和我分手就把我拉黑了，女友要分手怎么样才能挽留？

 hewofenshoujiubawolaheile，nvyouyaofenshouzenmeyangcainengwanliu？meiyiduiqingganzhizhong，doushihuinanyibimiandechanshengzhengzhi。huozheyouyuyigexiaoguanjiandian，huozheyishichongdong。guohou，henduorenhuihuihenneishihousuojinxingdeyijuyidong。danshimeishier，jibiandajiarujingennvpengyoufenshoule，huoshiyoufangfakaizhanwanliude。

策略一：在行动上放仪式感来表述你对她的爱慕之心

 nvyouyaofenshouzenmeyangcainengwanliu？doushuoyuyanbiaodashixiaoaige，xingdongshiyuanjuren。zheiyidianyongzaiganqingshangyeshifenqiehe。nvyouyunifenshoule，wulunshizenmehuishi，nixiangyaowanliuta，jiuxuyaomingbaijiangyiwangqingling，congjintiankaishizaiciyaoqiuta。nixuyaojiangniduitadeaimuzhixinyonghuodonglaibiaoshu。

 zheileixingdongyaohanyouyishigan，zaijiejiaririhuoshichuantongshijieri，nidounenggouhaohaodiyunyongqilai，weitasongshangyishouge，huoshifengshangyishumeiguihua，huoshisongshangyigebiaoshuganqingdelipin，rangtahetazhoubianderendouganjuedaonishihenaitade，zheileiyishigandibiaoshuganqing，jiusuanshizuoxiuyiyang，zuishaoranggeweilejienixiangyaoweitaneimezuo。nvhaishijishangxinlidoushiyouaimuxurong，ruguonidadaoletazheiyidianaimuxurong，xiangxinnijiunengzaochengtadeliuyi，naizhirangtahuiguotoulaizaiciaizheni。

策略二：学点撩妹策略，多哄她高兴

 nvpengyouyaofenshouzenmewanhui？nvyouquanshiyaohongde。tawangwangyunifenshou，yidingshinimenzhongjiandejiaowangrangtatiyandaobuyukuai。ruguonibumingbaizenmehongta，hebushangzaiwangshangkantoulianaixinlixuededianzishuji，zaishangmianxuezheijigechangyongzhaoshiliaomeidecelve，wangwangzuozheizhongkecheng，shijishangquanshiweilenengnenggougenghaodiaita。

 tangruoxianzaiqingxushangduosikaoyibu，jiunengzhangwofenshouhoutaneixinxiangxienaxie，suihouchuhuyiliaodichaochutadeqidaijinxing，neiyangnibianhuikaixinqilaiqilai。ruguoninengrangtakaixindeshiqingduole，neimanibianhuizaiduchuangjintaderichangshenghuo，tadesuantiankuladoushihuiyuniyouguan。ruguonimendexiangchumoshishiyuyuede，tabianhuijianjiandiwangdiaozheixiebuyue，jinerganshoudaohenizaiyiqidexingfu。

策略三：忘掉她的缺陷，逐渐做她的粉絲，赏析她

 haodeaiqingbingbushimeiyouguofenshou，zhishifenshouyihoumingbaifansiziji，shangxibierendeyoudian，jinerxunzhaonenggougenghaodihetarenjiaowangdefangfa，fenshouhouninenggengweiqingxidigaoqingchunimenzhongjiandexianxiangfashengzainaer。

 nvyouyaofenshouzenmeyangcainengwanliu？ruguoninengzuixianbazijidiaozhengdaogenlingyifangganglejiedezheizhongqingkuangyubierengongchu，neimaniyidinghuizuodebimuqianhaodeduo。ganqinglibuledeshiaihelejiejiqiduilingyifangdeshangxi，neimacongjintiankaishi，gaibianxianzhuangguoquduilingyifangdefouren，zuolingyifangdefensi，meiyouliyoudifuchita，shangxita，rangtatiyandaoniyutazaiyiqi，meiyouduiyucuo，jinyoushuxindexingfukuaile。

 zongdelaishuo，wanhuinvyou，jiuxuyaozaidukaiqitadexinfangzi，zaicijienaziji。haohaodipouxiyuangu，haohaodidequgoutongjiaoliu。bingzaiyicidezhuiqiuwanmeita、dadongta。dangnvyouganshoudaodajiadezhenxinshiyi，jiuyidinghuihehaoruchu。