老婆闹离婚怎么劝都不行怎么办

　　laoponaolihunzenmequandoubuxingzenmeban，zaiganqingdezhangheli，womenshimoshitouguohedeshijianzhe，youshihouqingkongwanli，youshihouquebolanzhuangkuo。jinri，womenyinggaitantaodeshiyigehouzhongermingandewenti——ruguoniyishichongdong，dalelaopo，wanquanshangdaoletadexin，gaizenmewanhui?zheibujinjinshiyigeyouguanzhiqianheyuanliangdenanti，gengshiyichangyouguanziwofansi、chengzhanghezhongjianxinrenshenkelvtu。buyaodanxin，zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，wojiangweinixianshangyifenzhenxinshiyihuigai、huodekuanrongdeshizhanshouce，rangaizhonghuizhenggui。

　　一、看清不正确，吸取教训

　　zuixian，womendeqingchu，daren，tebieshidazijixihuanderen，shiwanquanjieshoubuledegerenxingwei。bingbujinjinshizaifalvshangdixian，gengjiashidaodeyuqingxuzijidedixian。nirujinhenyoukenengxintouaohui，juedezijishigehundan，dankongyouneizhongganjuebugou，niyaoshenrurenshidaozijidecuowuyouduoyanzhong。

　　ziwofansi：zhaoyigeanjingdejiaoluo，zuoxia，xiangqingchuzishenzenmehuichushou。shiyouyugongzuoyalitaida?huoshishenghuosuosuikucunjiyahenjiu?yihuozheshizijidexinqingguanlifangfanenglibuqiang?xunzhaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei。

　　rencuo：biechangshizhaoliyou，biechangshiduobi，gengbuyaoshitubayiwutuijianjilingyifang。chengrenba，bianshinixiangduole，nishanghaidaonizuiaideren，yeshanghaidaozishen。

　　ganshoutongku：xianbiejizhexunzhaokuanrong，rangzijitihuizheiyifentongchu。jinyouzhenzhengtihuidaolingyifangdeshangkou，nicainengganshoudaotatong，caikenenggengjiandingdixianglaitianbu。

　　二、真诚道歉，用实际行动证实

　　zhiqian，bingbushijiandandeyiju“zhendeduibuqi”，ershiyaochengxin、reqinghechixubuduandexingdonglaishuomingnidegenggai。

　　tiaoxuanheshideshijian：biezaitaqingxujidongdeqingkuangxiaqiangzhizhiqian，neizhihuihuoshangjiayou。dengtalveweiningjingyixie，zhaoyigezijiyuanyitingjiannishuohuashi，yizhengciyandizhiqian。

　　renzhentiqianzhunbeizhiqianci：buyaoxiangzhesuiyifuyanleshiyiliangjujiuketongguan。nixuyaogentashuo，ninyouduomedehouhuimoji，niduomedetonghenzijineiyikedewufakongzhi，niyuanyichengdanyiqiehouguo，danqiutajiniyigejishigaizhengjiyu。

　　laoponaolihunzenmequandoubuxingzenmeban，xingweibiyancigengweizhongyao：zhiqianyihou，nixuyaoyishijixingdonglaishuomingnidegenggai。liru，yongyuchengdanjiawuhuo，duotiliangduifangdeqingxu，peizhetazuotaxiangzuodeshiqing，rangtaganshoudaonidebianhuaherenzhen。

　　三、聆听她的声音，了解对方的感受

　　congniqinfenwanliudeguochengdangzhong，zuizhongyaodeyibubianshilingting。lingtingtanaonu、tananguo、taxinhan，naizhitabengkui。zhiyouxianmingbaileduifangdeganshou，nicainengfaxianxiufuguanxideyaochi。

　　jitayigeanquanqingtuziranhuanjing：gentashuo，wuluntashuoxieshenme，nibuhuiqifen，burongyibianbo，zhinengyongxinting。rangtaganshoudao，zainipangbian，tashifenanquan，nenggougeshujijian。

　　yongxinqingting，bubiqieduan：dangtazhujianqingtushi，niyaozuodeshijingjingdeyewan，buyaojizhebiaoshu，buyaojizhebianbo。rangtabaxinlideweiqufennudoufaxie，zheihuiduitalaishuoshiyizhongzhiyu。

　　yijianfankuinilejie：dengtashuowan，ninengyongjianjiedeyuyanzhuanshuduifangdeganshou，rangtazhidaonishizhendelijiele，nishizhendezaiyiduifangdeganshou。