挽回婚姻怎么教育他人

　　wanhuihunyinzenmejiaoyutaren，wozongjielexuduowanhuiaiqingdelizifajue，bushaorenzaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhongjingchangyifanyixiajidianzhimingcuowu。suoyoushiqingzaizuochujuedingxianqian，douxuyaoshenzhongkaolv，ruguonimenfanxiayixiajidiancuo，neimenidewanliuzhongjiubunengchenggong。

　　1、自我中心

　　hunyinshenghuozhongcunzaiwentishi，henduojiemeidediyifanyingbushiqusikaowenti，fanershiquzhengduiyucuo，buduandizhuzhongcuobudaozijishenshang，zhiyinansheng。

　　nilejiemeiyiciniyizhizaiqiangdiaozijiqiadang，jiangshuzijiduiyujiatingsuofuchudeqingkuangxia，lingyifangshizenmeyangdeganshouma?

　　tajuedezijigengweibiequ，taweilezheigejiafuchuguo，kequebatahushi，nizheiyangzizhihuijiduifangdaozhiqianghandebushiganheshengshugan，neizhihuirangtagengyuanyicongwomenshenbianliqu。

　　nixuyaomingbaiyigedaoli：ninduilingyifangdaodiyouduohao，buyizijidefuchuweibiaozhun，fanershiyingyibierendeganshouweibiaozhun。

　　ruguonizaiwanhuiyiduanganqingshi，buduanqiangdiaonidefuchu，xiwangbierenkeyigaiguozixin，peizainishenbian。kenizhidaowozheimezuodeyucitongshi，lingyifangnaohaizhongxiangdedaodishishenmema?

　　tajiyoukenenghuixiang：“fuchuzheijianshideshihou，youwenguoshifouxuyaoni?”“nizongshuowoduizheigejiatouru，duiwodefuchu，keniyoumeiyouyihuoguo，woweini、weilezheigejiatouruzheixiedongxi，wolaizhaoninengguoshouyima?”

　　suoyiruguonixiangwanhuiyiduanganqing，jiuyongpaoxiaziwozhongxindeniantou，buyaolaoshizhuzhongzijidexiangfayufuchu，yaoqiutamenqutiliangni，zheizhongzhihuirangduifanggengweixuyaoshuyuanni。

　　2、低微式求合

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，yeyouxiezimeixianruhendadeyigecuowuguannian，bianshidiweishiqiuhe。

　　aiqingdedingyishihuxiangxinshang，yexunidediwei、renrangkeyihuandetaduanzanzhonggui，xiamian，nimianduidedagaijiushitadedecunjinchile，dannizhiyouyierzaizaiersanderangbu，jiangdiyuanzehedixian。

　　yinciwanliudejiejukexiangerzhi，yagenmeiyouxiaoguo，fanerhuirangzijidechujingbiandegengzaole。

　　nishifouxiangguo，nirangbu，bujihuibaofuchudenuli，sheqizizunxindeqiqiu，zaibiciyanzhonghuiyounaxieni?napazuihoulingyifangyunihehaole，dajiajuedezheishiyinweiai，huoshiyinweibierenganjueninhaocaozongni?

　　jiranshangrendehuazaoyishuochulaile，neiyangguohoujiubuyaoyiweidezhiqianhejieshi。niyuezhuzhong，nanrenyeyuepaichi。

　　wanliuzhengquedefangfa，shirangshuangfangdoushiyouchuanqikongjian，shitajianjiandixuehuifangxiafangbeidexintai。aiqinghuichuxianwenti，liangrendouyouyidingdeyiwu，yinerzaiciqijian，nihaidexuehuijieshouta，conggerenjiaodulaizhaowenti。

　　3、威协

　　“ruguonigangenwolihun，wobiandaizhehaiziyiqiwangxiatiao。”

　　“fanzhengdouxuyaoyuwolihunle，neiwoheerzidesihuoyebuyongniguanle，niyihoubuyaoxiangjiandaodajiamuziliangle。”

　　zheiyeshizhenzhengshenghuozhongdeyixieqingjing，xuduozimeichangshiyongzheizhongfangshiwanhuilaogong，keshishishangwanliudeshijixiaoguojihuweiling。zheizhongmiaoshuzhinengrangduifangjuedenishiyigeweixianshikederen，rangtaxianggengkuaiditaochunideshenbian。

　　nanrentianxingshenghuosuiyi，yishangzheixiehuajinanshengdetiyanjiushizaiweixieta：“xuyaofenligenbenbukeneng，chufeinishiruguowosile”。

　　wanhuihunyinzenmejiaoyutaren，yexunideweixieduitalaishuoshiyoujiazhide，tabuzaitifenlideshier，keshinimendeganqinghuiyidiandianbeixiaohao，dengnideqingxuwendingwanlezhihou，tabianliketouyebuhuicongnideshijielixiaotui。

　　neimeruguonidequezheimezuole，xiamianyinggaizenmeban?nixuzhongxinshulizijidepinpaixingxiang，yekeyishuozijiganggangshikaiwanxiao，bingfeiyongxindi，zheiyangkeyiwanliuyixienijitaliuxialaideqianjiayinxiang。

　　4、相爱相杀

　　yinweiliangrencengjingshibicizhijianzuiqinmideairen，wuhuabutan，yinciduibicidezhangwokeweiyiqingerchu。dangaiqingchuxianwenti，fashengzhengzhishi，bushaorenhuixianghuzhijiankouwuzhelan，xiangaixiangsha。

　　yuefaqinmideren，suojidesunhaiyueduo。zaichaojiashi，jiufeichangrongyichuozhelingyifangdenanti，sunhaidaotazizunxin，renshiqulibihai，neizhihuirangtaxuyaogengkuaiditaochuni。