zenmelizhiwanhuihunyin,pengyouhenanpengyoudouaizhebieren,tamenzaixiangaiyinianhouwanhun。zuichu,tamendeganqingfeichangxingfu,keshimanmandi,bicizhujianchanshengfenqihezhengzhi。
zuihou,tamenzaiqunianniandilihun。danshi,zaifenkaiyiduanshijianhou,pengyouzhangfuyishidaozijidecuowu,bingxiangyaozhongxinzhuixunxiaopengyou,xiangfuhe。pengyouyetongyizaihun,zhongjiuyeshiyouganqingdejichu,kepengyou,buxiangzhongdaofuzhe。

tafeichangshimangran,jiujingzaihunqianzenmetan,caiburongyiyiqiandenanti?
一、难题确立
zaihunyinshenghuozhong,zhuyaodewentishigoutongbudaowei、quefaxinrenhexianghuzhichidengzhuduowenti。zhiyouzhenzhengdelejiewentichuzainali,shishazaochengliyi?zheizhongzaochenglihunnanti,nengbunengzaizaihunyiqianjishijiejue。
nenggouzhaodaobicizhijiandechongtudian,jiqifenbiedeqidai。xunzhaobicizhijiandounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa,zaihuncaihuiyouyiyi,wentichuzainalihaibuzhidao,fuhelehuoshinanmianhuiyudaoyiyanglihundeyuanyin。
二、目标制定
bicizhijiandetanpanmubiaoshizaicilajinguanxi、jiaqianggoutongjiaoliuhexianghuzhichi,bianyubujiudejianglaifangzhiyicuozaicuo。goutongdemudedoushixiwangtongguotanpandachengyixiangxieyishu,rangshuangfanggengweilingrenmanyiyuxingfu。
jinyouyouyigegongtongdezongtimubiao,yiqiweilenengzheiyimubiaofuzhunuli,jinliweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuo,buhuizaiduyicuozaicuo。
三、路径选择
lingtingduifangdexuqiuhekanfa

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biaodazijizuoshitaiduguandian
zenmelizhiwanhuihunyinzenmelizhiwanhuihunyin,zaihunqian,bixumingquedijiduifangbiaodaguandianhexingwei,rangduifangzhidaozishenkeyiweilezaihunerfendougaibianxianzhuang。yucitongshi,yexiwangbierennengbiaodazijiqiwangheguandian。nenggouweihunyinshenghuozuochunulihejianchi。
寻找让步
zaigoutongzhong,shuangfangbixuzuochutuoxie。bicizhijiandouyaotanyanzijizaihunyinlidebuzhengque,bingjibicizhiqian;bicizhijianyuanlianglingyifang,jiduifangyigejihui。jinyoushuangfangzuochutuoxie,cainengdachengyixianggongpinggongzhengdexieyishu。
制订切实可行的方案
weiledadaogongtongmubiao,xuyaozhidingyigeqieshikexingdefangan。zheigefanganyingdangbaokuozenyangjiaqianggoutongjiaoliu、zenyanglajinguanxiruhegenghaodixianghuxinrendengduogefangmiandejuticuoshi。
jinyoujianlileyigemingquedefangan,bicizhijiancaikeyizaijiexialaidehunyinshenghuolinenggougenghaodigongchu。

维持积极的心态
zaitanpanhuanjiezhong,shuangfangyaobaochijijidexintai。bixubicizhichiguli,congergenghaodichulixianghuzhijiandenanti。zhiyoubaochijijidexintai,caikeyizaijiexialaidehunyinshenghuoligengweixingfukuaile。
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