失败后怎么挽回婚姻

　　shibaihouzenmewanhuihunyin，zaizheiyangyigechongmanbianshudeniandai，hunyinshenghuohaoxiangyebiandeyuelaiyuemingan。dangcongqiandeshengsiqikuobeishenghuodefanzasuozhansheng，dangcengjingdetianmibeiwujinzhengzhisuotidai，liyi，jihuchenglehaoduorenwufataobidesuming。danshi，liyiwanquanjiushizhongdianzhanma?bu!duiyuyixierengranduiyuhunyinbaoyouhuanxiang，rengranduiairenhuaizheshenqingdereneryan，wanjiuhunyin，bingbushiyaobukejidemengxiang。jinri，zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi，wojiangweinijiemi5gehaoyongduice，bangzhunizhongxindianranaidehuoyan，wanliuneijiangyaoshiquhunyinshenghuo。

　　一、前言：离异不是终点，反而是新的起点

　　liyi，duiyudaduoshurenlaishuo，wuyishiyicichenzhongdaji。bujinjindaibiaozheyiduanganqingdewanbi，gengyoukenengbansuilihuncaichanfenge、haizifuyangquandengyixiliefuzawenti。danshi，jiuxiangzheijuhuachangshuo：“meiyiciwanbi，quanshixinkaishidezhongzhang。”liyi，tongyangyekeyijiushinizhongxinsikaohunyinshenghuo、zhongshiaidetupokou。zhiyaonixiangfuzhunuli，yingyongqiadangdesilu，wanjiuhunyin，bingbushibutaikeneng。

　　二、对策一：理智思考，找到问题的根源

　　wanjiuhunyindediyibu，bingbushijiyuqiuhe，fanershilizhisikao。womenxuyaojingxialai，shensishulvzaochengfuqiganqingpoliedezhuyaoyuanyin。shiyouyusanguanbuhe?yeshiyinweiqueshaogoutong?shiyouyudisanzhechazu?yeshiyinweishenghuosuoshijileixialaidefenqi?zhiyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi，cainengshibangongbei，weiwanjiuhunyindiandingjichu。

　　zaifansideguochengdangzhong，bufangshizhecongwodejiaodukaolv，kanyixiazijishibushizaihunyinshenghuozhonglvxingleyingyoudezeren。shibushiguoduzisizili，zhiguanzhuzijidexiangfa?shibushiqianquekuanrong，duibierendequedianxiaodujichang?shibushishuhugoutongjiaoliu，rangwuhuihejiedizhujianjiashen?dangninengtanchengdijienazijidenanti，bingqieyuanyiweicigaibianshi，jiuyijingtachuwanjiuhunyindezhongyaoyibu。

　　三、对策二：提升自己，重构诱惑力

　　henduorendourenwei，wanjiuhunyinbianshidisanxiasidiqiulingyifanghuijia。qishibushi。zhenzhengyiyishangdewanliu，doushijiyutishengzijidejichuzhishang。womenxuyaobuduanxuexiyuchengzhang，rangzijibiandegengjiachuse、gengweixiyinren。neiyang，budanhuirangduifangkanjiannidezhuanbian，zaiciduiniyouxingquaihao，yenengrangnifenshouwanhuihuanjiezhonggengyouzixin、gengweigengyoudiqi。

　　shibaihouzenmewanhuihunyin，tishengziji，nenggoucongduogefangmianxiashou。liru，ninengtigaozijidewaizaixingxiang，genjuyundongjianshen、meironghufudengxingshishizijihuanranyixin;ninengchongshizijineizaixiuyang，tongguoyuedu、lvyoudengxingshikaituoshiye、kaikuoyanjie;nihaikeyitishengzijideqingxushuiping，dongderuheyouxiaobiaoshiaiyi、zenyangchulirenjichongtu。ruguoniyuelaiyuezugouqiangdashi，zirannenggouxiyinduifangmuguang，rangwanliubiandegengjiarongyi。

　　四、对策三：创建有效的沟通，消除误会芥蒂

　　hezuoshijiejuewentigongluqiaoliang。fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，chuangjianyouxiaogoutongyouweizhongyao。womenxuyaoqingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，lejieduifanglichangyuxuqiu。yucitongshi，yexuyaotanchengdibiaoshuneixindexiangfaheyongqi，rangduifangzhidaoniyeshizhenxinshiyixiangwanhuizheiduanganqing。

　　youxiaogoutong，keyijianlizaigongping、zhongshideqiantixia。zaijiaoliuzhong，yidingyaobimianchizeheweiqu，ershiyipingjingdekouqibiaodazijideguandian。yucitongshi，yeyaodongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu，bimianyinyishichongdongerjiangchushanghaitarendehua。dangninenggenduifangjinxingshenrudegoutongjiaoliu，xiaochuwuhuihejiedishi，wanjiuhunyinjiuyichenggongleyidaban。