妻子外遇，丈夫该检讨自己吗？

qiziwaiyu，lirutaduinilengmole，zhujiandabanqilaile。wulunzenyangshuo，zheizhongshujuxinhaodoubiaomingledajiadehunyinshenghuochuxianlenanti。ershijishishananti，zenmehuidaozhineiyangdejushi，haixiangyaonixuehaosikao。hunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？youwaiyudeqizizenmemiandui？

congyuantoushangeryan，qingganguanlianzhongchuxiandeyiqienanti，quanshinanshengdaozhide，youyutameiyoujinhaolingzheyigenvrendeyiwu，caizaochengtazoupianzouwai，meifazuodaoyitongxinyoulingxi。yinci ，shexiangyixia，jiaruxifuduidajiahunyinshenghuodefuwuzhiliangjigao，tahaihuijixuwaiyuma?lejiejiaowangquanguochengzhongchuxiandenanti，caikeyijiniqiadangyingduiwanliuzheijianshiqing。

一、妻子出轨的主要表现

hunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？birutabuguanzhuniderichangshenghuo。youyunizaitaneixinzaoyibibushangdisanzheguanjian，yinci yebumianbuletahuihushinidepingrilideyiyanyixing，nigongzuoyalitaida、nixiangchishenmewupin、nichumenzuoshenme、jigefangmianhuijialezheixie，tayeyuelaiyueyibuneimaguanzhu。

youwaiyudeqizi，duinidemaiyuantisheng。tashibijiaotuchudewaiyuzhengzhao，youyutahuinadisanzhegennijiaowei，jiaoweidejieguokendingshidisanzhebinichuse，biniduitagengyouyouhuoli，yiner，niyejiuhuichangchangtingjiantaxuxuduoduodemaiyuan，jiandaotayizhibumanyidemuguang，zhangciyiwang，nizijiyehuichibuxiao，lianggerenjiuzhujianzhengchao。

shoujishangbubuli。jinqitabashoujichakandehenzhongyao，yizhibaifangzainikanbudaodediqu，bingqieshedinglekaimensuodenglumima，ruguoyouxinxineirongchuanlai，tadeshenqingyizhiyoudianerguaiyi。nifajuetayoushiguanqifangjianmenyigerentongdianhua，shoudaodianhuayeshicongcongmangmangguale。zheileizhuangkuangxia，wuxucaiyile，tawaiyudegailvshifenbianda。

二、妻子出轨的缘故

bumingbaizhongshilaopo。zhongshishinvxingxinlideshencengciyaoqiu，yeshifuqiganqinghemudejichu，youyixienanshenghendananzizhuyi，bumingbaizhongshilaopo，zaijialiduitalengyanxiangdai，zaiwaimianyingduitazhizhidiandian，bianhuishinvxinghentoule，jinerzainvxingneixinzhongxialezenghendezhongzi，shinvxinggengfeichangrongyiwaiyu。

quefaduilaopodeshouhou。dangnvxingyingduizishendelianren，yizhiqidaitanengduopeibanzishen，tashixinlixuqiu，yezhenaideyaoqiu，nvxingshiyouyuaizheigenanrencaihuiyaoxiangtadeshouhou，nanrenyaomingbainvxingzheiyiyaoqiu，mingbaishidujiyu，jiaruzhenshitaimangle，nenggouhetakaizhangoutongjiaoliu，xiangxinqijiainiderenhuilejienide，jiarunanshengbingbingbushiyouyugongzuozhong，zhishiyouyuhepenyouquhejiu、paojiubadengerhushilelaopo，bianhuirangnvxinghenxinhan，dajiadeqingganyehuiyinererbianqian。

三、挽回媳妇得话

xiangwanliuzishenxifu，jiuxuyaomingbai，nijuededemeiyijuhuaquanshichengxinchengyide，bubicunyouyidianxubao，bubijiangleyixierangtagandongdehuayihou，renweizishendexifuhuikuanrongzishenle，jiuyouyicuozaicuozhiqiandehuaixiguanle，yizhidianhuabubuli，yizhichulaiyoujiaoji，yizhigenrenliaoshoujiweixin，wanweibozheixierangtakanjianbukanbuguandegerenxingwei，neijibian xifueryouzaidadechengshougongzuonengli，neidoushihuibeinixiaohao!

“bujingyijian，dajiazaoyitaguoneimehaojigenianfen，danwoquezishizhizhongmeiyouxuehaojiaowangjiqiao，danwohaishihenxiexienideshouhouhekuanrong，yaowoyouzhelehennanwangdehuiyi，qidainishiyiyangdeniantou。womingbaiwojinidaozhilesunhai，chanshengzheileikeguanshishizaishiquehan。jiaruniyeshiyouzheiniantou，qidaikuaijiwoyicijihui。ciciwobuxiangzaifuwuchengnuonaxie，zaizheiduanshijianwonengjiejinsuonengrangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang。jixianghuyiduanshijianlizhiyixiaba，zaidupengmianqidaidajianenggengweixingfukuaile。”

四、提高使用价值

zhongshiyantanjuzhi。hunhounishibushiyizhelalilata、zimingqinggao，ranglaopochengmujieshe?weishenmebuzuochugenggaini?zaiwaimianyineidouliuyizishendeyizhe，tiaoxuangengweiheshizishendetouxingfushi，goutongjiaoliushiliuyizishendeyantanjuzhishibushidedang，jinizaicitianmanfengcai。

mingxiandezerengan。nanshengyizhiqidaibeiyaoqiu，nvxingyizhiqidaiyouyidingdejiezhu。nanrendezerenxinyueda，nvxingdeguishuganbianhuiyueqiang，jiuyuebuxianglikaini。keshitebiezhuyideshi，zerengandechicun，tongchangbingbushigenjukoutoushangfuwuchengnuoertixiande，zhishigenjuxingdonglaishuomingde。yifanqudechenggongdegongzuo，nenglijishuomingniduigongzuoqianxinchengdandexinlizhuangtai，yigeyouliangderenjiguanxiwang，nenggoulijibiaomingniyizhizaiweirenchushishangdedangdanhegerenxinyong。

caiyiqiziwaiyugaizenmeban?wanhuixifudehuagaizenmejiang?zaiyiduanguanlianzhong，nanshengqideyinggaishizhudaodiwei，lijifajuelingyifangdexintaizhuanbian，zuoweinansheng，yiduanlianaiguanxikefouzhangqi，guanjiankantashifouzugouzixi。youyuzixidenanshengnenggoujishichulilianaizhongchuxiandenanti，cushitanenggouyizhiqingchuganqingzhangdaoshangdejingji，weihubaoyanghaotadelianaiguanxi。yinci ，danghunyinshenghuochuxiannantideqingkuangxia，lijidigoutongjiaoliuchuli，bingdiaojiehaolianggerendexiangchumoshi，caikeyirangdajiadeguanlianshizhongruyi。