出现危机的婚姻怎么挽回

　　chuxianweijidehunyinzenmewanhui，xiangxinbushaoxuyaoquwanliuhaopengyou，douyaoqubaidusousuo，zaizhihushangsousuonenggouwanliudezhuyaobiaoxian，juededashenmenpouxidejibendoushikankanertan;dandangzhenzhengdefuzhuxingdongdequwanliushi，caihuifaxian，zheixiekanqilaikankanertandewanliudezhuyaobiaoxian，keyishuoshishebenzhumo。

　　fenshouzhihoushenmezhuyaobiaoxianshuomingyouwanhuidejiyu?

　　zhenhuabianshi：yexuzhendecunyouanshizhefuhexingzhuyaobiaoxian，danzheizhongbiaoxian，nidebanlvshiyibeizidoubuhuirangnikandaode，ruguonixiangyaokaozheixiekanbujiandezhuyaobiaoxianlaishibushikeyiquedingfuhexing，neimejiumengxiangyuxianshicunzaichajuyoudianerbianda!

　　zhenzhengyiyishangdexuyaokaonibuduandi“ceshi”he“yijianfankui”!

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　　yi：zhenxingfenshou，qiannanyouburongyirangnikandaoyiqiewanliudezhuyaobiaoxian：

　　fenshouhou，henyoukenengnidebanlvhuiyelizhanzhuannanmian;huibuduandidakaidajiazhiqiandehezhao，youshenzhihaihuiqiaoqiaodedakaizijidepengyouquan!youhuozheshixiangqudajiayiqianzongqudejiudian，diannizuiaichidecai，henizuixihuanhedeyinliao，youhuozheshizaiyixiepengyoumianqian，xiangqinideshi，yeyoukenengzaiheduolelingdingdazuishiqingnandeshuoyileju：haizhendeshixiangneigexiaonizi。

　　erzheixiesuoyounenggouwanliudezhuyaobiaoxian，napashitazhouweiderendoukanbujian，hekuangneihaishiqiannvyoudeni?zhenxingfenshouderen，shihuirangnikandaorenhedezhenxiang，rutongqushileyiyang，fangfocongzheishijiexiaotuiyiyang，nandaoshuoneijiushuomingzijiwanliubingmeiyourenhejihuima?

　　其实并非如此!

　　nirujinmingbaileba!fenshouzhihou，nidebanlvqishihaiyouhenduowanliuzhuyaobiaoxian，zhishizijimeiyoukanjiande，zheicaishizhenzhengshiqing!yaoburan，neinijiushikanguobushaoderuhepanduanqiannanyougerenxingweifangshi，guanyongma?chulinidewentima?qishimeiyouba!!

　　niyaojideshizhi：dajiacongtashenshangkanbudaorenhewanliuzhuyaobiaoxian，bingfeiduifangmeiyou，jinjinnikanbujianbale!

　　er、nengfoufuhexing?yinggaikanshenmejueding?

　　zaixuduolaiwendepengyoumen，meigerendouwen，xiangwozheiyanghainenggoufuhema?fuhegailvdaodiyouduoda?weishenmehuizheimewen，qishiyehenjiandan，duishuomeiyigexiangwanhuideren，xinlidoushijiaoweikongjude，

　　yeyourenzaixiang，jiaruwanliufeichangrongyidehua，neimewojiushishikan，jiaruwanliunanyidehua，huozhejihuimiaomang，huozheyaohuafeihenduodeshijianhejinglicaikeyifuhedehua，neimejiusuitaerzouba，yizheiyangdetaiduquwanliuhua，zuizhongdejieguodajiazijihaikeyixiangxiangdedaode!

　　danshizhenzhengweihaiwanliudejilv，bingfeilingyifangruhe，youshenmeyangdexingwei，ershizigede“qingyi”。nidaodishiyinweibushufu，buganxin，weikumen，gudandeng;yeshiyinweishizhenxinde，zhenxinshiyidesinian?youduoshaorenzaiwanliudeguochengdangzhong，bingbushiyinweibierendejujuecaisheqi。zhishiyinweizigedexintaibaozhaertuichu!ruguonizhenxinshiyidexiangwanhuibingqingxiyineidenanti：

　　1.kanqingzheiduanganqingduizishenjiazhi!

　　2.lianggerenzhijianyeyoubuduanchupengxiangchuziranhuanjing!

　　3.dajiafenkaibingbushirenpinwenti。

　　4.lingyifangxianjieduanaiqingdouhaimeixinganqing。

　　neimejiudoushiyouwanhuidehenyoukeneng!wosuoshuode!

　　三、怎么才能挽留?

　　1.yongzhengquedewanhuifangfa：

　　bushaorenzaiwanliudeqingkuangxia，douyaoqu“yikuernaosanshangdiao””chixufuwuchengnuozhiqian”;zheizhongwanliudaodiyoumeiyouyong?xiangbidajiadouzuole，danzuizhongdejieguojiushi，yaobuduifangmeiyoutixian，huoshiweixinlahei。shijishangzheidoubushiwanliudefangshi，erzhishiniqingxuxuanxiebale!!

　　chuxianweijidehunyinzenmewanhui，fenshouzhihou，lingyifangbingfeibuaini，bingbushibuxiangxinni，fanershinimenzhijiandeganqingyijingshiqujunheng，nimendeguanxixinlizhuangtai，richangshenghuocunzaixuduoyaoqiuwufamanzu。bansuizheyuanhenmanmandijidian;yijingchengweibengkui，jianglaibuhuizaiweilaikeqi。erzheixiewentizainiyiqideshihou，dounanyibeifaxiandewentizainaer，youxierenshenzhizaiduanlelianxi，doubuzhidaodajiadefenshouyuanyin?ruguoniliannantiyezhaobudao，helaiwanliu?

　　yincini“xuanxieqingxu”bingbunengjiejuenimendeguanxinanti，zhenxingfenshou，biaominglingyifangshifeichanglixingde，ruobunengzhaodaolianggerenzhijiancunzaidewenti，jishitayishixintaishan，yunxuyunifuhedehua，yezhibuguoshiyiqizaicinanao，daohoulaiyezhibuguoshiyicuozaicuo。

　　niyongyuanbuzhidaozhengquewanhuifangfa，danyoubuyuanyikanjianzaihuderenjiushizheiyanglikai，yincipingjiezigedebennengfanyingjiunao，niyinggaizhidao，meinaoyici，zheidoushihaofeidajiaaidejidian，erwangshangneixieziyiweishiwanhuifangfa，zhihuijiduifangzengjiayixiexiaojixuxu，jinershitagengweimingquefenkaishihenzhengquedeshi!

　　yinciniyaodongde“dangduanzeduan”，liketingxianizheixiebuzhengquedewanliudefangshi，bieqianquhaofeiduifangduinineiyidiandianjinyoudehaogandu，