogongma，baochishenmigan：bieyixiazibaquanbudegenggaidouzhanxianjita，liuxiefubihexinxiangan。rangqizaibuzhibujuezhongkandaonidebuyiyang，neiyanggengnengjifatadehaoqixinhetansuojingshen。

　　三、方法二：共情力，增进心与心的距离

　　gongmingdianzhuiyi：hetayiqizhuiyineixiewomenxingfudeshiguang，lirudajiadiyicijianmiandediqu、yiqiduguodenanyiwanghuaijierideng。neixieyitongdemeihaohuiyinenggouqitagongqingli，rangqixiangdaonimendeguanxixingfu。

　　lejieduifangdeganshou：biehuishuo“duibuqi，wogai”，gengyaodongdelejieduifangdeganshou。gentashuonidongdetananguo、dongtadexinhan，erqieniyaohetayiqimianduihejiejuezheigewenti。

　　yiqijingli：zaojiuyixiexindeyiqijingli，liruyiqiqulvxing、yiqicanjiayigehuodong。zaizheiduanjinglizhong，nimennenggougengshenrudilejiebicizhijian，yekeyicujinganqing。