怎么挽回儿子媳妇的婚姻

　　zenmewanhuierzixifudehunyinhunyinwentitongchangbingfeiyicuerjiu，ershiyongzhongduoweixiaode“yujing”zhubuxianxian。genjuxiangguantongjifenxi，zaichaoguo70%dechuguishijianzhong，airenzaiguanlianmanmanebianyiqian，doushihuizhanshichuyixiexianzhudebingbianjudong，danshidaduoshurenyinmeiyouzugoudeminganxingerweijishifajue。zuoweiyimingqingganfenxishi，wocengjingshendujiechuguozhuduoyincuxindayichuqiyuzhaoerjinerdaozhibeijujieguodelizi。rujin，womenjiangyingyongjishuzhuanyejiaoduqufenxi8zhonglaogongyoukenengwaiyushihuiyoudefanchangxingwei，bingjiaojihaoyongdewanhuijiqiao，zhiliyubangzhunilijidongxikunjing，jinerzaihunyinshenghuozhongzhanjuzhudong。

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　　婚姻问题的初期预警

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，lingyibandeyixietedinggerenxingweihenyoukenengyiweizhelianxideyaobaibuding。danshi，zheizhongxingweibingbushilijixiangdangyuwaiyu，qijiazhixujieheshijiqingjingkaizhanzonghekaoliang。yixiashuyubagezhideqidaide“waiyuyuzhao”。

　　【ziwoguanlichuxianyichang】

　　zhuyaobiaoxian：airenhuranjingchangjiabanjiadian、waichu，huozhaogezhongliyouzhangqichumen，huijiazhihouduixingchenganpaixiaoxijiequebierbujian。

　　xinlizhuangtaifenxi：zheizhongzuofatongchangyiweizheairenzaishituyong“fanmang”laijizijigoujianyige“jianju”，zhuyaoshiweileyangaiyixiebiedebutongxunchangdegerenxingwei。

　　解决提议：

　　xuanyongrouheqiemeiyougongjixingtiwenfa，ru：“jinqishifougongzuozhongyalihenda?xuyaobangmangbangzhufendanjiawuma?”

　　zixiguanchalingyibandeshoujishiyongqingkuang，tebieshizaishenyeshifen，ruguofaxianjingchangdianliangpingmu，zheikenengyiweizhecunzaiyichangdeguanlian。

　　【情绪变化】

　　zhuyaobiaoxian：airenbenlaishenaizheqieyikao，turanyouzhanshichulengdanxintai，budantaobishenrujiaoliu，naizhiduiyunideguanzhukanqilaiyanfan。

　　xinlizhuangtaifenxi：zheiwangwangshiqingxumanmanshuyuanxinhao，tixianchuxinliduizheiduanganqingdegulvhebuman。

　　解决提议：

　　yingyongqingganzhanghujichulilunjinxingjiaoliu，lejielingyibandetihui：“womenhuoxuhenjiudoumeiyoushencengdijiaowangguoxina，zuijindenishibushiyudaoshenmenandian?”

　　bimianzhijiezhiyi，ershiyongfenxiangganshoudexingshizhujianhuihua：“wofajuezuijindenihaoxiangyuyuguahuan，jiaruniyuanyidehua，wohenleyilingtingnidexinsheng。”

　　【社交圈子转变】

　　zhuyaobiaoxian：airenhuranjianshaoyuliangrengongtonghaopengyouzhijiandehudong，huoduizijideshejiaoyaoqingzhaoliyoutuiwei。

　　xinlizhuangtaifenxi：zheizhongzuofakeyikanzuoyizhongguanxifanghuduice，zhiliyuxiaoruoyulaojiudeshejiaoquanzideqingganlianjie，jixinrenjijiaowangguanxitengchukongjian。

　　解决提议：

　　zenmewanhuierzixifudehunyinjijiyugongtonghaoyoudegoutong，jianjiexingzhangwolingyibandexiankuang，danyingzhuyibimianzhijiexianglejie。

　　jianyiqingsongyukuaidejuhui，birulibaitianyuxxdejuhui，yizaijushoulaoyou，jianqingshengshugan。

　　【物质消费转变】

　　zhuyaobiaoxian：airenhuranjingchanggoumaishechipin，huozairichangzhichushangbiandeshifenqinjianjieyue。

　　xinlizhuangtaifenxi：zheileichaodajinekaizhikenengzaiweixindeganqing“xiangmutouzi”，erguodujiejianzezhuyaoshiweileyanzangyixiejiaoyiyinhen。

　　解决提议：

　　nengtongguojiazhongzhangwudejieduqulejiexiaofeifangshi，danxuzhuyibimianzhijiezhiyi。

　　changshiyi“zhengtiguihua”weihuatizhengqueyindaohuihua，biru：“dajiashibushiyinggaiweihaizijiaoyuzhubeiyixiezijinle?”

　　【肢体语言的改变】

　　zhuyaobiaoxian：airenhenyoukenengzhujianfangzhixiangyong、jiewendengqinjin，huoshicongnichangshikaojinshi，takenenghuihuranyizou。

　　xinlizhuangtaifenxi：zheizhongzuofashi“qingxufanghu”demingxianzhuyaobiaoxian，daibiaozhetamendexinlizaoyihenixingchenglejianju。