挽回咨询：婚姻倦怠期怎么挽回老婆

　　hunyinjuandaiqizenmewanhuilaoponishibushiqinshenjingliguozheiyangdebengkui?yiqianqinmiwujianlaopo，xianrujinduizijidelenglengbingbing;yiqianwuhuabushuodeliangren，zuihoulianhuihuadouchongmanlefuyanleshi;shenzhijiangchu“lihun”“woduinimeiganjuele”……nisongle、haipale、henhouhui，quebuzhidaogaizenmezuocaikeyirangqihehaoruchu?

　　xianbiejizhebenkui!“silexin”bingbushi“ruguobuaile”，fanershi“shiwangzangoule”——tabingbushihuranbuxihuan，ershijiangniyicicidehulve、zhengzhi、fuwuchengnuochengkong，moqulezuihouxiwang。danzhideqingxingdeshi：xinhannenggoujidian，aiyenenggouranqi!

　　jintianzheipiangengxinzuikuaiwanliugonglvedaquan，jiangdainijiekai“silexin”qibeihoudeshijixuqiu，genglingfu“5buhuanqiaifa+3zhaofangleishouce”，cong“xingweixiubu”dao“xinlizhongjian”，tiniyibubuyingdetadexin!wulunnimenshilengbaoli、liangdifenju，haishitayitichulihun，kanwanzheipiandoukeyizhaodaofangwei!

　　yi、“silexin”deshizhi：ta“qingganzhanghu”zaoyitouxian，jique“chuxu”!

　　真实故事：

　　xiaozhao(biming)yuqiziwanhun5nian，jinqilaopohurantichulihun。xiaolibengkui：“zijimingmingmeirinuligongzuo，huijialehaijitazuojiawuhuo，taweishenmehaibulingrenmanyi?”zhihouqizishuo：“nizuojiawuhuoyinweiwotucaoguo，danshinicongweiwenguoyouduolei;nizhuanqianshiweizheigejia，danshinicongweipeiwochiguoyidunxiangxifan;zhiqianwofagaoshao，nijiushuoleyiju‘duohedianreshui’jiujiezhewanyouxi……”

　　心理状态洞悉：

　　hunyinlide“silexin”，tongchangshi“jingshenxuqiuzhangqixingweibeimanzu”dedaodejieguo。jiuxiangyige“qingganzhanghu”：

　　niguanzhu、shouhou、lijiejiushi“chuxu”;

　　nihulve、zhengzhi、fuyanshi“tikuan”。

　　dang“tikuan”yuanduoyu“chuxu”，ta“qingganzhanghu”bianhui“daobi”——tabushibuaile，fanershi“aibudongle”，pazaiduxinhan。

　　重要结果：

　　wanliudeguanjianbingbushi“kukuaiqiuhuiguotou”，fanershi“zaiciwangtaqingganzhanghulicunkuan”——yongshijixingdongzhengshi“wonenggoujinixiangduiwendingdexingfukuaile”。

　　qishixiangzhuishangyigenvsheng，zhiyaohuixianliao，jiuhuiyoubachengjiyuzhuishangta。youyuchuduixiang，benzhijiushiyige“tan”zi，henvshengtanshenghuo，jiaoxin、tanweilai，zhixunigentatouyuan，caiyoufazhandekongjian。jiarunibianshizuibaben，xianliaogangtiezhinan，neijiulaiwodegongzhonghao~xunailaoli，gongxiangniyifen，dingjiandeliaotiansiweidaotu，shinibawoliaotianguanjianqiaomen，heshiyaofengqudian，heshiyaogaoqingshangdeliaotian，yucitongshirangniyitaodingjianxiaoshouhuashu，shinijiejuebutongdechangjingdeduihua，doukeyidexinyingshou，henjiandanjiunengjiangnvhailiaonadaoshou。

　　er、wanliudiyibu：zhongzhi“jiuchanbuqingshiwanliu”，xian“lizhisikao”caishizhongdian!

　　常见误区：

　　dabufennanrenzailaoposilexinhou，rongyixianruliangzhongjiduan：

　　wanmingzhiqian：“duibuqi，wogai，qiunibiexuanzelikai!”(tahuijuede“niyagenmeizaihuniweihexinhan”);

　　lengbaoli：“tadelihunjiulihun，wowusuowei!”(tahuijuede“nigenbenbuzaiyizheiduanganqing”)。

　　正确的做法：

　　✅“tingzhijian”bi“jiasujian”gengweizhongyao：

　　xianjita1-2zhou“lengqueqi”(biejingchangfaxinxi、tongdianhua，gengbuyaoqutaqiye/niangjiaduta);

　　liyongzheiduanshijianshencengsikao：

　　tazuijingchangmaiyuanni3jianshishishenme?(ru“niconglaibutingwoshuohua”“nizongjianggongzuofangdiyiwei”)

　　dajiazuihouyicizhengzhidedaohuosuoshisha?(ru“nibiewanglejiehunjinianriri”“nimata‘manbujiangli’”)

　　tacengtidao“qidainizenmezuo”?(ru“xiwangninenggouduopeizhehaizi”“xiwangninenggouyuwoyiqizuojiawu”)

　　hunyinjuandaiqizenmewanhuilaopo，zhongyaoxiaoshouhuashu(lengqueqizhihoudiyitiaoxinxi)：

　　“zuijinwoyizhizaixiang，yuanlaishiwotaizisi，meiyoukaolvnideqingxu。niyaoyuwoliaoyiliao，nidexinlizuishiwangdeshishenmema?wonengyongxinting。”(buposhi，zhibiaoshusikaoyulingtingdexiangfa)