家暴的人怎么挽回婚姻

　　jiabaoderenzenmewanhuihunyin，"talianxusanzhouyebugui""womenyigeyuemeilaidejishuoguohua""meiyicigoutongjiaoliudoushiyizhengchaoshouwei"——mouhunyinzixunjigouziliaoxianshi，68%defufuzaiguanxijinzhangqixuanyong"jiuchanbuqing-chize-rangbu"cuowuwanliufangshi，zaochengguanlianwanquanliekai。shenjingxitongkexueyanjiufaxian，renmenzaiqingxuguojishi，qianeyepiceng(keguanshenjingzhongshu)renqizhijiangdi40%，erqianeye(xintaishenjingzhongshu)renqizhishenggao65%，zheibianshiweihechaojiashidajialaoshuo"shangxindehua"。danbiebengkui!xiamianwomenjiurongheyilianlilun、feibaoligoutong、gerenxingweirenzhixingweiliaofa，jininchaixie"hunyinwanhuiwubufa"，bingjielu3gepubianzhimingxingjinqu，bangniyongyouxiaodefangfafujianhunyinguanxi。

　　yi、fuqiganqingpoliede3daguanjianfabingyuanyin(zichaqingdan)

　　1. qingganzhanghuzhangqixingtouxian

　　shehuixinlixuelide"qingganyinxing"jichulilunqiangdiao：meiyicihudongjiaoliucunjin1yuan，meiyicixiaochenhudongjiaoliukaizhi2yuan。dangyueguilingshi，guanlianbianhuibenkui。dianxingbiaoxian：

　　wangdiaolingyifangshengri/liunianri(zhanyoulv52%)

　　huijuelingtinglingyifangxuqiu(zhanyoulv67%)

　　zhangqixingfourenlingyifangshiyongjiazhi(ru"nishenmedoubuxing")(zhanyoulv41%)

　　2. yaoqiuyiweishigoutongjiaoliu

　　nanxingpingjunmeitianyao7ci"beirenxuyao"queren，nvshipingjunxuyao12ci"beirenlijie"dehuifu(《aidewuzhongyuyan》diaocha)。dandaduoshufufu：

　　nvxingyong"maiyuan"biaoshuyaoqiu："nicongbupeizhewo"(shijixuyao：chuanqizhifuchengxu)

　　nanrenyong"taobi"yingduiyali："biefanwo"(shijixuyao：kongjianhezhongshi)

　　3. chongtuchulifangshijiangying

　　hunyinzhiliaoshiluobote·getemanfajue："morisiqishi"(zhize、miaoshi、fangyuli、xiuqiang)chuxiandepinlvchao35%shi，liyijilvgaoda89%。changjingfenxi：

　　zhize："nizongshizheimezisizili"(jingongrengetezhi)

　　miaoshi："henijiehunshizheibeizizuihouhuideshiqing"(cuihuizizun)

　　fangyuli："youbushiyouyide"(huijuechengdanzeren)

　　xiuqiang："landelini"(guandiaogoutongdefangshi)

　　er、hunyinwanhuiwubufa(kexuehelishijicaozuoshouce)

　　diyibu：xintailengdongqi——zhongzhiziwohuimieshigerenxingwei

　　▶重要基本原理：

　　dangyigerenchuzai"zuozhanhuotaozou"yingjixingshi，xueqingsushuipingxiajiang30%，zaochengpanduannenglisunshang。zheishiyiqiewanliuxingweidounengbeilingyifangkanzuoshi"shijiayali"。

　　▶具体步骤：

　　wuligeli：zhongzhipengmian/dianhuagoutong(3-7tian)，jishuangfanglizhishineikongjian

　　xinlizhuangtailengzhan：zhongzhichaxunlingyifangshejiaomeitidongtaixing(fangzhikaiqi"sunshiyane"xinlishangdefandanxiaoying)

　　ziwolejie：yong"xintairiji"jiluchufadian(ru"tayebuguisudeshihouyingjuedebeiyiqi")

　　▶避坑指南：

　　✖️cuowuzuofa："wogaihaibuxingma?""meiyouniwokeruhehuo"

　　mojiezuo️qiadangxiaoshouhuashu："womingbaixianzaishuoshenmenidoubuxin，bangwoyizhoushijianzhenglisixu，dajiazaihaohaotan"

　　dierbu：zishenfujianqi——biancheng"zuixinbanben"cengjingdeziji

　　▶重要基本原理：

　　jiabaoderenzenmewanhuihunyin，shehuibijiaojichulilunqiangdiao：dangairenjuechadaoniyizhizai"xiangshangchengzhang"bingfei"yuandibudongaiqiu"shi，yehuichansheng"renzhishidiao"，congerzhongxinshenshiguanlianshiyongjiazhi。

　　▶sanweitigaoshitimoxing：

　　层面

　　具体行动

　　社会心理学根据

　　zishenxingxiangchaihuantouxing/jianshensuxingdiyiyinxiangxiaoying：shijuechongjijihuaduobaandefenmi

　　shijijiazhixuexijineng(rupengzhi/paishe)ziwojuedingjichulilun：manzugantigaoyouhuoli

　　shejiaomeitishiyongkuozhanweixinpengyouquan/canyuxingqushequnshehuifazhanshenrujichulilun：fengfuduocaiweishenghuotishengmeili

　　▶实例示范性：

　　"shangxingqiwobaomingcanjiachahuake(waizaimei)，fajuezhuanzhuyuchuangzuoshiyouqihuanjieyali(benzhi)，zuorihexueshengmenqujiaoyou(shejiaomeiti)，paishelechaomeidezhaopianxiangfenxiangjidajia(lianjie)"