和相亲男友如何聊天？怎么拒绝相亲对象?

hexiangqinnanyouruheliaotian？rujindenianqingren，jindaoshehuifazhan，jindaogangwei，meiyouchuduixiangdezhunbei。jieguotamendaolebuhunzudehuanjie。xiangqinyuehuizaoyibianchengyizhongpubianxingdexinlai。qiahaoshiyouyudahuoerpingchanghushilebenrenganqingwenti，caiyouhenduorentiaoxuanhuoshipobudeyixiangqinyuehui。zenmejujuexiangqinduixiang?

第一，立即告知另一方

rujinrichangshenghuohenjiaolvqingxu，henjicongcong。meirenyouneimeduohuolibaguoduoshijianxiaohaozaiduoyuderendeshenshang。jiaruniduitameiyouganjue，zhijieshuo，gaozhilingyifangnibushiwoxiangzhaodeneiyizhongren，yebingbushiwoxihuandeleixing。rentinglehuirenweinihenliji，feichangjiandan，burongyiduojiuchanbuqing。jiarutamengaoqingchuzheixiedadaoli，dangranburongyixiaohaobierendeshijian。yinci，jiarutamenbuxihuan，keyilijidaqideshuochuqu。

第二，渐渐地生疏

gangkaishijiaoweiketao，xianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliu，keshixiamianjiarubuxihuantaren，keyijianjiandishengshulingyifang，qiaoqiaodeduanjuelianluo。lirunibuyonghetajianghuadeqingkuangxia，diercihuiying，youshihouhuiyingtayiliangju。jiarubierennichulaiwan，ninengsuiyizhaogetuocishuojiabanjiadian。shijianzhangle，tarendangranhuilejienideyisi，burongyizuohenduodejiuchanbuqing。

第三，别随意接受另一方的礼物

hexiangqinnanyouruheliaotian?bubijieshoulingyifangdeliwuzheiyihenzhongyao。ruguonibuquedingxinglingyifangnengfouhenizaiyiqideqingkuangxia，qianwanbiesuiyijieshoulingyifangsongdeliwu。jiarulingyifangdeliwufeichangjiandan，youdianergui，zaisuonanmianyoudianernanjiejue。benrentiyibushishouyebushou。