分手教你怎么挽回婚姻

　　fenshoujiaonizenmewanhuihunyin，qinshenjinglishilianderen，tongchanghuiyouxinhan、nanguo、beifenhejiuchanbuqingdengfuzadeganqing。takenenghuifanfuzhuomozishendaodinalizuodebugouhao，naizhichangshiwanliuzheifenganqing。danshi，dangzheiyangdeqingxumanmanhuifuhou，takenenghuiyishidaole，chukaihouhuimojiyuxiwangfuhexingyiwai，yeyougengzhongyaodedongxifeichangzhidequzhuixun。neiyang，zenyangcainenggengqiadangdiyingduishilianle，fangzhiwanliubuchenggongni?xiamian，rangwomenyiqitaolunzheizhongqingkuang。

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　　1.应对失恋了智慧

　　1.1 ◆心态调节

　　zailianaiguanxizhong，biciguanzhudeshiqingxu，erbushidanchundezheiyishishi。yiner，zaixinliyanqian，henduoshiqingbingmeiyoujueduiduicuozhifen。danshi，youdenvxingyoukenengzaiyixiewentishangyunanxingfashengzhengzhi，bingnuliyaoqiutamenrenkezijidexiangfa，buranjiuburongyibashou。ruguoyujianyiyangpiqijueqiangdenanshi，zheileizhengchaobiranhuidaozhijuliedemaodun，zuizhongkenengshihunyinpolie。

　　shishishang，nanshizaidaduoshuqingkuangxiadouzhuzhongqingmian，jiusuantazhidaozuocuoshile，yehuiyinweibingbushierguzhijijian。zheishi，youdenvxingkeyiqiaomiaodiyunyongyixieduice，lirushaojiamaimeng：“nibiezheimexiongma，wohaopawo”，neiyangdabufennanshiyehuiyincibianruanxintai，naizhiyunxunvshideniantou。zheizhongjiaoliufangshibudandadaomudi，haikeyijinyibuzengqiangshuangfangdeganqing，wuyishiyizhongzhengquedexuanze。

　　1.2 ◆genggaijiaoliufangshi

　　zaitansuowanhuinanyoushi，womenyingshikelaoji，butanwangshi，butiguoqu。yiqiandeshiqingduinimenlaijiang，tongchangchongmanzhesuoyouxinuaile。yidanhuatitaolunpengchuwangri，bulunshinanwangdehuiyihuoshicongqiandezhengduo，douhuijiqilingyifangxinlidebolan。weilefangzhijiechuzheixiebuyukuaizhuiyi，womenyingshizhongbaochijijizhudongjiqingdexintai，jiduifangzhanshinidekailanghekuaile，nengrangduifangkanjiannideyouhuoli，bingfeiwuquyudichen。neiyang，womencaihuinenggengyouxiaodiwanhuinanyoudeneixin。

　　1.3 ◆慎重言语

　　zaiwanhuinanyouhuanjiezhong，henduorendouhuizuochuyixiecuowu，zheixiecuowubudanhenyoukenengzulanwomenzijidewanliuqinfen，haihuijinyibuhuihuaiyuanbenyijingruanruodeaiqing。yiner，fenshouwanhuishi，womenyinggaibaochiqingxingdetounao，fangzhixiamianzheixiechangjiandecuowu：jingchangsaorao、guoduobiaoshu、taobizerendeng。zheixiecuowudouhuinengrangduifangjuedegengweidichu，congershiwanliubiandegengjiakunnan。

　　1.4 ◆changjiandecuowu

　　fenshoujiaonizenmewanhuihunyin，sipilailian，yiweikenqiulingyifanghehaoruchu。zheileizhiguzhezijiyaoqiu，quebuyuanyizuorenhegenggaidechulifangshi，tongchanghennanhuodebierendeyuanlianghezhichi。ruoxiangfenshouwanhuizhongshixiantupo，zhuyaozhiwushibuyaoguodujiuchanbuqing。

　　guoduzhejidizhuyaobiaoxian，wuxingzhizhongjibicishiya。yidanduifangjuedebeiposhifuhexing，yehuizengjiabubiyaoxinliyali。shidanglakaijuli，bimianguoyuzhejidizhuyaobiaoxian，caisuanshikefujinzhangqifendezuimingzhidexuanze。

　　hulveduifangfanganhedichu。fenshouzhihou，jiarucengguoduojiuchanbuqinglingyifang，neimeduifangkenenghuibiandelengmodichu。ruorengbuzaihutamendeganshou，yiweidijiuchanbuqingheposhi，zhihuirangduifangyufadichu，shenzhiyoukenengbeiweixinlahei。yiner，zaiquerenrengshenaizhelingyifangdeqingxingxia，kaizhanfuchoulianmengyiqiandetishengzijiziwogaibianshishifenzhongyaode。

　　1.5 ◆ercixiyindeguanjiansuozai

　　zaifuchoulianmengyihou，wanliudezuihouyibushiercixiyin，zaidubawozhulingyifangzhuyili，huanqitamenduizijidederechenqingyi。yinci，womenxuyaofuzhunuli，buduantishengziwo，yigengyouxiudezijixiyinduifangmuguang。yucitongshi，yexuyaoxiajuexinjiuzhengzishenquedianhekunhuo，tigaogoutongxiediaonengli，genghaodilejieyixingpengyouluojisiwei。ruguoduifangkanjiannidemingxiangaibianshi，tadeneixinjiangwufayanshijingyahezizezhixin，congerhenyoukenengzhudonglianxini，yicilaishixianzaicifuhexingmubiao。