婚姻咨询：怎么成功挽回婚姻

　　zenmechenggongwanhuihunyin，liyi，duiyudaduoshurenlaishuo，keweishiyiduantongchuqielingrenxinsuidezaoyu。danshi，dangqingganshangdewencunhaiweiwanquanxiaotui，dangneixinshenchudekuijiuhexiangnianruchaoshuibanxijuanerlai，nishifouxiangguo，yexuhaiyouwanliudehenyoukeneng?jinri，rangwozheimingzimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，dainiyiqitanxunlihunzhihouwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai，rangnidebanlvhehaoruchu，shiqineiyifencengjingdeaiqing。

　　一、直面问题，自我反省

　　wanjiuhunyindediyibu，bingbushijizhequlianxiduifang，ershizhijiejingxialai，zhengshizijidenanti。hunyinshenghuolaidaoliekaizheiyibu，bingbuyidingshidanfangmianyiwu。womenxuyaoshensishulv，zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongshibushicunzainaxienanti，liruqueshaogoutong、buzuguanxinduifang、sanguanbuhedeng。dangnizhenzhengzhenzhengrenshidaozishendebuzu，bingyuanyiweicigaibianshi，cainengjiwanjiuhunyindiandingjichu。

　　xiaotishi：bufangshizhexieyifen“ziwofanshenghuibao”，liejuzishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdeyoudianhequedian，jiqixuyaogaijindedifang。zheibujinnengbangzhunigengqingxidilejieziji，haikeyizaihouxudewanliuhuanjiezhong，zuoweinigenggaidezhongyaoyijuqudongli。

　　二、保持联络，但是不过多纠缠不清

　　lihunzhihou，yuelaiyueduoderenxuanzeduanjueyiqielianluo，juedezheiyangjiunengxunsubaituotongku。danshi，ruguonixiangyaowanjiuhunyin，weichishidangdelianluoshibukequeshaode。nikeyitongguoweixin、dianhuahuozheduanxiaoxi，youshihouguanxinyixiatarendeshenghuo，danqiejiguoduojiuchanbuqing，gengbuyaopinfandidajiao。nimudeshiweilelingyifangkanjiannidecunyou，erbushirangtagandaoyanjuan。

　　shishangyouxiwanfa：bufangshizhezaishejiaopingtaishangfenxiangyixiejijileguandejutineirong，birushuonijinqidegenggai、duishengmingdeganwudeng。zheiyangjikeyirangqijianjiedelejiedaolenidezhuangtai，younenggouyinqitadetansuoyuwang，weihouxudegoutongjiaoliuzhizaoxuannian。

　　三、提升自己，展现魅力

　　zenmechenggongwanhuihunyin，zhuihuihunyindeguochengzhong，tigaozishenfengcaishizhiguanzhongyaodeyibu。bulunshiwaizaipinpaixingxiangchuanzhedaban，huoshibenzhiqizhihanyang，nidouxuyaobuduantishengziji。neiniqujianshenfangduanlianrenti，weichiqiangjiandetipo;keyibaomingcanjiayixiexingqupeixunban，chongshizijirichangshenghuo;yekeyiduoduyixieshuben，tigaozijiderenzhishuipingheyanjie。ruguoniyiyigequanxindexingxiangchuxianzaitademianqian，wuyihuijitadailaiyidingdexiyuezhenhanrenxin。

　　youyisishili：youyiweinanxing，zailihunzhihouxiadingjuexinyaoxuexipengrenhesheying。tajingchangzaipengyouquanfenxiangzishenqinshouzhizuotesemeishihepaishedejingse。youyitian，taqianqiwuyijiankandaoletadezhaopian，beitadecaihuaziwogaibianshenshenxiyin，jijihetaqudelianxi。zuihou，lianggerenzaicizoudaoleyiqi。

　　四、坦诚交流，消除误会

　　dangnimenzhijiandeguanxiyousuohuanhehou，zhaoyigeheshideshijian，hetajinxingyichangzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliushifeichangyoubiyaode。zaizheiyichangjiaoliuzhong，womenxuyaotanchengdibiaodaguandianhetihui，tongshihaiyaolingtingtadeshengyin。changshiqulejietaguandianhetihui，qingchuxianghuzhijiandewuhuihejiedi。jilao，goutongjiaoliubingbushizhengzhi，ershiweilegenghaodelejieduifang，xunzhaojiejuewentidefangfa。

　　goutongdejiqiao：zaigoutongdeshihou，hebuxuanyong“wo”dechanshufangfa，liru“wojuededajiazhongjiancunzaiyixiewenti……”“woxiwangwomennenggou……”zheiyangjikeyibiaodaguandian，yebunengrangduifangjuedebeipiping。