chuguizhangfuzenmewanhuihunyin,zaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushidai,ganqinghaoxiangyebianderuzhongshikuaicanyiban,laidekuaiqulaidekuai。hunyinshenghuo,neigecengjingbeichengzuorenshengdaoluzuiguanjianhaigangdeci,xianrujinzhengmianlinzhejudatiaozhan。liyi,neigecengjinglingrenbierbutantaolundehuati,xianzaiqueriyipinfandichuxianzaiwomenshenghuozhong。dannizhidaoma?jibianhunyinshenghuohuashanglejuhao,yeshiyouzhongyuandekenengxing。jinri,zuoweiyimingzimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wojiangweinijiemilihunzhihouwanhuilaogongde5gehaoyongduice,rangwomendeganqingzhizhouzaiciyangfanyuanhang。
对策一:理智思考,找到问题的根源

liyibingbushiyishichongdong,fanershizhangqifenqijileixialaidejielun。yinci,xiangwanhuihunyinshenghuo,diyibujiushilizhisikao,zhaodaowentidebenzhi。
1. huiwanghunyinshenghuoguocheng
zhaoyigeanjingdeyewan,paodaoyibeixiangming,xixidihuiwangnimenzhijiandeganqingguocheng。congxiangshi、lianaijiehunlingzheng,meiyigejieduandouchongmantianmeihehuiyi。danshiyebuyaotaobizheixiezhengchaohefenqi,zhengshizheizhongbuyukuaiqinshenjingli,caishidedajiazoudaolejintianzheiyibu。
2. 思考问题缘故
nachuyizhangzhi,liejudajiahunyinlifashengdesuoyouwenti。shigoutongbudaowei?huoshishenghuofangshibuyiyang?yihuozheshijingjifazhanyalida?bubibuganmianduinanti,jinyouzhimianwenti,cainengjiejuewenti。
3. 自我反思
zailiejuwentizhihou,xiamiannengzuodejiushiziwofansi。wenziji,zaizheileiwentizhong,zijishibushiyiwu?shifouyoushiguoyuzisizili,meiyoukaolvbierendeganshou?shifouyoushiguoyubulizhi,daochuleshangxindehua?jinyouyishidaozijidebugou,cainenggenghaodequjiuzheng。
对策二:保持联络,展现更改
lihunzhihou,yuelaiyueduoderenxuanzeduanjueyiqielianluo,renweizheiyangcainengrangzishengengyouxiaodibaituotongku。danshijishang,baochishidangdelianluo,zhanshinidegenggai,caisuanshiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。

1. 适当联络
buyaopinfandidajiaolingyifang,danshiyebuyaoxiaoshi。yekeyizailingyifangshengri、jierihuoshiyixieteshuderilitou,fayitiaoduanxinhuoshisongyifenxiaolipin,biaoshunidezhufuheguanai。
2. 展现更改
zaibaochilianluodeqiantixia,gengyingzhanxianzijidegenggai。jiaruniyiqianqingxubuwending,neiyangxianzaikaishiguanlihaoqingxu;jiaruniyiqianbudonglanman,neixianzaiyidingyaodongdezhizaolangman。rangbierenkanjiannidegenggai,kanjiannidechengxin。
3. zhongxinjianlijiaoliufangshi
ruguoyiqiandejiaoliufangshiyizhizaochengzhengchaohefenqi,neiyangxianzaikaishishizhezhongxinjianlijiaoliufangshi。keyikaolvjixin、faxinxihuoshishipintonghua,zhaodaoyizhongbijiaoshihenidejiaoliufangshi,rangshuangfangdeneixingengtiejin。
对策三:借力使力,求助
chuguizhangfuzenmewanhuihunyin,youshi,dankaozijideliliangshiwufamibuhunyinshenghuode。cike,neijiuxuyaojielishili,xunqiuzhuanyedexiezhu。

1. 寻找心理辅导
xinlixuezixunshiyouzhuanyedeqingganzixunshi,tamennenggoubangzhunipouxihunyinzhongdewenti,jiyuyouxiaodejiejuefangan。genjuxinlifudao,nikeyigenghaodelejieziji,lejiezijijingshenxuqiu,congergenghaodiquwanjiuhunyin。
2. canyuhunyinxiufukechengneirong
xianzaidaduoshuhunyinxiufukechengneirong,cileikechengyibanhuizhuanjiajiaoshouyixiegoutongdejiqiao、jiaowangjiqiaodengshiyongzhuanyezhishi。tongguojubancileikecheng,nikeyixuedaoruheyouxiaoheduifanggongchu,zenyangbimianchongtudechansheng,jinerjinidehunyinwanhuitigongqiangyoulideshiyong。
3. xunzhaoqinqipengyoudexiezhu
qinqipengyoujiushinizuijianqiangdehoudun,tamenguanzhunideguoquyuxianzai,yexinganqingyuanweiniweilaidefazhanxianjixiance。nenggouhetamenfenxiangzijidemimanghekunao,tingyitingtamendeyijianjianyi。huoxu,tadeyijuhuajiunengrangnihuorankailang,xunzhaowanjiuhunyindejihui。
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