完全的亲密会害怕被吞没 爱是流动的吗？

 aishangzenyangderen？jinglibeiyanmeiwaishangderenlaoxiangtaochu，lejielezheiyidian，jiukeyilejienanrenyunvrendezhuduobutongdian。neimeaishangtaderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

 liruzaixingshenghuozhong，xuduo nvrenbingbuxiangyouxingshenghuozishen，danjuedabufennvrendouyouqixiangyouxingshenghuoqianhouzuoyoudeneileiwenrou，shiyouchongyudexingqianxi，erxingshenghuohouzaihaohaodibaoyihuier。

 keshi，pianyaoyouhenduonanren，jibuyuanyiyouxingqianxi，yebuyuanyixingshenghuohouxiangyong。youqishiduixingshenghuohoudexiangyong，xuduo nanrenzaijuedeshangmianshifenpaichi。

 xingshenghuohoubuxiangyong，huirangnvrenhentoule，tamenhuixiangzheiyinanrenshifoubatamenzuoweilexinggongju，eryagenmeiyouganqing。aishiliudongde，danzainanrenlaikan，tamenxinliyigemimidexiangshengshi，ruguoshichedideqinmiwujian，zishenbianhuibeiyanmei，zishenbianhuixiaotui。

 wodeyigeqiuzhuzhejiushizheiban，tameiyicihelaopoxingshenghuohou，aishangzenyangderen？doubuyuanyixiangyong，yaobushizuoyihuier，yaobushizhanliqilaizouyizou，zongzhibianshibuyuanyizaiciqinmiwujiandibaozaiyiqi。duiyucishi，tabiaoshushuo：“wobuganhelaopotaiqinmiwujian，neiyangyilaifangfojiudechengshouyigezhongren。”

 dandangwomenshitaduotanyitanzhongrenshi，tadiyigexiangqidezhongrenshimuqin。yukyiyang，tayeganjuemuqinbatadangzuoleweiyi，yeyuyalishandayiyang，tademuqinyeshichixuzaitayanqianbianditadefuqin。

nanrenweilegenghaodixingerqing，nvrenweilegenghaodiqingerxing;

nanrenmeiyourenti，nvrenmeiyoulinghun;

nanrenshisuiyidedongwu，nvrenshiguanliandedongwu;

nanrenshigongzuodedongwu，nvrenshiganqingdedongwu;

……

 xiangzhishangzheizhongyouguannanrenyunvrendejiaofa，shijishangyuangudounenggouguinaweiyidian，nanrenguanjianzaodaodeshibeiyanmeidewaishang，ernvrenguanjianzaodaodeshibeiyiqidewaishang。youyupabeiyanmei，yinci nanrenyaotaochuqinmiwujian;youyupabeiyiqi，yinci nvrenyaozhuiqiuwanmeiqinmiwujian。

 taochuqinmiwujiandenanrenzongyouyigekuanweitademubiao，yalishandadeshichengbashijie，kafukadeshixiewangluoxiaoshuo。erdabufennanrenfeichangrongyimishangyigeshiqing，feichangrongyiyouyigexihao，taochuqinmiwujianzuishaoshiyigeguanjianyuangu。

 zuicaogaodeshi，nanrenyaotaowangciwaiyigenvrenneibian。zaiwobaomingcanjiadewasulaoshide“aideguanlian”yantaohuizhong，sanjiaolianbianchengyigezhutifengge，daochangdehenduoxueshengdouxianzaisanjiaolianmianzhong，zaiqizhongyeyouxuduoxueshengshifufulianggerenyiqilaishouke，xiangjiejuehaozheiyimiande。jieguofajue，zhuiqiumengxianghesuiyi(shijishangshitaochuqinmiwujian)，shiyouhunyinchuguidenanrendeyigeguangfanxiangsheng。"

 liruyigexueshengshuo：“woshuzuiduoyuanquchu50%dexinjifuren，chucizhiwaishiwoxuduo lixiang，weilegenghaodiwanchengwodeyuanwang，wonaizhihuishuohuangpianxifu，bianshiweilegenghaodihuodezishendelixiangheshineikongjian。”

 tahaishuo：“woershimuqinjiaoweigudan，youqijiushiwobudadeqingkuangxia，woduoshaosuishi，jingchangyijuexinglaifajuebeimuqinlaolaodihuaizheku。”

 tajiehunhouyou2cihunwailian，aishangtaderen,dantashuodaojingqueeryanshi“hunhouchugui”，tajinjinzaizhaoxuncijixingbale。neiyangganlehou，“diyishikuijiu，diershibiequ，youyuhunhouganjueshiquzishen，dayuedabannianba，chedihetazaiyiqi，wohentongchu，youyuwokanbujiantaiyangguang”。