相亲女孩说不合适怎么挽回，高情商的男人这么挽回

zuijinheanlihundehuatinaodefeifeiyangyang，danlihundeyuanyinshianjuedebugouxinggan。fenshoudeqimiaoliyouyehenchangjian。danshifenshoudeliyoubingbuhaipaqipa，zhishihaipayibiaobaijiubeifahaorenka。dangyigenvrenshuo，“nihenhao，danshiwomenbushihe”youshihou，qingshanggaodenanrenjiuzheiyangwanhuile。xiangqinnvhaishuobuheshizenmewanhui？

一、问其原因，对症下药

yigexuebadepengyoushilianaizhongdexiaobai。zhongyuyouyitian，tadakailetou，kanshangleyigenvhai。dangwojuedewoyijingzhidaotadexinuaile，wodexingquaihaojiuxiangwodeshoubeiyiyangzhunbeibiaobaishi，wobeiyijuhuashuole“nihenhao，womenbuheshi”dangtouyibang。

jiranshuobudui，jiuwenweishenme。dangnixuexideshihou，nihuidaposhaguo，wendaodi。xianzainituisuole？ruguoshuobuheshi，jiufangqi，huogaidanshen。

zhiyaoniwen，nvrenjiuhuigaosuniweishenmebuheshi。jiaruliyoushiqiangrensuonan，neimenijiukeyijishizhisun，fouzezuihoulianpengyoudoubuhuidang。

jishinvrenhanhubuqing，niyeyaobaogenjiudi，zhiyaoyouyifangsongdekongjian，jiuyaolijizuochuzhengquedeyao。

shishishang，nvhaishineixinrouruandedongwu，“nihenhao，womenbushihe”shijishangshiyizhongfeichangweiwandejujue。danshicongmingdenanhaizhidaoruhezaizheigeshihouyongxinqugandongnvhai。

jiaruniyizhizhizheyuzheigenvhai，tashuodewentinidouqugaizheng，xiangxinzongyouyitiannihuibaodemeirengui。

二、伺机动引他投资

lianaiguodenanrenjingchangtingdaonvrenshuowomenbuheshi。mianduishenghuodeyali，xuduonanrenmeiyoulianaidejingli。yaoyudaoyigelingrenxingfendenvhaibingburongyi。tamenyikaishijiulaile。shuozheibuheshishiduizixindedaji。

fenxiangwozhouweiyigepengyouzhuizhunvshenzuichenggongdelizi。dangtakaishixiangnvshentanbaishi，nvshenyelimaodijujuele，binggaosutanihenhao，shihegenghaodenvhai。

zheigegemenzhidaozheijuhuadeyisishitaziji“meixi”danshitameiyoufangqi，kaishihenvshenzuopengyou。buyuejie，buaimei，zhishihenzhaoguta，duitahenhao。xiangqinnvhaishuobuheshizenmewanhui？

houlaizheigenvhaiyexiguanlehetazaiyiqi，houlaijigenanhaidoujuedebugoutashi，youanquangan。

houlaiyouyitian，wogegehetadenvhaishuotayaoquxiangqin，nvhaidangchang“fanlian”haoba，gaosuta，tabunengqu，tayaoyizhipeizheziji。houlaitamenjiehunle，tebietianmi。

budebushuo，wodegemenshi“renrufuzhong”henzhangyiduanshijian。danshirenmendefangfazhendehendongren。zaiganqingshang，rangduifangxiguannidecunzai，ranhoudangshuangfangdoufuchuleyidingdedaijia，turanlikai，zheishirenherendouwufajieshoude。

kanlaicongmingdenanrenbudanbuhuibeinvhaijujuehouqinei，haihuibeidongbianchengzhudong，zhenshitaihaole。

三、知使坏欲擒故纵

suhuashuodehao：“nanrenbuhuai，nvrenbuai。”nanrenyuehuai，yuebuqueding，yuemiliannvren“yuntouzhuanxiang”。

qishimianduinvshengdeweiwanjujue“nihenhao，danshiwomenbushihe”zheizhongshuofa，ruguoshipizidehuainanren，jueduibuhuiqiunvshengzaijizijiyicijihui。

danshi，shishiyeshiruci，yueshiqiqiunvhai，jieguoyebulixiang，zhuishangnvhaidekenengxingjiuyuexiao。

daxuedeshihou，tingtongxueshuotadeshiyouzhuitaxihuandenvsheng，kanchengxianzaifanquandenvsheng。“tiangou”aiqingfengge。jinvhaimaifan，dashui，xiyifu，qingxigouwuche，maqianmahou。

zuihou，nvhaizhaodaolezijideyige“anqianmahou”yigenanhaizheiyangsihoubieren。

henduoxiongdizaizhuinvhaideshihou，zhizhidaoshashadeduitahao，shenmeshidoukaota，jishitayuelaiyuebuzhenxini。

tahuifazineixindiyouyizhongyouyuegan，renweizijihenhao，henduonanhaidengzhezhuizhuziji，huiyuelaiyuejuedenibuzhideta，dengdaini，wulunshibeitaihaishi“womenbuheshi”。

yinci，niyinggaixuehuisuixinsuoyudiquxiaota。duinixihuandenvhaihaoshihenzirande，danniyeyinggaiyouyuanze，rangtashiyingnidehaogan，tongshilengluota。

shishishang，duinvhaidezhuiqiuxuyaozhuyifangfaheshenmigan。yuexiangyizhangbaizhi，taduinijiuyuebuganxingqu。tayinggaixuehuiduitabuhao，gaosutano。

zhiyoubuganzouchanggui，tayongyuancaibudaoni，duinihaoqi，chongmanxinxiangan，zheijiushinvhaisuoweideganjue。

zainvhaimianqian，nishiyigeyoumoyouqudenanhai，tahuixihuanhenitanlunta，henizaiyiqihuiyouganjue。

xiangqinnvhaishuobuheshizenmewanhui？wuliao，wuliao，meishenmekelijiede。herenheyigenvhaixiangbi，taduinidoubuhaoqi。