多年的婚姻怎么挽回感情

　　duoniandehunyinzenmewanhuiganqingdangganqingzaoyubeipan，henduonvxingpengyouhuixianruziwohuaiyiyuqifendewoxuan：“weishenmetabianlexin?”“wohaikeyixinrentama?”

　　danwoyaogaosuni：yiqingbielianbingbushihunyinshenghuodezhongdian，fanershiguanlianzhongjiandedazhuanzhe。

　　zuoweicongshi12nianhunyinxiufuzixunguwen，wobangguo372gejiatingbaituoyulunyali。jintianfenxiangde5gegoutongjiaoliuxinjue，jiangshoubashoujiaonishehuixinlixueduiceniuqujumian——genjuyouxiaodefangfawanhuilaogong，rangtazaisikaozhongjijihuiguotou。

　　yi、weihe90%derenkefujianhuishibai?

　　womenchangchangwurenwei“chakanshouji、dingguiju”jiukeguanshulingyifang，danxinliyanjiubiaoming：qiangzhixingjianguanhuishibeipanzhezaocheng“shouhairenxinlizhuangtai”，biaomianrangbu，qishizhongxiagenggaoanquanyinhuan。

　　jingdiananli：cengyouyiweiqiuzhuzhemeitianjianchalaogongxingchenganpai，zuihou3geyuehoulingyifangtilihun：“zainiyanzhongwoyongyuandoushifanzuifenzi”。

　　zhenzhenzhengzhengderenkefujianbixukaiqiduifangneijiutizhi，genju「yindaoxinggoutongjiaoliu」shitazifaxingsikao。xiamianzhei5gefangshi，jiushijiyuxingweixinlixuelide「renzhishidiaolilun」shejifangan。

　　er、5gegaoqingshanggoutongfa(zhongyaoshijicaozuoshouce)

　　1. xintaifanghushu：bashanghaizhuanhuaweitanpanchouma

　　错误做法：

　　“nihuidiaolezheigejiating!lejietazheidabannianzenyangtongguandema?”(qingxufaxieyinqidikang)

　　黄金销售话术：

　　“wonenglijierendouhuifancuo(xianxietifang)，danzheijianshirangwoduiyuhunyinyongyouxinrenzhi(buchize)，womenyinggaizhongxinshenshiguanximoxing(paochuquhuati)”

　　jibenyuanli：yong「guancezhejiaodu」chanshushishi，shehuixinlixuechengzuo「quronghejishu」。ruguoduifangzhidaonibuhuizaishengsilijie，fandaohuizaochengrenzhishidiao：“tanizenmebumawola?”

　　2. yaoqiutoushefa：jingquedazhongtadeqingxuruodian

　　quanbupanbianshenhoudouzangzheweibeimanzudexuyao。changshiwen：

　　“zheibanniannijingchangjiabanjiadianshi(shijishiqing)，shibushiyizhizaixunzhaomouleiyouyuegan?(shencengciyaoqiu)”

　　关键环节：

　　yong“gerenxingwei+tihui”gongshijisuan：qiangdiaoshijishiqing，buguangfanchize

　　renrangjiqizhengfuyu：“woqishizaifansi，shifouhushilenixiang..”

　　duoniandehunyinzenmewanhuiganqingshili：cengyouyiweilaogongyinchuruzhichangcuobaiwaiyu，dangqizijiangchu“nipinlemingbiaoxianzijishi，quemeizuohaoguanzhong”hou，nanxingxianchangliuleihuihen。zheizhengshuomingle：danggoutongjiaoliunengtouguofangyulidijinyaoqiushi，xiubuliefengdeyigeguochengfanerhuichengweiguanxishengjidejihui——zheixiecengyi“yaoqiutoushefa”qudechenggongwanhuilaogongdeqizimen，zuihouhuodedebujinjinshihunyinshenghuodecunxuqi，gengjiashibicizhijianshengmingshendugongmingdian。

　　3. kongquexiaoyong：yongchenmowuyanshengchanzhizaoxinlizhuangtaiqitiyaqiang

　　ruguoduifangchangshifuyanleshizhiqianshi，buyaolijijiena。baozheng3miaojianduanhoubiaoshi：

　　“woxuyaoshijianlijienichengxin(kaishejiexian)，zhenzhengdegaibianbixuxingweizhengshi(mingquetichuxiwang)”

　　社会心理学根据：

　　ehaiezhoulidaxueshiyanbiaoming，tanpanzhong7miaoyishangdechenmowuyannengrangduifangjiaolvqingxuzhitigao43%，zhudongyaoqiupeichangfangan。

　　4. jianglaidaoxiangxingxiaoshouhuashu：yongxiwangganqudaitiguoqu

　　zhongzhixunwen“dajiafazhanqushidaonalibule”，gaicheng：

　　“jiarucongtoukaishi，dajiajuedewomenyinggaijianlishenmexinchengnuo?(gongzhuhuihuang)”

　　升阶方法：

　　tiqianzhunbei「guanlianzhongxinqidongcehuashu」，liejukelianghuadegaishanxiang

　　meixingqisheding30min「qingxufupanzongjieshizhang」，yongjiegouxinggoutongjiaoliufangzhiqingxubuwending