婚姻男方怎么挽回

　　hunyinnanfangzenmewanhui，fenkaitongchangbingfeiyicuerjiu，fanershishuciweihuajiemaodunmanmanjileixialaidejielun。zaibicizuoxiatanpanshi，kansishitaolun“shifouyoubiyaozheiduanganqing”，ershijishang，qishishiduibicishifoutongguoyouxiaodegoutonglaihuajieyiwangchongtudeyanjunxingshi。zheiyiguochengjiuyourushutongdusaiguanlu，jiandandixiadaliqijiashuitongchangyushiwubu，bixuzhaodaobingqingchuzhenzhengyiyishangdezusaidian。xiamian，womenjiangcongxinlixueheshizhanyanlianshijiao，shenrufenxiwanhuiaiqingtanpanzhongdehexinluoji。

　　▲tansuogenbenyuanyin(goutongjiaoliushixiao)

　　zaihenduofenkaideqingjingzhong，biaocengyuanyinru“sanguanbuhe”huo“meiganjuele”tongchangbunengjielunantidequanjing。xiangxifenxifajue，chaochu80%defenqidoulaiyuanyugoutongjiaoliudeyiwei。zheileiyiweihenyoukenengtixianwei：

　　yifangguoyutouruquehushilingyifangzhenzhengdexuqiu，biru，nanxingyingongzuojiabanzhishenye，nvxingsuiyisongkuaicandefangshibiaodaguanzhu，quebingweifajuelingyifangzhenzhengxiangyaodeshijingmidexiuxihuanjing;

　　yichenmojiejuezhengchao，jisuowei“lengbaoli”，zheizhongfangfasuiduanzanxingfangzhilemaodun，quelingwuhuimanmanleiji，zuihouyanbianchengwufapojiexinjie;

　　jiangmaiyuanzuoweigoutongjiaoliudeweiyifangshi，biruchangshuo“niconglaibuzaihuwo”，queconglaibushijilunshucunzaidewenti。

　　jinrudaoshangtanyiqian，dajiabixuyaoxiansikaoyiwangsangeyuedexiangchuzhidao，shibushijingchangshenxian“nishuowocai”dejiongjing?biru，renjiashuo“nizongmangzhegongzuo”，qizhenshiyituyoukenengshixiwangninenggouduohuaxieshijianpeizheta/ta。zheizhong“fanyicuowu”rubuduofangmiangaizheng，shangtanquanguochengjianghenyoukenengyicuozaicuo。

　　02

　　供需对接技巧

　　▲ 1.谈判实质

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdetanpanzhong，henduorentongchangjiqiebaozhenghezhiqian，quehushilexianlejieduifangdexuqiu。zhongdianzaiyu，womenyinggaitingdedonglingyifangzhenzhengxiangyaodeshishenme，bingzaicijichushangfuzhuxingdong。biru，zhiyaoduifangxiwangdedaozhongshi，neizaitanpanshi，womenjiuyaofangzhijiqiebianbo，fanershiqingtingbingquedingduifangjianjie，biruyong“ng，dajiajuedeni?”laikaiqihuihua;ruolingyifangbixuguishugan，neiyangchuncuidedaoqiankenengbugou，womenyinggaijijitichujiejuefangan，ru“zaiyudaofenqi，womennengfouchengnuodangrichuli，buguoye?”;dandanglingyifangqidaiyiqichengzhangshi，womenbuyingjinjinkonghuajianglai，ershiyinggaijutiguihua，rulingyifangxiailvyou，womennengjianyi“meiyiniankaisheyibi‘gongtongjijin’，quyigewomendouxiangqudedifang”。

　　▲ 2.zhidingjiejuefangfa

　　zaitanpanzhong，guanjianxingdehuashumobanshi：“wozhiqianhenyoukenengmeiyouyishidao，nizhenzhengxiangyaodeqishijiushi……(zhuanshulingyifangyaoqiu)。xianzaiwoxiangshuo，ruguozaiyoujiyu，wonengneiyanggai……(jutixingdong)。”zheiyangjinengbiaoxianledajiaduilingyibanshichangxuqiudelejie，yechengnuolewomenjiangyaocaiyongdejutixingdonglaimanzuzheixieyaoqiu。yucitongshi，dajiayidingyaozhuyi，zaitichujiejuefanganshi，yaojiehezijideshijiqingkuang，baozhengkeyirenzhenlvxingfuwuchengnuo。

　　03

　　feibaoligoutongyujianshoudixian

　　▲化解冲突及难堪

　　zaitanpanzhong，dangbicishenxianduizhishi，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoyishidaolexintaihaosihedan，ershishinaishixiaofangmiehuoqi。weilefangzhichongtushengji，womenkeyichangshigenggaibiaodaxingshi，biru：

　　jiangchizezhuanhuachengtihui：“nizonggongzuomangliu，woyoushijuedebeihulve。”

　　fangzhijinxingduibi：“kanyixiabierendebanlv，tamenyoushineimetiexin。”

　　gechuweisheliyanyu：“jiarubufuhexing，wojiuzaiyebuhuihuodao。”

　　suizhierlaideshi，xuanyong“guancha+tihui+yaoqiu”degouzaojinxingjiaoliu，biru：

　　hunyinnanfangzenmewanhui，“zuijinwomenhenshaoyoujihuihudongjiaoliu(guancha)，zheirangwoganjuedaoguduyushiwang(tihui)。woxiwangwomennengmeixingqifenpeiertianyiqigongjinwancan，bianyunenggenghaodelejiebicizhijian(yaoqiu)。”

　　neiyangdebiaodafangshigengyouliyubicifangxiaxinfang，goujianqilijieyuzunzhongdechuangkou，bingfeikaiqiduifangfangyuxinli。

　　▲坚守底线标准

　　zaitanpanhuanjiezhong，renmenchangchangzaoyuerzhongbuliangjiduanhuaquxiang：yishimeiyoudixiandedirangbu，tongyilingyifangsuotichudequanbubiaozhun，jinerdaozhineixindebumanyihenanguo;ershiguoduqiangshi，wubinengrangduifangchengrencuowucaikenbaxiu，buranjiuhuiyinqijuliedemaodun。danshi，zuihaodebanfashimingquezijijibenxuqiu，birunikeyijienajianshaolianluodecishu，danbunengrongrenduifangqipianxingwei。zaiyinmoushi，zhiyaoduifangmingquetichu“buyaozaitiguoqu”，ninengfanwendao“neininengxianbaozhengbuduozhewoma?”。jiusuanshangtanzuihouliekai，yidingyaobaochiwenminglimaoyuzunzhong，shuoyiju“ganxienixiangyaotanchengditantaogezhongwenti。buguanjieguoruhe，wodouyaozunzhongnidejueding。”neiyangdebiaodafangshijitixianlenidedixianluojisiwei，yezhanshilenichengshuyukeguan。