相亲失败很喜欢对方不想放弃，如何挽留相亲对象？

qiafengjiehunnianlingderenmenshichanghuimomodichishenpangpengyoumendequanliang，huoshishiyiguoqinghuijialeshiyingduiqidagubadayideguanzhupancha，zheigeshihouneixinzongshihuiduizishendedanshennannvqingkuangjuedefeichangganga，neimaxiangqinjiubianchengyizhongkuaisudegaobiedanshenfangshi。ruhewanliuxiangqinduixiang？

 zhongguoshijishangyouhenduorendiyiciyuehuibianshixiangqin，keshixiangqinyeshiyimendaxuewen，haodexiangqinhuishouqianshoujungui，butaihaodexiangqinzehuiwunaidaowanbi。

neimawomenzaixiangqindeqingkuangxia，daodiyinggaizenmezuoni?

xiangqinshidediyicijianmiandeyiyibingmeiyouyibianrangmeizhiduiniyouganjue，xuduoqingkuangxiawomenyaohuaizhe“liaoyiliaokan，nenggourenshiyixia”deguannianquhexiangqinmubiaochupengdehua，biciguanlianfanerhuigengshufu。

相亲一般能够分成三环节：

yi.diyiciyuehuiweichujian，jianjianmianliaoyixia。

yibanhuichuxianfumuhuoyaoqingrenzaipang，dizhiyibanweijiutingtang，chaguan，kafeiguandenggonggongchangsuo。

cicijianmianzhuyaoshixiangxijieshaoliangfanglejie，xianghuzhijiandagezhaomian，zhangwojibenziliao。zuizhongnenggouliuyoulianxidianhua，chengnuoxiayicijianmiandeshijian。

er.diercishinanhaihenvhaisidixiayuehui，zhangwolingyifangdegerenaihao，sanguandeng。ruhewanliuxiangqinduixiang？

cicicaisuanshixiyinzhutarendeqingkuangxia，diyicijianmianbicitongchangbuzizai，bianshizougepiantou。

怎样观查女性心态：

1.zaidiercijianmiandeqingkuangxia，nenggouguanchameizhichuannayangdefuzhuanglaifenbianmeizhiduicicixiangqindexintai。jiaruchuandehensuibian，neihenyoukenengtabutaigaoduzhongshicicixiangqin，jiaruxianzhuchuanzhedabandehenrenzhen，neibiaomingzaidiyicijianmiandeqingkuangxiaduiniyinxianghuoshibucuode。

2.nenggouwandaoshufenzhong，kanmeizishibushihuizebeini，lingyifangxintaijiaoweilvzhensuihe，biaomingduinixingquaihaohuoshiyoude。neimajianmianhounenggoujijilingzhelingyifangkaizhanxiamiandebuzhou，zuibihuiwennvxingxiamianganshenme。bubiqujibieyouqigaodediquxiaofei，neiyangnenggougenghaosipenyoujiandegongchu，gongzuoyalibingbuda。

dierciyuehuiqinei，womenkeyigenjuyixiexiaoxiaoxijielaizengjinbicizhijiandeguanlian，liru：jinshideguochengzhongmeizhiyexuhuizuibianzhanyouwupin，nenggoubangtacaxi，jiarumeizhibingbudichu，biaomingtaduiniyouyidinghaogandu;

huoshiyiqizailushangdeguochengzhongnenggouchanshengyixiewuyijiandepengchu，lirushouyudaolingyifang，kanmeizishifouhuishanduo。

san.disancijianmianshigenjudiercijianmiandouyouhaogandeqingxingxia，kaizhangengshenrudegoutongjiaoliu，nenggouzaiciciyuehuiliquedingguanxi。

nenggoudainvshengguangyiguangshangchang，zheierjiaoweijiajushenghuohua，nengrangbicizaochengyizhongzhihouhuizhangqixingxiangchudejuede。

quanbuliuchengzhongnenggoujiugezhonggeyangchanpinkaizhantantao，xiangqinglvlaigouwuneiban。

keshiwanshidouhuiyouchuwai，jiaruyizhaolimiandefangshixiangqinmeiqudechenggonggaizenmeban?

kandandian，zhongjiubicijinjinxiangqinlejiede，jinjinzaichengnuodetiaojianxia，kaizhanchuzhongjijianmian，yiqiannimenbicizhijianyebulejie，meiyouganqingjichu。

nimendexiangzhixiangshi，jinjingoujianzaiyizhongzhuguanxingyishixingtaigongzuoshang，yincixiangqinchedishigenjujianmianlaijueceshibushixiai。

jiandandejiang，bianshikantouyuan，meiyouchongfendeshijianduanlaizengjinganqing，jiarudiyiciyuehuizhuyaobiaoxianbuxingdehua，nanyiniuqulingyifangdeyinxiang。

xiangqinshiliangrenzhenduihunyinaiqingxianghuzhijiantiaoxuandequanguocheng，bingbushidangranchanshengdeguanlian，gengsiyuyizhong“maimai”。

tachayiyuyibantanlianai，yibantanlianaidaliangdeshigoutongjiaoliu，zheileigoutongdeshizhanghuijiaozhang，zhuzhongdeshigongchuyihouyitongjileiqilaideganqingjiben。

erxiangqin，daliangdeshihanyoumaimaideqichang，jueceshengbaide，tongchangxukanbiciyingbiaozhunheruanbiaozhunjieheqilaishibushiduideng。

jiarunvshengshuotabuxihuanni，biaomingniyizhizaiyingbiaozhunhuoruanbiaozhunshangbingmeiyouzuodaotamanyideguifan。

yincijiaruxiangqinbuchenggong，yibanquanshinanyizhuihuide，tongchangxuyaohaofeibeishudeshijianjingliheshijianqutigaoziji，caikeyizuodaotadeguiding。

jiaruxiangqinbuchenggongyoushifenxiangzhuihuidehua，womenjianyishixianpouxizishenshenmedifangbugou。

ninengzixidihuiyiyixia，qianlianghuideyuehuizhong，nishibushizhanxianleyixiebutaihaodecengmianjita。

liru，jianghuadaizanghuamaren，yizhebutuo，daibanzhixiaopin.pintoulunzu.yangaoyuding.ziwoweizhongxin.bumingbailanman.taiguopuluxuqiuganzheixie。

xuduoqingkuangxia，nvshengdoufeichangbijiaomingan，youqishiduiyigeyiqianconglaibuzhangwodenanhaizi，yexuniwuyideyijuhuahuoyigecuoshi，bianhuizaitaxinlixingchengbutaihaodeyinxiang，jinerzhuguanxingdijiangniquhuadaotataoyandenazhongleibiedenanhaizilibian。

ziran，yeyouciwaiyizhonghenyoukeneng。

jiarutazaizuihouyiciyuehuihouduinishuo“nixihuanwoshenme，danwoduiniganjuebuhao，nihuoshizhaoyigebiwogengqiangdeba。”

taweishenmehuineimeshuo，henkenengshiyouyu：“tayaoxiangyigepingguo，danniquejitayigeli。”

jiandandianlaishuo，nigelingyudouhenchuse，tayelejienirenhenfeichanghao，danniyejiubingbushitaxihuandeleixing。

rutongnishigewenyixiaoqingnian，renhenfeichanghao，keshilingyifanggengxihuanpishuaidayezhongleidenanhaizi，ganjuebuhaoyeshihenchangguide。

ruguoshineiyang，neimejiuzhiyoushuoming，nishibunengmanzutadeguifande，taxiangzhaogeyitonggerenaihao，yitongdejiazhizhuiqiuwanmeideren，danniquebingbushi。

假如确实很喜欢另一方，可是另一方又对你不感兴趣，相亲情况下的挽留提议：

一.断掉联络

xuduonvshengzaixiangqinqian，doushihuixiangxiangxiangqindemubiao，zhidaojianmianhou，fajuegenzishenxiangxiangdeyouhendajinchu，xinlizhuangtaishangdangranhuichuxianqifu。

jinguanyihouhenyoukenengyinweiwenminglimaozaiciyuehuileyiliangci，danzuizhongrengranhenyoukenenghuijueni。

beijujuehou，bubizheji，xianhetafenshouyiduanshijian，buhuizaiyaoyue，gengbunengquguitiannanhewanhui。

jiaruniyiweidesipilailian，budanbukeyizaochengtarendehaogandu，fandaozhiyoubatalakai，rangtayulaiyuyanjuanni，zuizhonglianxiaohuobandoumeiyouzuo。

二.提高自己

zaimeiyoulianluotadezheiduanshijianli，nixuyaotigaozijishiyongjiazhi，xiangaizhengzishenbuhaodexiguan，rangtaduiniguamuxiangkan。

zhuyishixiangxiangqindeshijianduanhenduan，cainenghebenshenhanyangbutaikenengzaihaoduogezhongtouneijiuduitachedizhanxianchuqu，nixuyaozhanxianzishentakanbujiandeyimian，neiyangcaihaiyoujihuiweilainizhuan。

liru，diyiciyuehuinidezhuyaobiaoxianbudahao，nvxinghenyoukenengzhuguanxingdipanduannishejiaoquantaizhai，huoshibumingbaifengqu，huoshimeiyoushenghuolequ，neimenihoubianjiugenjuweixinpengyouquanchengxianchuqu，rangtakandao，rangtaganjuezishendangshikanzouleyan。

三.试着再度邀约

zhidaoqudechenggongdaozhitadeliuyihou(liruweixinpengyouquanyoudianerzan，hudongjiaoliu)，nenggouxianshizhejianyideketaowenhao，bubijiqiepuluxuqiugan。

yiqiedengyouhaoduzuodaonenggouyaoyuedeguifanhou，zaiwanchengxuanbuyaoyue。

yaoyuedetuociqiebukeshiwoaini，xiangnila，xiangniannizheilei，buranhuidaozhitarendedanyouhenankan。

zuihaoyiciyibandangrandeyuehui，liruqiahaoyoubuyoushendudedianyinggongying，zhenghaoniyebumingbai，nenggouyiqi。

zhixulingyifangtongyiyaoyue，neimabianhuiyoushihou，qiebukezheji。

四.从盆友开始做起

xiangqinyoubieyuchuduixiang，tashiyizhonghenlijideliangxingguanxipeiduifangfa，zhenduixinghenqiang。

zaochengxuduonvshengjuedeyidantongyita，jiuxuyaogentawanhun，meilezaixuanyongdequanlile。

shijishangzheigelijieshicuode，xiangqinjinjinwei2gedanshennannvderenshengchanzhizaoyichangqiaoyu，duiyuwanchengshifou，haidekaobiciaiqingdejiaohuhetiwen。

yinci，dangnengzuodaoyaoyuetadeshuipinghou，niyinggaixianyihaopengyoudezigequchupengta，zailejiedehuanjiezhong，jianjiandizhanxianzigedecaiqingheyoushi，suihoucongpenyouzhuanhuancheng“haopenyou”，zuizhongzaigengxindaoqinglvguanlian。

ganqingbingbushidenglaide，shikaoxingdonghefangfa，jiqiyikezhenzhidexinhuandede。

ruhewanliuxiangqinduixiang？neima，jiuqinglikexingdongqilaiba，zhuzhuweidechangsuoyuan。