wanhuihunyinzenmejiaoyutaren,wozongjielexuduowanhuiaiqingdelizifajue,bushaorenzaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhongjingchangyifanyixiajidianzhimingcuowu。suoyoushiqingzaizuochujuedingxianqian,douxuyaoshenzhongkaolv,ruguonimenfanxiayixiajidiancuo,neimenidewanliuzhongjiubunengchenggong。
1、自我中心

hunyinshenghuozhongcunzaiwentishi,henduojiemeidediyifanyingbushiqusikaowenti,fanershiquzhengduiyucuo,buduandizhuzhongcuobudaozijishenshang,zhiyinansheng。
nilejiemeiyiciniyizhizaiqiangdiaozijiqiadang,jiangshuzijiduiyujiatingsuofuchudeqingkuangxia,lingyifangshizenmeyangdeganshouma?
tajuedezijigengweibiequ,taweilezheigejiafuchuguo,kequebatahushi,nizheiyangzizhihuijiduifangdaozhiqianghandebushiganheshengshugan,neizhihuirangtagengyuanyicongwomenshenbianliqu。
nixuyaomingbaiyigedaoli:ninduilingyifangdaodiyouduohao,buyizijidefuchuweibiaozhun,fanershiyingyibierendeganshouweibiaozhun。
ruguonizaiwanhuiyiduanganqingshi,buduanqiangdiaonidefuchu,xiwangbierenkeyigaiguozixin,peizainishenbian。kenizhidaowozheimezuodeyucitongshi,lingyifangnaohaizhongxiangdedaodishishenmema?
tajiyoukenenghuixiang:“fuchuzheijianshideshihou,youwenguoshifouxuyaoni?”“nizongshuowoduizheigejiatouru,duiwodefuchu,keniyoumeiyouyihuoguo,woweini、weilezheigejiatouruzheixiedongxi,wolaizhaoninengguoshouyima?”
suoyiruguonixiangwanhuiyiduanganqing,jiuyongpaoxiaziwozhongxindeniantou,buyaolaoshizhuzhongzijidexiangfayufuchu,yaoqiutamenqutiliangni,zheizhongzhihuirangduifanggengweixuyaoshuyuanni。
2、低微式求合
zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong,yeyouxiezimeixianruhendadeyigecuowuguannian,bianshidiweishiqiuhe。

aiqingdedingyishihuxiangxinshang,yexunidediwei、renrangkeyihuandetaduanzanzhonggui,xiamian,nimianduidedagaijiushitadedecunjinchile,dannizhiyouyierzaizaiersanderangbu,jiangdiyuanzehedixian。
yinciwanliudejiejukexiangerzhi,yagenmeiyouxiaoguo,fanerhuirangzijidechujingbiandegengzaole。
nishifouxiangguo,nirangbu,bujihuibaofuchudenuli,sheqizizunxindeqiqiu,zaibiciyanzhonghuiyounaxieni?napazuihoulingyifangyunihehaole,dajiajuedezheishiyinweiai,huoshiyinweibierenganjueninhaocaozongni?
jiranshangrendehuazaoyishuochulaile,neiyangguohoujiubuyaoyiweidezhiqianhejieshi。niyuezhuzhong,nanrenyeyuepaichi。
wanliuzhengquedefangfa,shirangshuangfangdoushiyouchuanqikongjian,shitajianjiandixuehuifangxiafangbeidexintai。aiqinghuichuxianwenti,liangrendouyouyidingdeyiwu,yinerzaiciqijian,nihaidexuehuijieshouta,conggerenjiaodulaizhaowenti。
3、威协
“ruguonigangenwolihun,wobiandaizhehaiziyiqiwangxiatiao。”
“fanzhengdouxuyaoyuwolihunle,neiwoheerzidesihuoyebuyongniguanle,niyihoubuyaoxiangjiandaodajiamuziliangle。”

zheiyeshizhenzhengshenghuozhongdeyixieqingjing,xuduozimeichangshiyongzheizhongfangshiwanhuilaogong,keshishishangwanliudeshijixiaoguojihuweiling。zheizhongmiaoshuzhinengrangduifangjuedenishiyigeweixianshikederen,rangtaxianggengkuaiditaochunideshenbian。
nanrentianxingshenghuosuiyi,yishangzheixiehuajinanshengdetiyanjiushizaiweixieta:“xuyaofenligenbenbukeneng,chufeinishiruguowosile”。
wanhuihunyinzenmejiaoyutaren,yexunideweixieduitalaishuoshiyoujiazhide,tabuzaitifenlideshier,keshinimendeganqinghuiyidiandianbeixiaohao,dengnideqingxuwendingwanlezhihou,tabianliketouyebuhuicongnideshijielixiaotui。
neimeruguonidequezheimezuole,xiamianyinggaizenmeban?nixuzhongxinshulizijidepinpaixingxiang,yekeyishuozijiganggangshikaiwanxiao,bingfeiyongxindi,zheiyangkeyiwanliuyixienijitaliuxialaideqianjiayinxiang。
4、相爱相杀
yinweiliangrencengjingshibicizhijianzuiqinmideairen,wuhuabutan,yinciduibicidezhangwokeweiyiqingerchu。dangaiqingchuxianwenti,fashengzhengzhishi,bushaorenhuixianghuzhijiankouwuzhelan,xiangaixiangsha。
yuefaqinmideren,suojidesunhaiyueduo。zaichaojiashi,jiufeichangrongyichuozhelingyifangdenanti,sunhaidaotazizunxin,renshiqulibihai,neizhihuirangtaxuyaogengkuaiditaochuni。
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