怎么理智挽回婚姻

　　zenmelizhiwanhuihunyin，pengyouhenanpengyoudouaizhebieren，tamenzaixiangaiyinianhouwanhun。zuichu，tamendeganqingfeichangxingfu，keshimanmandi，bicizhujianchanshengfenqihezhengzhi。

　　zuihou，tamenzaiqunianniandilihun。danshi，zaifenkaiyiduanshijianhou，pengyouzhangfuyishidaozijidecuowu，bingxiangyaozhongxinzhuixunxiaopengyou，xiangfuhe。pengyouyetongyizaihun，zhongjiuyeshiyouganqingdejichu，kepengyou，buxiangzhongdaofuzhe。

　　tafeichangshimangran，jiujingzaihunqianzenmetan，caiburongyiyiqiandenanti?

　　一、难题确立

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，zhuyaodewentishigoutongbudaowei、quefaxinrenhexianghuzhichidengzhuduowenti。zhiyouzhenzhengdelejiewentichuzainali，shishazaochengliyi?zheizhongzaochenglihunnanti，nengbunengzaizaihunyiqianjishijiejue。

　　nenggouzhaodaobicizhijiandechongtudian，jiqifenbiedeqidai。xunzhaobicizhijiandounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa，zaihuncaihuiyouyiyi，wentichuzainalihaibuzhidao，fuhelehuoshinanmianhuiyudaoyiyanglihundeyuanyin。

　　二、目标制定

　　bicizhijiandetanpanmubiaoshizaicilajinguanxi、jiaqianggoutongjiaoliuhexianghuzhichi，bianyubujiudejianglaifangzhiyicuozaicuo。goutongdemudedoushixiwangtongguotanpandachengyixiangxieyishu，rangshuangfanggengweilingrenmanyiyuxingfu。

　　jinyouyouyigegongtongdezongtimubiao，yiqiweilenengzheiyimubiaofuzhunuli，jinliweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuo，buhuizaiduyicuozaicuo。

　　三、路径选择

　　lingtingduifangdexuqiuhekanfa

　　zaitanpanzhong，lingtingduifangdexuqiuhekanfashihenzhongyaode。bicizhijianzhengqiubiaoshizijigenduifangdeyijianjianyi，lejiebiciduiweilaideqiwangyuxuqiu。weiyouruci，bicizhijiancainenggenghaodexianghuzhichi。

　　biaodazijizuoshitaiduguandian

　　zenmelizhiwanhuihunyinzenmelizhiwanhuihunyin，zaihunqian，bixumingquedijiduifangbiaodaguandianhexingwei，rangduifangzhidaozishenkeyiweilezaihunerfendougaibianxianzhuang。yucitongshi，yexiwangbierennengbiaodazijiqiwangheguandian。nenggouweihunyinshenghuozuochunulihejianchi。

　　寻找让步

　　zaigoutongzhong，shuangfangbixuzuochutuoxie。bicizhijiandouyaotanyanzijizaihunyinlidebuzhengque，bingjibicizhiqian;bicizhijianyuanlianglingyifang，jiduifangyigejihui。jinyoushuangfangzuochutuoxie，cainengdachengyixianggongpinggongzhengdexieyishu。

　　制订切实可行的方案

　　weiledadaogongtongmubiao，xuyaozhidingyigeqieshikexingdefangan。zheigefanganyingdangbaokuozenyangjiaqianggoutongjiaoliu、zenyanglajinguanxiruhegenghaodixianghuxinrendengduogefangmiandejuticuoshi。

　　jinyoujianlileyigemingquedefangan，bicizhijiancaikeyizaijiexialaidehunyinshenghuolinenggougenghaodigongchu。

　　维持积极的心态

　　zaitanpanhuanjiezhong，shuangfangyaobaochijijidexintai。bixubicizhichiguli，congergenghaodichulixianghuzhijiandenanti。zhiyoubaochijijidexintai，caikeyizaijiexialaidehunyinshenghuoligengweixingfukuaile。