nvrenzhudongtilihun,shenhoutongchangshizhangqijileixialaidehunlianwentidadaowufachengshoudeshuiping。
tayebuhuiqinglvdizuochuzheizhongqueding。

tacengbaqingchun、qingxu、duihaizideqidai、duiwendingmeihaodexiangwang,yijiduiweilaidezhuduoyoulvzheidoubangzaizheiduanganqingshang,jifeidaopobudeyidechengdu,tayebuhuiqingyikaolvdaoliyi。
danshi,dangtaxiajuexin,jishimianduiliyidexinsuanyexinxinliqu,neimeshuomingzheiduanganqingduitalaishuojinshengtongchuhetongku。
zaitayanli,lihunshibaituo。
yinerlaopolihuntaidujiandingyinggaizenmeban?xiamian3geshizhanjiqiaobangzhuniwanjiuhunyin!
一、婚姻生活有问题,那么就精确定位难题
henduorenchangshiwanhuihunyinshi,tongchangzaiyikaishijiufangxiangcuole。
tamenzhuanxinzhizhiyuzenyanglianxitabingqiqiulingyifangliuyou,quehulvelefuqiganqingpoliedezhenshigenbenyuanyin,zheiwangwangshilingyifangxinlibukeqijidenanti。
youxieshihou,tasuozhongshide,nikenenghuibingmeiyoufangzaixinli;tasuotaoyande,erniqueyizaifanfu。
yiner,niyuenuliwanliu,tayexuyuejuedepaichi。ruoxiangyaowanjiuhunyin,shouxianquanmianlejietaweishenmehuifeichangshiwang。

tajingliguoshenmebuyukuaideshi?taxinzhongyoushenmekunao?weihemouxiewentiyizhipinfanchuxian,zaochengchixuzhengzhi?tazhiqianmaiyuanguonishenmequedian?taqidainizenyanggaibian?taxinzhongwanmeidehunyinshishenmeyangzide?
dabufenhunyinshenghuowentidefasheng,bingbushigenjuzhongdayuanzewentifenqi,ershiyouyurichangjileixialaidebiequ。
birupoxizhijianlidebiequ,huozheshinichangchangsuocaiqudelengbaolifangfa。
nijibujitafentan,yemeiyoubiaoxianchugenggaidexiangfa,taduiyuzheiduanganqingdangranshiquqidai。
duiyunvxingeryan,qiantumimangbishenmeshiqingdougengkongbu,yidanxinhuiyileng,tahuijiandingbuyideliqu。
yiner,ruoxiangxiyinlaopo,shouxianshenruyanjiutajuedingliqushenhoudegenbenyuanyin。
jinguannanshihenyoukenengxiangfabijiaocu,buzuxizhi,danzheiyibuyouweizhongyao,zhijieyingxianghouxuwanliuqinfen。
jujiaowentideguanjian,suihouzhenduixingdiqinfen,caihuishibangongbei。jiarunikunhuobuyihuoxuyaobangmang,suishisuididoukeyixunqiuzhuanyetiyiheyindao。
二、积极化解矛盾,复建归属感

rentongheguishuganzaiganqingzhongbenbianshixianghuguanliande,dangyigerenyuerenkenishi,tazainipangbianyejiuyuejuedeshuxinheanwen。
zheileianquanganjiushibiaoxianzairichangxingweibiaoxianyancilide:
xiongzhongyoushuderen,biaoxiandehenchenwen,xiangshenghaihuirouhe;danshiruguomeiyouanquangan,renjiukenengzhuangmozuoyang、qiangshihuduzi。
dangairentilihunshi,henyoukenengyanyumenglie,zheishibukeshouzuwucuohuoguoyujinjinjijiao,zheizhiyinweixinligandaokongxu、biequtaijiu,suosuzaodeyizhongziwofangyujizhi。
zheishi,zhiqianheshengsiqikuoqishibingbujianxiao。
zuizhongyaodeshiyaozhanxianzhenshishuiping,rangqikanjianniwentijiejuenengli,jiqiniyaopeizhetayisheng、shouhutadechengyi。
weilenengfujianguishugan,bixuconglianggefangmianxiashou:
zuixian,yaochengxinchengyidijiuzhengcuowu,quanmianlejieairenxinhuiyilengdezhuyaoyuanyin,erbuzhishikoutoushangdefuwuchengnuo;
cizhi,deyongxingdonglaiwenxintadexin,liruzaijiejuepoxiguanxishi,bubibikaihuofuyanleshi,yaojijiganyuxieshang。
rencuobingbiaomingjianglaidexingweifangwei,richangzhongchongfentixianyanxingyizhi,cainengzhujianzhongjianxinren。
hunyinshenghuoyoubieyutanlianai,liyiduibicidoushizhongcuo,yinciyinggaijiejinquanlizhengjiu。zhiyaozhenxinhuiguobingnulibiandegenghao,airenkenenghuigaibianqingyi。
三、接纳对方的感受,试着深度交流调整情绪
nvfangchuguihunyinzenmewanhui,zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong,dangwomenmianduilingyibandefapiqi、pokoudamaheshengsilijieshi,bubiguofenhuangluan。
zheidoushiqingxufaxie,biaomingtayezaihuzheiduanganqing,cainengyinweizaihuerchuxianxinlixianxiang。
tayaoshiduiyiqiedoubiaoxiandelengmo、buzaihu,neicaishizhenzhengdeyujingxinhao,biaomingtahuoxuyijingchedifangxia,buhuizaiduinichanshengyiqiexiwang。
yingduitaxiaojiqingxu,womenyaoshizhelejietafahuanghemingan。
cike,ruguokeyizuoxiagentashenrujiaoliu,lijihuajiemaodun,wanhuiaiqingdehaojihuijiuhuidadazengjia。
laijidajiajuyigejiandanlizi,jiangxiagoutongjiaoliugousi:
“zheixienianlai,niweilezheigejiamomodifuchuletaiduo,naizhiningyuanxishengzijimeihaodeqingchun,bajiazhaogudehenhao。keshiwo,budanmeiyouduizijidexincunganen,fandaoshinimomochengshoulehenduonanguo。woshenganneijiu,ganxieniyizhiyilaidebaoronghelijie。huiwangguoqu,wocaiyishidaoweilezheigejia、bangnizuodehaibugou。queshi,zhendeduibuqi。”
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