东窗事发怎么挽回婚姻

　　dongchuangshifazenmewanhuihunyin,hunyinshenghuo，zheiyibeichengzuoganqingzuizhongxuanzedeshengdian，youshihouyehuizaoshoufengchuiyuda，naizhilaidaopoliedebianyan。danbiezheji，zheiciwozheiyizimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiulaibangnizhizhizhao，shoubashoujiaoniyingyong5gehaoyongduice，wanliunimendehunyin，zhongxindianranneiyifenyiqianchiredeaihuo!

　　yi、qianyan：hunyinwenti，shijishangshiaidezhuanzhe

　　zaikaishijinruwanliuduiceyiqian，womenxianliaoyiliaoyigeguannian：hunyinwenti，qishibushiquanqiumori，fanershidajiaaideyicizhuanzhe。meiyiduanzhangjiudehunyin，zongyaojingligezhongtiaozhanhekaoyan，erkunjingqiahaoshibaoluwenti、cujinchengzhangdejihui。yinci，ruguonizaoyuhunyinshenghuokunjingshi，hebujiangtakanzuoyicirangaiqingshenghuadehaojihui。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiweixingongzhonghao--"beigongyuzebenying"，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　er、ziwofansheng：zhaodaowentidebenzhi

　　wanjiuhunyindediyibu，shizuohaoshenkeziwofansheng。jilao，hunyinzhongdewentibingbuyidingshidanfangmian，fanershibicigongtongzuoyongdejieguo。yinci，womenxuyaojingxialai，shensishulvyixiajigewenti：

　　wozaihunyinshenghuozhongbanyanzheshenmeyangderenwu?

　　shifouguoyuqiangshi，hushilebierendeganshou?

　　shifouqueshaogoutong，rangwuhuihejiedizhujianjiashen?

　　shifouduiganqingshiquchuzhong，yuelaiyuefuyanleshihelengmo?

　　zheiduanhunyinchuxianshenmeyangdewenti?

　　shigoutongbudaowei，huoshijiazhiguannianbufuhe?

　　shishenghuosuosuijileixialaidefenqi，huoshiwaibuyalisuodaozhideliefeng?

　　shiyulunyali，huoshisanguanbuhe?

　　genjuziwofansheng，ninenggengqingxidiyishidaozijizaihunyinzhongdewenti，jiqihunyinshenghuochuxianliehendegenbenyuanyin。zheiyeshiwanjiuhunyindezhongyaobaozhang，youyuzhiyouzhaodaonanti，cainengshibangongbei。

　　san、duiceyi：fujiangoutongdeqiaoliang，changkaixinfei

　　hezuoshiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。xuduohunyinshenghuowangwanglaidaopoliedebianyan，shiyinweibicishiquyouxiaogoutong。yinci，womenyaozuodediyijianshijiushifujiangoutongdeqiaoliang，kaiqibicizhijiandexinfei。

　　tiaoxuanheshideshijianyuhuanjing

　　zhaoyigeshuangfangjiaoweifangsongshishikeke，liruwanfanguohou、sanbuhuolibaitiandewuhou。

　　tiaoxuanyigeanjing、sirendeziranhuanjing，fangzhiwaijieganrao。

　　聆听比说更为重要

　　zaigoutongdeshihou，yaoqingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，buyaojizhebiaodazijideguandian。

　　yongyanshen、shentiyuyanhekoutoushangyijianfankui(ru“ng”、“wodongdele”)laibiaodanideguanzhuyulejie。

　　表述真实体验

　　yong“wo”kaishilaibiaodazijideganshou，liru“wojuededajiajinqigoutongjiaoliujianshaole，wozhendehengudan。”

　　fangzhipipinghejingong，weichipingjingdekouqi。

　　寻找一同解决方法

　　yiqitantaozenyanggaishanhunyinqingkuang，tanxunbicidounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa。

　　zhidingjutidejihua，binggongtongjianduluoshi。

　　si、duiceer：shiqilanman，huanqiaidejiyi

　　dongchuangshifazenmewanhuihunyin,lanmanshiaiqingdefangfuji。fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，hebushiqineixiewomenrangtamenyijianzhongqingdefengqingyishunjian，huanqiaidejiyi。

　　回忆过去

　　yiqifanyuejiuzhaopian、shipinhexinhan，huixiangzheixiexingfudeshiguang。

　　taolundajiadiyicixiangyu、lianaidejingguo，zhuiyineiyifenchuyudezaodong。

　　开创新烂漫

　　weibicizhunbeiyifenjingxiliwu，liruyishuhua、yifengshouxieqingshuhuoyicilangmandeyuehui。

　　yiqichangshixindehuodonghexingquaihao，liruxuewudao、pengzhihuolvyou。

　　构建浪漫氛围

　　zaijialibuzhiyigelangmanziranhuanjing，liruyinranxiangfenlazhu、bofangshipinshuhuanyinlehuofangzhihuashu。

　　zhuzhongzijideyibiaoheyantanjuzhi，nengrangduifangkanjiannideyongxinhefengcai。