有外遇的妻子，是不是自己的原因造成的？

zenmezhidaoqiziwaiyu？hunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？youwaiyudeqizizenmeban？hunyinshenghuozhongmianbulepengdaoyixienanti，danglianggerenmeifazuodaozaiqianyishizhonglianjieshi，bulijielingyifangdetihuihezuofa，zhengzhibianhuizaocheng。danglingyifangmangyujiejuezheizhongzhengzhishi，tabianhuiyiciwaidefangfalaihuanjiezishendexintai，liruxiangzishendehaoguimiqingtu、maiyuan，zailirulaogongjingshenchugui。

youwaiyudeqizi，congyuantoushangeryan，qingganguanlianzhongchuxiandeyiqienanti，quanshinanshengdaozhide。youyutameiyoujinhaolingzheyigenvrendeyiwu，caizaochengtazoupianzouwai，meifazuodaoyitongxinyoulingxi。yinci ，tawangwanghuilaogongjingshenchugui，shiyouyuzaihunyinshenghuozhongbunengmanzuzishendeyaoqiu。xunzhaozuishizhideyuangu，danfuzishenyingfudeyiwu，caisuanshizuoweiyigenanrenzuiyingdangyoudedangdan。

一、怎么知道妻子出轨

hunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？zaijiaowangquanguochengzhongnvxingduinidefenqichixuzengjia，xintaiduinibuwenbuhuode，duinimeiyouzhiqiandezaiyi，meishierzongyuenizhengchao，huiduiniyouyidingdebumanyi，changchangzainiyanqiannatarenyunijiaowei，yuelaiyueaimaiyuan，feichangrongyihuibaxiaoshierjibianda，jinerzaochengzhengzhi，chanshengmaodun，henduorenyehuiyinerxiaofenqi，xiaomocaermingquetichuliangdifenjuhuoshiliyi。

zairichanglihuihenzhongshiwaiguanshejipinpaixingxiang，huranjiuyuelaiyuefeichangaichuanzhedaban，henliuyizijidepinpaixingxiang，huibazijichuanzhedabandegengweinvrenyuwumeidongren，gengweihaokan，qingxuhuiyuelaiyuefeichanghao，zhujianmaixinyifu，goumaihufupin，penshangfangxindedanxiangshui，chumenjuhuihuodongyehuiyuelaiyuedaliang。yiqieyigenvrenlveweiyoudianerfengzi，wulunshijiehunqianhuanshijiehunhoudoufeichangrongyibeinanrenjiuchanbuqing，suoyishuo，jiarunidexifuhuranzhujianyongxinchuanzhedabanwaichu，neimazheigeshihounijiuxuyaozhuyile。

zaifuqishenghuozhong，huranyuelaiyuexinglengtan，chuguinvrenhou，zaifuqishenghuoshi，jiuburongyizaineimajiqing，yibuneimalanman，duininenggengweidelengdan，huoshifuyansaize，zheileizhuangkuangyeshifenbianwaiyudeyizhong，zheigeshihoujiuxuyaoliuyiguancha。

dianhuazengjia，shoujishangbubuli，xianliaodeqingkuangxiayouyibeiren，jietingdianhuashishensexiwei，bingqieliniyuanyuandide，haipazhushinideshuangyan，zailiaodianhuaquanguochengzhonghepingshidabuyiyang，jianghuayikouqiyuelaiyuehenshenzhong，yitiandaowantixindiaodande。zheigeshihoujiunengtuicetadayuezaoyichuguile。

二、女人为什么会老公精神出轨

shijuedeshenmeipilao。meiyigerendoushiyouzhuiqiuwanmeimeilidexintai，jiarunijuedejiehunhouhuodeletajiuxiangdangyuhuodelequanbu。keshijiarudanfangdeshiyongjiazhichixutigao，lingyifangquezhibubuqian，bicidabushangyigejunhengdiandeqingkuangxia，nvxingfeichangrongyizaizheigeshihoulaogongjingshenchugui。tahuitiaoxuangengyoushenmiganderenlaitidaini，zhongjiuniyizhiyilaiquanshiyitongyigechuanzhedaban，tongyigetouxing，kanjiuledoushihuini，yinci  nibuyaomaiyuanweishenmenvrenxiaizhuixingzule。

rijiyueleiderichangshenghuolingsui。jiehunhounvxingyingduimeiridouxuyaoyingduidejiawuhuo，tacengduinisaguojiao“yaoqiu”nibangtafentanyidianmeirirenwu。keshiyinweinidedananrenzhuyi，zhongxinlaiguomeiyoubangtazuoleyidingdiandemang。naizhizaijiehunhouchukaiyaojiejuejiawuhuoyeyaojiejuepoxizhijian，ninengfajuetataoyanchangchangzaijialidaizhe，rijiyueleideshenghuosuoshishihuizaochengtahuilaogongjingshenchugui。

waibuyinyou。jiaruzheigeshihounidelaopoduinizaozaoyiyongyoushijuedeshenmeipilao，waibuchixushifangyixingpengyoufengcai，nvxinglaogongjingshenchuguiyeshiyijianhenjiangdichengbendeshier。jiarunilaopoyouqianrenhuoshipengyou，cikedewaibuyinyoujiugengfeichangrongyizaochengnvxinglaogongjingshenchugui。

三、改变现状

shuodaozishenjianshe，genggaibixuyouwaiernei，waizaigenggaijinyin2geyuangu，yishijianyi，ershiheli。bianweiyigegengyoufengcaidenanrenshiyigeduocengcitigaodequanguocheng。pinpaixingxiangshizaiqizhongdouyaodeyihuan。zhenduinanshengeryan，qichangxiangbiyushengjulaidexiangmaozhiguanzhongyao。ninenggenjubaoyanghechuanzhedabandetigaolaijinxingzheiyidian。shijishangdajiapengmiandouxiguanxingxian“budongzhuangdong”，zaigerenxingweiyuyanzhongjibunengjiyulingyifanggongzuoyali，rongmaodabanhuiweiyiqiegerenxingweidadajiafen。

benzhihanyang。jinguanrongmaogengxingaizaoshilijibianjie，danbenzhihanyangshilingyifanggengshencengcichaoyuezijidezhongyao。henduorenshuoshenghuohuanjinghenzhongyao，erwenmudushibujingyijiande，duocanjiahuwaihuodong，shifangyalizishen，jiejiaoxinpengyou，zhaoxunbenshendeshiyongjiazhigenxihao。duoqudushuguan，kafeitingzheizhongdiqu，suzaozishendepinxing，jingxialaidejianjiandigenggai，bujibuzao，dangranhuikanqilaibenzhidechenwen。zheijinguanbingbushinenggoulikedewancheng，kezongyouyitianhuigaoqingchu，zishenjianjiandijianquanleyigeyouquehandezishen。

ganyufuzeren。zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrendeshi，yinci yiwushibicide，bingbukeyibayiwudouwangyifangtui。youqishinanxing，dangyougongzuoyali、youxintaishi，kendingbukeyixiangainiderenxuanxie，xiangtanenghaohaodikuanweini。fanguolaidangainiderenqingxubuhaoshi，jiuxuyaochongfenfahuinanrendezuoyong，jitayigekejiezhudejianbu，zhengqueyindaotazenyanggengqiangdejiejueshier。dangliangrendouxuehaofuzeren，mingbaiziwofansi、genggaishi，jiubiaomingdoushizaifazhan，lianaidengjiyezaitisheng。

四、学好领着

shijianzijintouru。hunyinshenghuoyeshiyizhuanggongzuozhong，weiraonidequanbuxiahoubanbeizi，nigengyaoyongjinzhijinzedexintaiquqingxita。jiehunqian，nixuyaohuafeishijianquzhangwota，haomingquezishenqingkuangleshiduiyucuo，jiurutongjiehunhou，niyebixuhuafeishijianguanaita，haolaogudajiadeguanlian。nihuazaitadeshenshangdeshijianshiduoshao，tahuazainideshenshangdeshijianjiuyouduoshao。yinci ，niyidanxiedailanduole，qinmiwujiandefuqiguanxiyebeilayuanle。

ganqingzijintouru。nvxingbixudeaidefangshi，baohanguanzhu、lejie、zhongshi、zhongshi、tiexin、kuanwei。tahuiduininaopiqi，yehenyoukenenghuiku，keshinanshengdenibuyaoganjuexinfanhefahuo。yiqiezhiyinweinihushileta，yinci tajuedegudu，quefaanquangan。

weichizhangqixingdefuqiguanxi，qiantitiaojianjiushiniwubiyaozijintouru。rutongyigetianpingcheng，yibiandeganqingguanjintaishaole，erlingyibianquenongnongde，yaoxiangbaochiwending，yishishaodeyaotishengzijintouru，ershiduodeyejiangdizijintouru，erdierzhongtiaoxuanfeichangrongyizaochengganqingqianque，guanlianbaochibuxialai。

zenmezhidaoqiziwaiyu?nvrenweishenmehuilaogongjingshenchugui?hunyinshenghuozhongchuxiannantishiyiqiezhengchangde，zhongjiujiaowangjiulerendoushihuizaochengpibei。danniyaozuodeshi，bubirangzheileipibeixiaoqiandajiadeguanlian。xuehaoqulejietadetihui，gaoqingchutazhenshideyaoqiu，bingbuduantigaoziji，gaijindajiadeshenghuozhiliang，caikeyirangdajiadeguanlianbuhuishoudaowaijiedeyingxiang。rutongmaikeleigelaoxianshengsuotiyide，dangwomenderichangshenghuofangfaheguanniancengjigaoxieshi，dajiahuigengmingbairichangshenghuo。xiangduieryan，dajiajiuburongyitaijinjinjijiaorichangshenghuodesuosui。suosuijiangdi，tanlianai、hunyinshenghuozhongdeanquanyinhuanbianhuijianshao。rangtazaiciduidajiaderichangshenghuozaochengxiwangqudongli，zheijiushiniyaozuodeshi。