女士怎么挽回婚姻

　　nvshizenmewanhuihunyin，aiyaaiya，pengyoumen，shifouyoushihouhuijuedehunyinjiuxiangyichangturuqilaidekuangfengbaoyu，benlaiwanliwuyun，turanyouzhongjianyinyunmibu，leidianjiaojia?biezheji，biezheji，zheiciwozheiyizimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiuyaolaijidajiazhizhizhao，jiaonimenzenyangzaihunyinshenghuodefengyuzhizhong，yongyouxiaogoutongfangfazhengjiuzheixiekansipoliedeguanlian，rangnimendehunyinzaicizhanfangguangcai!

　　一、前言：婚姻问题，谁之过?

　　zongdelaishuo，hunyinlixianruweiji，qishibushinayifangzijidecuo。shenghuoma，zongshichongmanlegezhonggeyangbianhuayutiaozhan，youshishijingjifudanlingrentoubuguoqi，youshishihaizijiaoyuwentirangrentouda，yeyouqingkuangxiahenyoukenengjiushiyixiesuosuixiaoshi，danleijiqilai，quedounengrangyiduanxingfudehunyinliangqihongdeng。

　　danshi，biehaipa，biehaipa!hunyinjiuxiangyiliangche，youdeshihouhuipaoxiamao，danzhiyaowomenlijielezhengqueweixiufangshi，jiunengrangtazhongxinshanglu，paodebizhiqianhaihuan!

　　二、有效沟通：挽回婚姻的秘笈

　　neiyang，yaowanjiuhunyin，zuizhuyaodeshishenme?duile，bianshiyouxiaogoutong!hezuoshixinlingdeqiaoliang，shijiejuewentisuochi，gengjiashiwanhuihunyindemiji!

　　lingtingdemeixue：xiantingdaohoushuo

　　pengyoumen，nimenzhidaome?youxieshihou，hunyinzhongdewentibushiyinweiwojueduibuhui“shuo”，fanershizhiyaowomenburongyi“ting”。zaiwomenhuozaizijidexintailishi，kenenghennanzhenzhengqulejieduifangdeganshouhexiangfa。yinci，ruoxiangyouxiaogoutong，diyibujiushiyaoqingting。

　　ruguonifaxianhunyinshenghuoxianruweijishi，hebuzhaoyigeheshideshiji，yubanlvzuoxia，renzhendetingta/tashuodao。jilao，shizhenzhengyiyishang“ting”，erfeidengdailingyifangshuowanbianbohuoshibianbo。niyaozuodejiushilejiebierendeganshou，ganshoulingyifangdeqingxu，shenzhinengzaishidangdeshihoufanfuduifangdeyisi，rangduifangzhidaonidequeting。

　　liru：“qinaida，wotingjiannikanniganjuewomenzuijingoutongjiaoliujianshaole，nijuedehengudan。shizheiyangdema?”zheizhonghuifubudanhuirangduifangkanjiannideguanxin，haikeyirangduifangzhidaonishizhendezaibuduandongta/ta。

　　biaoxianziwo：zhenxinshiyiweiben

　　dangranle，lingtingjinjingoutongjiaoliudeyibufen，haixuyaodongdebiaodazishen。danshi，biaoxianziwokebushijiandandixuanxieqingxuhuoshihuxiangzhizee!womenyaozuodejiushizhenxinchengyibiaodazijideganshouhekanfa，bingbimianshanghaitaren。

　　liru：“wozheijitianyeganjuedaodajiazhijiandejiaoliuchuxianlewenti，wojuedehenkuijiu，yinweiwomeirangnichongzudeguanzhushouhou。woxiwangwomennengyiqixunzhaojiejuedebanfa。”zheizhongbiaoshujitanchengyoujijizhudong，huirangduifangkanjiannidechengxinheyongqi。

　　xunzhaoxiangtongdian：jianlilianxi

　　zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，haixuyaoqinfenxunzhaogenduifangdexiangtongdian。zheizhongxiangtongdiannenggoushinimengerenaihao、yiqijingli，shenzhiduiweilaideqidai。xunzhaoxiangtongdianhou，dajiajiukezaizheigefangmianchuangjiangengjiashenrulianjie，congertishengxianghuzhijiandeqinmigan。

　　liru：“wohaijidewomenzhiqianyiqiqukandianyingshi，nizongnengcaidaoyingpiandejieguo。neishihoudewoganjuenihaolihai，haoxiyinwo。rujin，jinguanwomenzhongjianyoulediannanti，danshiwoxiangxinwomenyenengxiangyiqianyiyang，xunzhaogongtongyuyan，yiqichuandikuaile。”zheizhongbiaoshubudanhuirangduifangxiangqimeihaoyiwang，haihuirangduifangkanjianniduiweilaidexiangwang。

　　fangzhixiaojiyuyanbiaoda：weichijijizhudong

　　nvshizenmewanhuihunyin，zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，womenyidingyaojinliangbimianshiyongxiaojiyuyanbiaoda。xiaojiyuyanbiaodabudannengrangduifanggandaobushi，haihuishigoutongjiaoliubiandegengjiakunnan。fanguolai，womenyaonulibaochilianghaodexintai，yongzhengxiangdeyuyanbiaodalaiyindaogoutongjiaoliu。

　　liru：“wojuededajiazhijiandewentibingfeiwufajiejuede，zhixuwomenyuanyiyiqinuli，jiuyidingnenggouxunzhaojiejuedebanfa。”zheizhongbiaoshujijijiyouzhenfenrenxin，huirangduifangkanjiannidejuexinheyili。

　　xunqiuzhuanyexiezhu：minerhaoxue

　　dangranle，henduoshihoukenengyudaoyixiebijiaoyanjundewenti，zhikaozishenyubanlvdenenglianghenyoukenengjiejuebule。cike，dajiabufangxunqiuzhuanyedexiezhu，liruhunyinzixunshi、xinlizhuanjiadeng。tamenyouzhefengfudejingyanhefengfudejingyan，keyibangzhuwomengenghaodilejiehejiejuewenti。

　　jilao，xunqiuzhuanyexiezhuyebushishenmediurendeshi。fanguolai，taqiaqiashuomingledajiaduiganqingdeguanzhuheduilingyibandechengdan。yinci，jiarunimenzhijiandeganqingpengjianlenanyijiejuedewenti，bufangshiyishiyongzheizhongfangfaba!