挽回婚姻怎么改变

　　wanhuihunyinzenmegaibian，nishibushiyeganjue，jinqijialifenweijiangdaolingdu?nishizhezhiqian，tajiang“meishier”;nixiangyaojiejin，tamomodibikai;naizhizhengzhidouchengleshehua，jinshenglingrenxinzuidechenmowuyan。nidexinlihuhan：“xifuduiyuwoxinhanxinhanle，wodaodiyinggaizenmewanliuzheiduanganqing?”

　　nizaiwangshangsousuo，kanjiandewufeijiushi“duojiaoliu”、“duosongli”、“duozuojiawu”zheizhonglaodiaozhongdan。nishiguo，jieguofaxianshouxiaoshenwei，naizhirangqigengdichu。weihe?tebieshidangyikexinzaoyizhileng，biaocengdeyinqingrutongzaibingmianshangdahuo，budantulaowugong，fanerxiandexuqingjiayi。

　　jinri，woxianggaosuniyigecankudeshishi：niwanliude，bingbushiyiduanguanxi，ershiyigeduizijideshiwangtoudingderen。yongcuofangshi，zhihuibatatuigenggaogengyuan。xiamian，womenjiangwanquandianfuniderenzhi，rangniyitaozhenzhengnenggoupengchuguanjian、xiubuliefengde“biaobenjianzhi”jihuafangan。

　　(diyibufen：fourenjibenguannian——weihezhiqianhequyueshiwuxiaode?)

　　dangyigenvrenshuo“xinhanxinhuiyileng”，tashuodebushimouyijianzhuyaodeshiqing，zhishizhangqixingleijiqingxu“zhaiwu”。zheijiuyiweizhe，taneixindebenzishang，zaoyikoumanniyicicirangqichengkongdeqiwang、beihulvedetiyan、beishanghaideyishunjian。

　　zheishihou，niruanmianmiandeyiju“duibuqi，xiacibuhuile”，huoshimaigebaobao、tuocidi，duitalaishuoyiweishenme?

　　fuyansaize：nijuedeyongyidianyingtouxiaoli，jiukexiangditadeneixinzhangqideshangtong?zheibenshenjiushiduitabeishangdeyizhongmiaoshi。

　　mudexingqiang：nideyiqie“hao”doushidaizhemingquedemude——“yaowohuidaozuichu”。taganshoubudaozhenxinshiyi，zhijuedenishigezaikaizhanyichangjiaoyi。

　　nantiyiran：guanjianfenqi(birushuonibudandang、butitie、qianquetonglixin)genbenjiumeiyouchuli，taqiantumimangchuxianrenhegenggaidejihui。

　　zhuminghunyinzhiliaoshiyuehan·getemancengjingshuoguo：“zaihunyinshenghuozhong，zhimingxingdebingbushizhengzhi，fanershimanzhang、nanyibeihuifugudu。”taxianzaidechenmowuyan，zhengshizheiyangdejimodezhongjixingtai。yinci，buyaozaiquzuoneixieyigaierlundexingweile，neizhihuidaibiaoniyagenbunenglijietayouduotong。

　　(dierbufen：mingquetichuxinrenshi——cong“zhaiquanren”dao“hezuohuoban”shendufujian)

　　zhenzhengyiyishangdewanliu，bingbushi“huidaocongqian”，yinweiguoqudeguanximoxingyijingzhengmingleshishibaide。zhenzhengyiyishangdewanliu，shigongtongkaichuangyizhongxinde、jiankangdeshenghuoxiangchuzhidao。niyaowanchengdeshenfenzhuanhuanshi：congyigechixurangqi“touxian”qingganshangde“fuzhairen”，shengjichengyigehuirangtafangxin、xinrende“renshengdaoluhezuohuoban”。

　　zheiyigaibiandeguanjian，qujueyushencengtonglixinyujiazhizhonggou。bingbushiniyaojitaganshenme，ershiyaochengweiyigezenmeyangderen。

　　(disanbufen：jutifanganheanli——wanliu“bengkuixifu”desanbushicaofa)

　　diyibu：zhanlve“moran”——zhongzhitouxian，rangshangkouyuhe

　　cishi，tagengxuyaodeshinaxie?shikongjianheshijianqingjing。niyuzhanyuyong，rutongbuduanqusidiaogangjiejiadeshangkou。

　　ruhezuo：tingzhiyiqiehaowuyiyidezhiqianhequyue。ba“womenliaoyiliao”huanwei“womenxuyaojingjingdihua，wojiuzaibuyuanchu”。nidexingweiyaochuansongyigexinxi：“wozunzhongnidetiyan，wojinishijianxiaohuaxishou。”

　　wanhuihunyinzenmegaibian，anli：taxiabanhuilailiansebuhao，kebieshuo“youzenmele”，fanershijitadaobeicha，jiushuo：“nikanqilaifeichanglei，xianxiuxiyixia，wancanwolaizuo。”suihoujingjingdiliqu。zheiyijudong，bitatingniyibaiju“laopoxinkule”gengyouliliang。zheijiujiao“yongshijixingdongqudaiyanci”。

　　dierbu：quezhenshi“fupanzongjie”——xunzhaozhengjie，bingfeidanxinduiyucuo

　　nixuyaoduziwanchengyicishenkeziwopouxi。wenyixiazijihaoduogecankudenanti：

　　tameiyicixinhan，qibeihoudeguanjianxuyaoshishenme?(shizhidebeishiyong?beirenlijie?yeshixuyaoguishugan?)

　　wofeichangrangqijieshoubulede、fanfuchuxiandequedianshishenme?(shihuibiwenti?qingxufanzao?huoshishizhongbabierenfangdaoqinrenyiqian?)

　　ruguowoshita，qinshenjinglizheiyiqie，tahuibuhuibixianzaidetazuodegenghao?

　　xinlixuezhuanjiawuzhihongcengbiaoshi：“fuqiguanxishitouyingzhuangkuangzuiyanzhongdiqu。”nikandaitafangfa，henyoukenengyingshelezijineixindewaishanghemoshi。zheiyifupanzongjiebingbushiweileziwopipan，gengshiweilezhenzhenglejietajidianshangxindezhenggeguocheng。zhiyouzhaodao“zhengjie”，caikeyijichu“fangzi”。