婚姻出现背叛怎么挽回

　　hunyinchuxianbeipanzenmewanhui，liangdifenjuhou，xuduofuqikenenghuijuedehunyinshenghuozaoyihuashanglejuhao，wanliudegailvjihuweiling。zheizhongguannianshijishanglaiyuanyuliangdifenjusuodailaidewulijulihejuliganshuangzhongxiaoying。

　　congwulijulilaishuo，liangdifenjudaibiaozhefufubuhuizaiwuhuabushuo，benlaishenghuojiezoudapo。meilerichangdegongchu，lianjibendegoutongjiaoliudouhuibiandexique。liru，yiqianmeitianzaochenyiqichizaocan、yeliyiqisanbudemeihaoshiguangdangranwucun，suizhierlaideshigezimangliu、hubuganraodeshenghuozhuangtai。zheileiwulishangdefenlichulairangfuqijiandeqingganlianjiezhujiandanhua，naizhihuirangrenchanshengyizhong“jijingbushiyijiaren”deganjue。

　　juligandefangdagengjiazhimingxing。liangdifenjuqinei，fuqiliangrenkenengshenxianzijidexinqingxuanwozhong。yifangkenenghuiyinweiliangdifenjuerjuedebeiyiqi，huaihenzaixin;lingyifangkenenghuiyinweiduobifenqierbaochichenmo，qishineixinzaijileichendianxinhan。liru，laopoyinweizhangfudelengdanerxuanzeleliangdifenju，liangdifenjuhoulaogongbiaomianshangkanqilaikanqilainingjing，danshineixinyiranzaibuduandanxin“tashifouzaoyibuaiwole”。erqizizekenenghuiyinweiwufadedaolaogongdeguanhuaiergengjianding“tagenbenbuzaiyiwo”deniantou。zheileijingshenshangdejiedihuishifuqiliangrenzaimianduikunnanshigengjiaxiaochen，huozhebuxiangyaochangshigoutongjiaoliu。

　　danliangdifenjubingfeiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozaizuai。xuduofuqijibiantiantianjianmian，yebuyidingnengchuliwenti。yaoshifuqijianbukeyiyouxiaodegoutong，meifarenqingbingchulihunyinshenghuocunzaidewenti，neiyangtiantianjianmianfanerhuirangfenqigengweiehua。liru，yiduifuqiyouyupoxizhijiannantichangchangzhengzhi，liangdifenjuhousuiranzanshifangzhilemaodun，danwentidebenzhibingmeiyoujiejue。ruguotamenzaicishenghuozaiyiqi，querengranmeiyouzhaodaoheshidejiejuefangan，zhengzhizhihuigengjiajingchang，naizhiranghunyinmaixiangliekai。

　　yinci，liangdifenjujinjinhunyinlideyigejieduan，zhenzhengjuedingwanhuihunyinshizhifuqiliangrenyuanbuyuanyimianduikunnan、chuliwenti。

　　er、liangdifenjufufuxiufuguanxideguanjiansuozai

　　(yi)gerenzhixingliyuxixin

　　wanjiuhunyindediyibushiwenziji：woshibushizhendenenggouweizheiduanganqingfuzhuxingdong?bushaorenzailiangdifenjuzhihouxianruyizhongchongtudeqingkuang，yifangmianqidaiwanjiuhunyin，lingyifangmianyouyinweibierendedanmohuoziyidebiequerxuanzelexiaojidengdai。liru，laogongqidailaopohehaoruchu，danshitaquebuyuanzhudongzhao，zongshixiangzhe“dengtajijizhaowo”。zheiyangdexintaifanerhuirangguanlianjinyibuehua。

　　zhenzhengyiyishangdewanliubixuzhixingli。yekeyicongyixiexiaodexingweizhujian，birumeitianjibicifayitiaoguanzhuduanxin，jiusuanzhishidanchunde“jintiandetianqileng，haijideduochuandianyifu”。zhengshizheixiemiaoxiaodexingwei，shijishangshizaijiduifangchuansongniguanhuaihezaiyi。yucitongshi，xixinyefeichangzhongyao。wanjiuhunyinbushiyicuerjiudeshier，kenenghaixuyaohaoduogeyueshenzhigengjiu。zaizheiguochengzhong，nikenengyudaoduifanglengdan、huijuenaizhihaiji，danshizhiyaonidechufadianshihaode，jiubuyaoqingyanfangqi。

　　(er)zhimianwentiranhouzhaodaojiejuefangan

　　xuduofuqizaifenchuanghouchangshi“youpian”dexingshiwanhuiqianren，lirufuwuchengnuo“wozhihouxintengni”“wonengyangchenglianghaoxiguan”，danshiquemeiyoujutidejihua。zheizhongfangfatongchangdebuchangshi，yinweibierenhuirenweinizhibuguoshizaikongtan。

　　zhimianwenticaishizhongdian。liru，jiarunimendehunyinnantishiyouyujingjifudansuodaozhidezhengzhi，neimejiuxuyaoyiqizhidingyigexiangjindecaiwuyuce;jiarushisanguanbuhe，neimejiuxuyaoxuexipeixunruheyouxiaogoutongyulijieduifang。liru，yiduifuqiyinweizhangfutiantianjiabanerzhengchao，laopoganjuebeihulve，laogongzejuedezijiyijingjiejinquanliyangjiahukou。liangdifenjuhou，laogongyishidaolewentidebenzhi，takaishizheshoudiaozhengshizhang，bingjijiyuqizigoutongjiaoliuzishengongzuoyali，yucitongshifuwuchengnuomeixingqichouchulaiguidingqixianshouhoulaopo。zheileishijixingdongranglaopotihuidaolelaogongdechengyi，guanlianyeyoucizhujiangaishan。

　　san、zenmecaozuocaikeyiwanbiliangdifenjujushi?

　　(yi)zhudongzhao，dapojiangju

　　liangdifenjuhou，yuelaiyueduoderenxuanze“lengbaoli”，juedeshijiannengchuliwenti。keshishishang，lengbaolifanerhuirangguanliangengweijiangying。zhudongzhaoshiniuzhuanjumiandediyibu。womenkeyitongguoshouji、duanxiaoxihuoshilingjulidefangshibiaodaniguanhuaiheqianjiu。liru，nikeyizheiyangshuo：“womingbaiwomenzuijinxiangchuyoudewenti，woyizhizaishenshizijibugou。wofeichangxiangnianwomenyiqishenghuoderizi，xiwangwomennenghaiyoujihuizuozhelaijiangjiang。”

　　(er)zaojiupengmianjiyu，fujianqingganlianjie

　　hunyinchuxianbeipanzenmewanhui，pengmianshixiufuguanxidezhongyaoyibu。nikeyitongguoyixiegongtongdegerenaihaohuozhehuodongzaojiujiechudejihui，liruyiqicanjiayigeduanqineilvyou、qukanyichangdianyinghuozhecanjiayigepengyoujuhui。zaihuimianhuanjiezhong，jinkenenggoujianqingsongdefenwei，fangzhiyikaishijiutaolunhunlianwenti。liru，ninenggenduifangyiqizhuiyiyixiemeihaodewangshi，gongxiangjinqidediandiandidi，nengrangduifangkanjiannidezhenzhihewenxin。

　　(san)yongshijixingdongbiaoshiaiyi，bingfeikongdongdefuwuchengnuo

　　xingweizongshibiyuyanbiaodagengyouliliang。zailiangdifenjuqinei，nikeyitongguoyixieshijixingdongnengrangduifangkanjiannideqingyi。liru，weibicitiqianzhunbeiyidunwancan、songyifenxiaolipin、bangmangchuliyixieshenghuozhongdeshiqing。zheixiexingdongnengrangduifangkanjiannidediaozhengheqinfen，jinerzaiciduiniyouxinlai。

　　(si)xunqiuzhuanyexiezhu，xunzhaowentidebenzhi

　　jiarunimenzhijiandeganqingnantijiaoweifuza，lirushejidaojiabao、waiyuhuozhezhangqidejiatinglengbaoli，dantongguozijidenulihenyoukenenghennanjiejue。zheishihou，xunqiuzhuanyedeqingganzhuanjiadezhichishifeichangyoubiyaode。zhongyuanqingganzhuanjianenggoutongguozhuanyepingdingheyindao，bangzhunimenxunzhaowentidebenzhi，bingzhidingjutidejiejuefangfawanhuihunyin。