“genjunixuanzeshenmekouweideshiwulaijieshinidexingge”,“shishangzuizhundexintaiceyan——yidaotilejieni”,fankaibaozhi、zazhi,dakaiwangluo,womensuichukejianleisiyouzhejijuyouhuoxingbiaotidesuoweirengeceyan。
henxianrantamenbujubeikexueceyanyinggaijubeidexindu、xiaodudengzhibiao,yinciwomenguqiechengtamenweifangjianrengeceyan。
buguo,tamensuotigongdejieshiquelingbushaorenshenxinbuyibingzezechengzhun。fangjianrengeceyanjiranbukexue,youzenmenenggoushengchengrangrenjuedeyuzijixinggetedianxiangfuhedemiaoshuni?
qishi,zheiqizhongliyongdaolerenmenyigepubiandexintaixianxiang,jiwomenhuiqingxiangyubayibanhuademiaoshukanchengshiduizijirengedezhunquezongjie,chengweibanamuxiaoying。
zaixintaixueshang,“banamuxiaoying”chanshengdeyuanyinbeirenweishi“zhuguanyanzheng”dezuoyong。zhuguanyanzhengnengduiwomenchanshengyingxiang,zhuyaoshiyinweiwomenxinzhongxiangyaoxiangxin。ruguoxiangyaoxiangxinyijianshi,womenzongkeyisoujidaogezhonggeyangzhichizijidezhengju。
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一、如何避免巴纳姆效应几种途径:
1、ruhebimianbanamuxiaoying?yaoxuehuimianduiziji。youzheiyangyigeceyanrendeqingshangdetimushi:dangyigeluoshuihunmidenvrenbeijiuqihou,taxinglaifaxianzijiyisibuguashi,diyigefanyinghuishiwuzhushenmeni?daanshijianjiaoyisheng,ranhouyongshuangshouwuzhezijideyanjing。
congxintaixueshanglaishuo,zheishiyigedianxingdebuyuanmianduizijidelizi,yinweizijiyou“quexian”huozhezijirenweishiquexian,jiutongguozijifangfabatayangaiqilai,danzheizhongyangaishijishangyexiangshangmiandeluoshuinvrenyiyang,shibazijiyanjingmengshang。suoyi,yaorenshiziji,shouxianbixuyaomianduiziji。
2、peiyangyizhongshoujixinxidenengliheminruidepanduanli。henshaoyourentianshengjiuyongyoumingzhiheshenshendepanduanli,shijishang,panduanlishiyizhongzaishoujixinxidejichushangjinxingjuecedenengli,xinxiduiyupanduandezhichizuoyongburonghushi,meiyouxiangdangdexinxishouji,hennanzuochumingzhidejueduan。
3、ruhebimianbanamuxiaoying?yirenweijing,tongguoyuzijishenbianderenzaigefangmiandebijiaolairenshiziji。zaibijiaodeshihou,duixiangdexuanzezhiguanzhongyao。zhaoburuzijiderenzuobijiao,huozhenazijidequexianyubierendeyoudianbi,douhuishizhipianpo。yinci,yaogenjuzijideshijiqingkuang,xuanzetiaojianxiangdangderenzuobijiao,zhaochuzijizaiquntizhongdeheshiweizhi,zheiyangrenshiziji,caibijiaokeguan。
4、tongguoduizhongdashijian,tebieshizhongdadechenggongheshibairenshiziji。zhongdashijianzhonghuodedejingyanhejiaoxunkeyitigonglejiezijidegexing、nenglidexinxi,congzhongfaxianzijidezhangchuhebuzu。yueshizaichenggongdedianfengheshibaidedigu,jiuyuenengfanyingyigerendezhenshixingge。
zongzhi,fangjianrengeceyanhuoxukeyinalaizaikongxianshihouyuleyixiaziji,danjincieryibianshi。ruguoxiangyaozhenzhengdelejieziji,jieshoukexuejianyanderengejiancehuishigenghaodexuanze。
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