人为什么要有偷窥欲？

 youyigewangyouzaixintaizixunqunliqiuzhu：“wotongxuezuowanfaxinxilai，shuowuyijianfaxiantalaogongyougewangyuanjing，huitoukuifujinbinguan，wenwogaizenmeban？woshizaijuedehendanandu，meiyoujingyan，suoyiqingjiaoyixiageweitoukuiyuzhiliao。”

 gezhonghuifudouyou，dabufenxintaizixunshiliaotianshitanranchengrenzijineizaiyeyoutoukuideyuwang，shenzhidiaokan：“zhengyinweiyouletoukuideyuwangcaixuelexintaixue”。

 yourenzishu，ouerhui“meng”daozijiguangzhepigu，chuanchaoduanqunzaidajieshang，bujinganshoudaoliangshuangdeweifeng，hainengganshoudaoqunzibeifengxianqilaihouzhouweirenyanjingdesaodong，ranhouhunshenyizhennanyiyanchuandeyuyuemimanquanshen……

qishi，dangzijifaxianzaiweixinpengyouquanyitiaozijishenghuozhaopianhuoxinxihouhuodewushudianzanshidekuaigan，heqixiangsi！

neicongxintaixueshang，weishenmeyaoyoutoukuiyuni？ruozhidaoyuanyincaikenengzhenduixingdequjiejuelaogongtoutoumaiwangyuanjingdewenti。

一、为什么要有偷窥欲呢？

1、学习成长的需要

 laidaozheigeshijieshangdemeigeren，doushicongyiwusuozhikaishi，shengcundebennengxuyaoduirenheweizhiyitanjiujing，yinsizuoweipingshinanyijiechudaodexinxi，gengnengjiqihaoqihetanqiuyu。ruyiweinvhaizishuxiaoshihoudezhihaoyoulaileyuejing，zijiquemeiyou，zainanguodetongshikaishi“fengkuangdetoukui”，kejianxiuxishibuguanyouwubianyi，douyaoshangcesuo，xiangzuozeisidetoukanbieren，zhishixiangzhidaoshibushibanshangdemeigenvhaizidouyoule“yuejing”。zhongyuyouyitian，“yuejing”guangguleziji，genjuyoutoukuiyudejingyan，bufeichuihuizhilijiuxuehuileshiyongweishengjin。

2、寻求肯定的需要

 meiguoxintaixuejiazhanmushishuoguo:“renleibenzhizhongzuiyinqiedexuqiushikewangbeikending。”，yueshikandaonanyikandaodedongxi，jiuyueshiyoumanzugan、chengjiugan。kuitanbierendeyinsi，dezhileshenbianrenbuzhidaode“mimi”，keyitongguoxiemilaixianshiziji“zhidaobibierengengduo”，congerrangzhouweirenkendingzijibutongxunchangdenengli。

3、安全的需要

 zaimasiluodexuqiucengcililunzhongqizhongyigecengcijiushianquanxuqiu，yinsidebaohuzhijieyingxiangdaoyigerendeanquangan，weileburangzijideyinsibaolueryingxiangzhengchangdeshenghuo，renmenzaitoukuibierenyinsidetongshiweizijideyinsishangleshuangzhongbaoxian：bujinwuyishidexiqubierenyinsibeipudejiaoxunlaiwanshanzijiyinsibaohucuoshi，haizhunbeizaizijiyinsishoudaoduifangweixieshiyongzuofangshougongjidewuqi。

 yuzhangquanzhelaishuo，toukuideyuwangkeyiyinzhangwozheduifangguanxidezhudongquanerzhuzaizhezhenggejumian，gengyoukongzhigan，tongguokongzhilaishixianneixindeanquangan。

4、宣泄欲望的需要

 fuluoyiderenwei，“yichang”biaoxianshizhengchangbiaoxianwufamanzuyuanwangdejieguo。yayideyuwangxuyaoxuanxie，youdexuanxiebuweishehuisuojieshou，ruwuchushifangdexingyu，weilemanzuzheizhongyuanshidebennengxuqiu，youbuyinchufanshehuijinjierfuchudaijia，henduorenjiuhuixuanzeyongtoukuiyuzhiliao。lingwai，tuposhehuijinjihuijirendailaixiankonghouyuedejudaxingfen，huichengbeideshifangyayideyuwang。

 kejian，toukuishiyizhongguangfandeyuanwang，danruochengweishihao，zaixintaixuecengmianshangbeichengwei“haoqixinguosheng”huo“haoqixinshikong”，zaijinyibu，jiushi“haoqixinbiantai”。ercongfalvcengmianbiaoxian，xiaodaogerenyinsiqinfan，dadao《qietingfengbao》zhongquanminbeitoukuidekongbutongzhi。