夫妻迟早要离婚的表现

　　fuqichizaoyaolihundebiaoxian，shangdaoleqizidexinzenmetianbu?jiarunirenshidaozijidegerenxingweishangtouxifudeneixin，zaochengdajiaganqingdanle，nixiangwanhuixifudeneixin。buyaozheji，xiabianjiaodajia3geqiaomen，tinizhongyingtadeai，rangnimenzhijiandeganqinghuiguizhenggui。

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　　反省自身

　　xianbiejizheyongzhiqianqu“miehuo”，xianjizijikongchuduchudeshijian，jingxialaifupanzongjiewangri。zhuiyizuijingongchuzhongdemeiyigexiaoxijie，shiyouyugongzuomangliuhushileduifangdeganshou?huoshijianghuabulizhishangtoutadexin?youhuozheshiyuanzewenti(waiyu)shangdaoletadexin?jinyouqingchuzhenglichucunzaidewenti，houxuwanjiuxingweibuhuiliuyuxingshi，ershizhenzhengduizhengzhiliao。

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　　zhenchengdaoqian，rangqikanjiannidekuijiu

　　fuqichizaoyaolihundebiaoxian，zhiqianbingbuzhishi“duibuqi”，ershiyaobaneijiuganzhuanhuanchengshijidebiaoshu，youqishishangdaolexifudeneixin，yekeyichangshigenjuzhiqianwanjiu。changshixiangzheiyangdegentashuo：

　　“xifu，womingbaiwozuijindegerenxingweishinihenshiwanghenanguo，wozhendechaojikuijiu。worenshidaozijidecuxindayihebuheliyantanjuzhi，jinidailailezheimeduosunhai。wobushiyouyide，feichangxiangtianbu。nengfouzaijiwoyicijihui，woyidinghuiyongshijixingdongzhengshiduinideaiziwogaibian。”

　　wojianxinruguonichengkendetaidu，youyixiangxiufuhunyinbingzhudongkanqingzijidewenti，tongguoxiangduiyingdejiaoliu，jishiduifangxintailinshihuoshilengmo，haihuijiyuniyicijihuiheshiyanqi。nijiuyinggaichongfenliyongzheigeshiji，quzhenzhenzhengzhenggaijinshuangfangdeguanxi，xiufuhunyin。

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　　更改他们的行为

　　hunyinlidexinhan，tongchanglaiyuanyufuwuchengnuoyuxingweidetuogui。jirandouzhenchengdaoqian，neimejiumashangdakaigenggaifangshi。liruguoquhuilaijiuzhituwanshouji，rujinjijifendanjiawu，gentaliaoyiliaoyitiandeyouqudeshi;zhiqianyizhiwangdiaoliunianri，zhihoutiqiananpai，renzhentiqianzhunbeiyiwaijingxi。shangdaoleqizidexinzenmetianbu?zheizhongjutigenggai，yaobishanmenghaishigengyouxiaoguo，zhujianfujiantaduinidexinren。