挽回咨询：老婆背叛婚姻怎么挽回

　　laopobeipanhunyinzenmewanhui，aizongshitianmeiyoulingrenshenwangde，danhunyinquexiangshiyichangmanzhangxiuxi，zaizheiguochengzhong，youxierenxiuchenglezhengguo，youderenquebantufenledaoyangbiao。duidailiyizheiyichenzhongdehuati，henduorendouhuigandaowulihemimang，tebieshineixieyiranshenailingyifang，queyinweigezhongyuanyinzoudaofenchalukouderen。neiyang，liyilezheiyizenyangwanhuihunyinni?biezheji，xiamianwomenjiulaiqingqingganzixunshijidajiazhizhizhao，shoubashoujiaonifujianneiyifenyiqianmeihaodeaiqing。

　　一、认清离婚实际，找到存在的问题

　　liyi，duiyudaduoshurenlaishuo，doushiyigebuyuanmianduidanyoubudebujieshoudeshiji。buguojiranshieryijingfashengle，womenjiuyinggaijiandingdirenqingta，erbushixuanzeduobi。duobinanyijiejueqitawenti，jinyouzhimianxianshi，cainengfaxianjiejuewentidefangfa。

　　neiyang，shouxianjiuyaozhaodaozaochengliyidewentisuozai。shiyouyusanguanbuhe?yeshiyinweishenghuofangshichayitaida?yihuozheshiyouyuwaibudeyinyouheganrao?buguanshishenmeyuangu，womendouhuilizhidipouxi，keguandedianping。

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，henduorenkenenghuishenxianyigewuqu，neibianshiyiweidizhizelingyifang，chengzhiweilingyifangzijidecuodaozhilehunyinshenghuodeliekai。keshishishang，hunyinjiushilianggerendeshiqing，chuwentiyewangwangshibicidouyouzeren。yinci，zaixunzhaowentishi，womenyinggaikeguanxingkeguankandaizishengenduifang，buyaoyiweiditaobizeren。

　　二、保持理智和理性，防止情绪不稳定个人行为

　　lihun，dabufenrendouhuigandaokongju、naonu、shiwangdengfumianqingxufuxianzaiyanqian。danzaizheishihou，dajiayidingyaobaochilengjinghelixing，qianwanbuyaobeixintaisuoyingxiang。youyuqingxuhuagerenxingweiwangwanghuirangshieryuelaiyuegengjiazaogao，naizhiwufamibu。

　　liru，youyixierenyiliyijiujizhequlianxiduifangjichulilun，huozhedaolingyifangjiazhongdanaoyichang。zheizhongxingweibudanwujiyushi，zhihuiranglingyifanggengweidichuni，gengjiandinglikainidexinxin。yinci，zailihunzhihoudeyiduanshijianli，womenshouxianyaodiaozhengzijidexintai，shizijijingxiaxinlai。

　　neiyang，zenyangbaochilixinghelixingni?zheijiuxuyaodongdekongzhihaozijideqingxu，bunengrangqingxuzuoyouwomendexingwei。keyitongguoyixiefangfalaijianqingziyidexiaojiqingxu，liruzhaogepengyouqingtu、chuqulvxingsanxin、tingtinggefangsongyixiadeng。zhiyoudangwomenbaochilixinghelixingdeqingkuangxia，cainenggenghaodesikaowenti、chuliwenti。

　　三、提高自身价值，再次吸引对方

　　haoduorenlihuncaiyishidaoshiquletaiduo，lirushiqulingyifangpeiban、shiquqinqingdewennuan、shiqucongqiandexingfukuailedeng。danzaizheishihou，dajiabuyaoyiweidichenjinyushiqudetongkuzhong，fanershiyaogaoduzhongshidikaishixingdong，tigaozishenjiazhi，zaicixiyinduifang。

　　laopobeipanhunyinzenmewanhui，tigaozishenjiazhibingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，taxuyaodajiafuchugengduoqinfenyushijian。danzhiyaowomenjianchidaodi，jiuyidinghuiyousuoshouhuo。neiyang，zenyangtigaozishenjiazhini?keyicongyixiajigefangmianxiashou：

　　zishenxingxiangdetigao：yigerendewaizaixingxiangshifeichangzhongyaode，tawangwangnenggoujirendailaidiyiyinxiang。yinci，womenyinggaizaiyizijideyizhedaban、yantanjuzhidengduogefangmian，rangzijikanqilaigengyouzixin、youqizhi。

　　benzhisuyangdetigao：chukaizishenxingxiangwai，benzhisuyangyeshifeichangzhongyaode。womentongguoduoyuedu、duoxuexuelaichongshizijidezhishichubei;tongguojubanyixiexiuxianhuodonglaitishengzijiderenjijiaowangnengli;genjupeiyangyixiegerenaihaolaitigaozijideshenghuolequdeng。zaiwomenbuduantishengzijidebenzhisuyangshi，jiufaxianzijibuzhibujuedibiandegengyouxiule。

　　jingjifazhanshuipingdetigao：zaixiandaishehuizhong，jingjifazhannenglishihengliangyigerenshiyongjiazhidezhongyaoyijuzhiyi。yinci，yidingyaonuligongzuozhong、jijizhudongzizhuchuangyehuoshijinronglicaideng，shizijidejingjishilidedaozengqiang。zaiwomenyouleyidingdejingjitiaojianshi，jiufaxianzijizairichangshenghuozhonggengweigengyoudiqile。

　　zaiwomenjingguonulitigaozishenjiazhishi，jiufaxianzijibuzhibujuedibiandegengyouxiule、gengyoujingzhenglile。suoyizheigeshihou，huoxuduifangjiuhuizhujianzhongxinsikaoni、zhongxinshenshinizaitaxinzhongdediweihejiazhiheyiyi。